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Mercy Is the Way Through – Grace & Truth Link-Up

By LisaNotes April 10, 2020 Encouragement, Grace & Truth Link-Up 8 Comments

How Are You Coping?

We cope differently.

Some try not to think about it. Others want to stay up-to-date informed. Some refuse to think negatively. Others cry it out daily.

But here’s the thing. When someone handles this differently than you, try not to judge them for it.

Just accept it. Remind yourself this is what works for them.

They’re doing the best they can.

Just like we’re doing the best we can.

Maybe in a few weeks, if we discover our coping mechanisms aren’t healthy (or more likely, if our housemates point it out to us!), we can put forth a herculean effort to change, beg for the Spirit’s help, and recalibrate.

But in the meantime, be gentle on yourself. And be gentle on others.

Ask God for mercy. Mercy for yourself. And mercy to give to others.

Mercy is the way through.

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Linda Stoll reminds us that our thoughts and emotions we’re having are “perfectly normal, understandable, and completely valid given what we are journeying through.”

Read Linda’s post here to see how God empowers us, infuses us with love, and gives us sanity.

“You’re Not Alone if You’re a Bit Fearful . . . or You’re Freaking Out”

Linda’s gentle and wise words always help me feel better.

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7 Gifts of Menopause

By LisaNotes April 8, 2020 Book reviews 9 Comments

I remember a change in my mother in her mid-life years. She spoke up more for herself. She became more assertive. It was a good thing to see.

They say that in mid-life a woman finds it harder to repress pain and anger. Cheryl Bridges Johns writes that,

“Women begin to take note of the disparity in power, injustice in society, betrayal in relationships, and disappointments that they once were willing to overlook.”

I don’t know if that can be attributed to a change in hormones or not. But whatever the cause, I have seen it happen again and again as women get older.

In Johns’ new book, Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause, she makes a case for women to use this phase of life to transform into a new way of being in the world, to use this “sacred space to discover a deeper, more mature relationship with God.”

She says there are seven developmental tasks for each woman to face, revealing seven gifts of menopause:

The Gift of Uncovering
Uncovering the repressed and hidden parts of your life
The Gift of Anger
Getting in touch with your anger
The Gift of Authentic Self
Recovering your authentic self
The Gift of Expanded Time
Living in expanded time
The Gift of Spiritual Freedom
Claiming your spiritual freedom
The Gift of Vision
Embracing a holy vision (calling)
The Gift of Courage
Returning to your courageous dragon self

To receive these gifts, Johns says to lean into the storm and get in touch with your body. Feel your feelings. Remember your memories. Grieve your losses.

And don’t do it alone. Do it with friends. Do it with God.

Using the seven gifts of menopause prepares you for the second half of life as “a person with the courage, strength, and power needed to face a future that may look quite uncertain.”

Claim the gift of spiritual freedom. It comes with “an enlarged vision of God.” And an enlarged vision of yourself.

I saw it happen with my mother. I hope I’ll see it happen with myself, too.

My thanks to Net Galley
for the review copy of this book

5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – Corona Edition, April 2020

By LisaNotes April 6, 2020 Life updates, Links I like 30 Comments

Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

5 interesting things online
5 articles about words, books, or podcasts
5 pictures of things I love
5 things on the blog

What are you enjoying this month?

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5 Things Around the Web

45 Things To Remember When The World Gets Scary

This is a beautiful list to help us get through a tough time. I couldn’t narrow down one favorite. Among others (including #1 and #45), #10 resonates with me: “Fear is easy. Hope is hard.” I’m putting my hope in God to get me through.

Use This Time to Re-Imagine the Faith of Two or Three Gathered in His Name – COVIDTide Prayers

“I hope the coronavirus interruption may help us recalibrate Christian worship and discipleship. If we’re super-mindful right now, quarantine may be the best thing that’s happened to “the church” in a long, long time.”
– Brad Jersak

How to Not Keep Refreshing the News

I have to limit how often I check the news to protect my mental health. You, too? Here are some helpful strategies.

Sorting Through Our COVID Anxieties

There’s no shame in being anxious during this time. Not all anxieties are the same though. This article takes you through six different types of anxieties and how to handle each kind.

Can Your Marriage Survive the Coronavirus?

Several tips here, including this cute one: get an imaginary coworker to blame things on, to keep you on the same side, i.e., “Cheryl” keeps leaving dirty cups all over the place and we really don’t know what to do about her.

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5 Memes

There have been so many great memes going around that I’ve added this special section.

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5 Things with Words and Books

New Words We Created Because Of Coronavirus

We’re familiar now with “social distancing” and “flatten the curve.” How about “doom-scrolling,” “covidiot,” and “coronacation”?

31 Optimistic Books for Readers in Need of a Boost

This is a list of life-affirming books that may have heavy topics, but will give you hope and make you feel good about the world.

