Books I Recommend to Bring Us Together – Day 29 of Handmade

Together

We usually associate most comfortably with people who are similar to us.

Even if we want to meet people outside of our culture, it’s not always easy to do if they’re just not here and not available where we are.

Except. . .

Books! They can bring us together in unexpected ways.

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Books introduce us to people we wouldn’t know otherwise. And places. And circumstances.

And who knows? We might later use our new knowledge even among the people we already do know.

The four books I finished this month brought me together with other cultures that I don’t live in and brought me closer to God.

Here are the 2 novels and 2 non-fiction books I recommend from what I finished reading in October. Once a month we share our current reading list at Jennifer’s.

Books I Recommend

FICTION

1. Mudbound
by Hillary Jordan

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It’s 1940s in the Mississippi Delta. White city-girl Laura McAllan has had to move to farming country to live her husband’s dream. She befriends a family of black sharecroppers on their land. Each character in this novel has a unique struggle as they are forced to make a life together.

2. Stay with Me
by Ayobami Adebayo

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Set in Nigeria, this book travels back and forth in time to tell the polygamous love story of Yejide and Akin. It’s painful at times as Yejide struggles with infertility, and as she learns her husband has taken a second wife.

NON-FICTION

3. How Not to Get Shot
And Other Advice From White People
by D. L. Hughley

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This book is by a black comedian and satirist D. L. Hugley. He writes suggestions for how black people can avoid getting shot in encounters with police and white people. It has some rough language at times, and it is quite funny in places, but the message of danger and injustice is a serious one and it comes through loud and clear in between the laughs.

4. God of Tomorrow
How to Overcome the Fears of Today and Renew Your Hope for the Future
by Caleb W. Kaltenbach

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Pastor Kaltenbach writes on a huge range of cultural issues. I don’t agree with all of his biblical interpretations, but I do agree with his tone of love and trust and hope. He invites us to respond to each other with more grace than we have been. He successfully repeats the truth again and again that relying on the God of tomorrow helps us live better today.

My review here of God of Tomorrow

READING NOW

  • A Prayer for Owen Meany
    by John Irving
  • The Last Ballad
    by Cash Wiley
  • Raise Your Voice
    Why We Stay Silent and How to Speak Up
    by Kathy Khang
  • 21 Lessons for the 21st Century
    by Yuval Noah Harari
  • Resist and Persist
    Faith and the Fight for Equality
    by Erin Wathen
  • Remember Death
    The Surprising Path to Living Hope
    by Matthew McCullough 

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Have you traveled outside your home country?

(2) Do you have friends who are very different than you in some way?

(3) Has God ever used a book to change the way you view something or someone?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) El Salvador and Guatemala

(2) Yes, especially in the last 5 years. It’s been eye-opening and soul-growing.

(3) God uses books all the time to teach me new things and change my mind about old things.

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Begin with Worship – Day 28 of Handmade

Song

How do you describe “worship”?

In a secular context, we’d describe how fans worship a famous actor or sports star.

But in the church world, we’d typically describe Sunday mornings.

Sunday morning church is often referred to as a “Worship Service.” It is somewhat accurate; we do offer God our worship there. (Read Barbara’s excellent post on “What Is Worship?” here.)

But hopefully our worship extends past Sunday praise-singing.

  • It’s Monday clothes-washing, and
  • Tuesday dinner-cooking, and
  • Wednesday pantry-serving, etc.

Worship is perfect way to start a day

Power Start

Yet still, singing my worship on Sunday mornings starts the week with power.

In the midst of praising God, God pours grace on me.

  • Through his promises we sing about
  • Through melodious music he has inspired
  • Through other people worshiping beside me

Because God is so worthy of worship, it’s easy to give him praise. We can temporarily set aside our own issues and focus on the wonder of Christ.

Self-forgetfulness and Jesus-awareness are heightened during worship.

“Worship is an end in itself. We do not eat the feast of worship as a means to anything else. Happiness in God [which is the heart of worship] is the end of all our seeking. Nothing beyond it can be sought as a higher goal.”
– David Mathis

Worship is a perfect way to start a day, a week, a life.

And a perfect way to end one as well.

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Do you have a favorite actor, singer, or sports hero?

(2) Do you sing or play a musical instrument as worship, either at church or at home?

(3) When are you most inspired to worship God?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) My latest favorite artists are Matt Maher, Lauren Daigle, Cory Asbury, Tauren Wells.

(2) I sing with our church praise team (but I have no extraordinary talent). I play the piano only at home.

(3) Music, nature, people’s kindness to one another—these things point me to the wonder of God.

More here

  • Be an Intercessory Worshiper
    God places us in community to be placeholders for hope, for prayer, for grace. Who can you be in intercessory worship for?
  • Great Worship Study Resource
    This book by Allen P. Ross, Recalling the Hope of Glory, is an excellent compilation of scriptures and commentary on both Old Testament and New Testament scriptures on worship.
  • Worship Different
    It was just a small change but a good change. May we never be too rigid to embrace change or too comfortable to try something different. Growing in worship is worth it all.

revised from the archives

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See the Whole Picture – Day 27 of Handmade

Whole

It helps to see the whole picture.

A week ago I was busy cleaning house. Dusting. Vacuuming. Even mopping.

I don’t mop often, sorry to report.

But our granddaughter was coming. And she has learned how to crawl (sort of).

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Because I knew she would spend time on the floor, I wanted the floors as clean as possible.

It’s the whole picture.

I don’t just clean the house because it’s fun (it’s not). Or because I need something else to do (I don’t).

I do it because I love the people who will be in it.

When we remember the big picture, it helps us stay motivated.

I still didn’t enjoy mopping the floor. But I did it with a lot more joy when I imagined my sweet grandbaby on it.

And later when I saw her crawling on it, I had the most joy of all.

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) What’s your most dreaded household chore?

(2) Are you a skimmer of books and articles, or are you compelled to read the whole thing?

(3) Is there anything missing in your life that you wish God would give you right now to bring wholeness?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) Cleaning the bathtub is one of my least favorite things.

(2) I skim articles. I sometimes skim non-fiction books if they get repetitive. I read every word of novels (I’m afraid I’ll miss an important nugget of information if I skim).

(3) My life feels very whole, but I do wish Morgan’s family lived closer.

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When It’s Not Your First Time – Day 26 of Handmade

First

There’s a first time for everything.

Sometimes the first time is the most exciting. (Sometimes it’s also the most frightening.)

first pumpkin

I got to go with Victoria and Mason on their first field trip.

Neither had been to a pumpkin patch before.

This was an exciting first. For both of them.

There were many new things.

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corn

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And because they were excited, I was, too.

When they smiled, I smiled, too.

While we can’t repeat a first ourselves, we can accompany somebody else experiencing a first.

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After God created the first man and the first woman, I assume he didn’t get bored with every human thereafter. Because with each person, it was their first time coming into the world.

When we celebrate someone else coming to know Christ for the first time, we renew our excitement at knowing him, too.

If there’s a first you need to tackle—and you’re nervous about it—bring an old-timer with you. Not only will it be good for you, but it might be exciting for them as well.

There will be smiles all around.

mason and lisa

pumpkin patch

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Is there a pumpkin at your house this October?

(2) Do you remember an exciting field trip that was a first from your own school years?

(3) What’s a first you have experienced with God in the recent past?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) No, I gave Victoria my pumpkin to give to her youngest child.

(2) I remember my first helicopter ride with JROTC and also a fun math tournament in Montgomery with our high school Mu Alpha Theta team.

(3) God has been guiding me through the glorious wonder of being a grandmother for the first time this year!

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How Does He Capture You? – Day 25 of Handmade

Capture

I like to spread things out.

Don’t put too much emphasis on any one thing in case something falls apart.

But as I repeat my memory verses this fall, I’m reminded of this: There is one thing faithful enough for total dependence.

And I’m trying to recall it to mind often.

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It’s the promise in these verses. This is part of our Fall Memory Challenge at Do Not Depart, Lamentations 3:21-26.

Lamentations 3:21 But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope:
22 The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end;
23 they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
24 “The LORD is my portion,” says my soul, “therefore I will hope in him.”

If God’s love for me never stops, and his mercies never end, and he promises to give me grace every morning?

Then he’s a sturdy basket for all my eggs.

I want the Lord to capture all my heart, all my soul, all my mind. Everything.

He is reason enough to stay hopeful, even when other things may fail.

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Do you take screen captures?

(2) How do you best like to capture a special moment? Photo? Journal? Souvenir?

(3) What promise of God do you often rely on?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) I take screenshots of so many things both on my phone and computer. (I just checked my phone and I have 107 screenshots! lol)

(2) I don’t always like taking pictures, but I love having them to remind me of special moments. (Shout out to my sister Sandy and my daughter Jenna for being the family photographers and thus memory-keepers.)

(3) That the Lord is good and will always be good; I rely on that truth as a basic foundation of my faith.

More here

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You Know Enough Already – Day 24 of Handmade

Brief

When Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s baby is born next spring, it will automatically be royalty.

But it won’t know that. At least not at first.

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Sometimes we think we have to know everything before we can do something.

But as believers, it’s more about who we belong to than how much we know.

So do you know enough already?

Read the whole thing here, “Do You Know Enough Already?”

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) How often did you visit your grandparents when you were a child?

(2) How far back can you trace your family of origin?

(3) “But I don’t know enough yet!” Have you ever said that to God when he wanted you to do something? How did it work out?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) We lived in Alabama and my grandparents lived in Mississippi. For awhile we drove there every 6 weeks to visit, but less as we got older.

(2) My siblings have a family tree somewhere. I only know names back to some of my great-grandparents.

(3) I say that to God probably every week about something. I never think I know enough. Then I tell him, “Okay, I’ll just show up—but you have to do the rest!” and it usually works out pretty good.

More here

  • When “I Don’t Know” Is Good
    We’ll never have all the answers. Is this ever good? Should we make peace with uncertainty and “I don’t know”?
  • Are You Good Enough to Witness?
    Wouldn’t I be a better advertisement for Jesus if I could get it all together? Then I remember: I am not the point. I am only the pointer. It’s about Jesus.
  • When You’re Not Sure
    When you’re not sure, don’t be so scared of being wrong that you do nothing. Even if you make a poor decision, God’s grace can redeem it.

I’m writing at Do Not Depart today. Will you join me there? Do you already know enough?