Coronavirus: Fact vs Fiction – Podcast

I’ve enjoyed this new podcast every morning with Dr. Sanjay Gupta. He updates you on the latest news about the coronavirus. Sometimes it’s heavy stuff; other times it’s lighter stories.

The Best Distance Learning Is Reading a Book

I love technology but it’s still hard to beat paper. “Crack open a book and you can not only learn from someone who’s several thousand miles away, you can learn from someone who’s several thousand years away.”

5 Books I Recommend

I really loved these books I finished in March. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone seems especially pertinent in this season.

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5 Things I Love

Missing My Grandbabies

All my pictures this month are my granddaughters from the past few weeks because I’m missing them. So much! I look forward to playing together again as soon as we can!

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5 Things on the Blog

It’s Okay to Be Sad, Christians

It’s okay to be sad, Christians.⁣⁣ How am I? I’m grieving. I’m anxious. I’m conflicted. And yes, I’m still Christian.⁣

When Anxiety Needs Words, Memorize Scripture – Psalm 91 Challenge

When you need to put better words in your brain, try memorizing Scripture. Sign up now to learn Psalm 91 beginning April 6.

Ways to Use Technology for Social Connection During Social Distancing

Here are ways we can use technology to stay socially connected during social distancing.

What It’s Like to Be the Investigator, the Enneagram 5

See what it’s like to be the investigator, an Enneagram Five, in Mary’s “EnneaWhat??” series.

When Plans Are a Tossup, Live in Grace

Our plans are a tossup in these times of COVID-19. But we can always plan to live in grace. Read Bob Goff’s newest book for encouragement.

What is bringing you joy this month? Please share in the comments.

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If You Can’t Decide, Try This – Grace & Truth Link-Up

By LisaNotes April 3, 2020 Encouragement, Grace & Truth Link-Up 11 Comments

I Can’t Decide

I’m not at my best these days. It’s hard to stay focused. Even small decisions can feel big, like life-and-death.

Should I go to the grocery store tomorrow, or can I wait a few more days?
Is it safe to get take-out food for supper tonight?
Should I volunteer to distribute food at our food pantry, even within CDC guidelines?

The answers aren’t always clear. There’s not always a definite right or wrong.

So what do we do?

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Debbie Wilson offers four suggestions for us in our featured post this week, “4 Practical Tips for When You Can’t Decide.”

Debbie’s decision involved her new puppy. He began limping. The vet recommended expensive surgery.

It would be costly and these are uncertain economic times. The breeder offered to do a puppy switch instead.

What should she do?

Read Debbie’s post to see how she’s walking through the decision process, and how you can walk through yours.

My decisions? I chose to:

Wait.
Go to the store next week when my list builds up more.
Yes.
Get the takeout food and support the restaurant, but dispose of the wrappings and wash our hands thoroughly back at home.
No.
Let the younger volunteers fill in the gap now. I can volunteer again in a few weeks.

Thank you, Debbie.

And thank you, God.

“The pressure to make the perfect decision is paralyzing. How can we make the right decision when we don’t know everything? Only God has all knowledge. However, we can trust that He will reward those who seek Him, and that provides precious peace of mind (Heb. 11:6).”
– Debbie Wilson

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On the Blog – March 2020

By LisaNotes March 31, 2020 Archives 1 Comment

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from March 2020.

What It’s Like to Be the Investigator, the Enneagram 5 (3/31)
See what it’s like to be the investigator, an Enneagram Five, in Mary’s “EnneaWhat??” series.
5 Books I Recommend – March 2020 (3/30)
Here are 5 books I recommend from what I read in March 2020.
It’s Okay to Be Sad, Christians (3/28)
It’s okay to be sad, Christians.⁣⁣ How am I? I’m grieving. I’m anxious. I’m conflicted. And yes, I’m still Christian.⁣
When Anxiety Needs Words, I Memorize Scripture – Grace & Truth Link-Up (3/27)
When you need to put better words in your brain, try memorizing Scripture. Sign up now to learn Psalm 91 beginning April 6.
Ways to Use Technology to Stay Socially Connected During Social Distancing (3/25)
Here are ways we can use technology to stay socially connected during social distancing.
Here’s to the Healers (3/23)
Here’s to the nurses, doctors, caregivers. Thank you for what you do with your hands. But also for what you do with your hearts. We need the healers.
Do You Need More? Or Less? Grace & Truth Link-Up (3/20)
I bought more Tylenol, more chicken, more bread yesterday. But there are some things I need less of, not more. Less anxiety, less worry, less news.
When Plans Are a Tossup, Live in Grace (3/18)
Our plans are a tossup in these times of COVID-19. But we can always plan to live in grace. Read Bob Goff’s newest book for encouragement.
Is It Okay to Complain If It’s Only in My Head? (3/16)
Is complaining okay as long as nobody hears it? Or does it hurt us even if it’s only in our head?
Running Low at the Grocery Store – Grace & Truth Link-Up (3/13)
We may run low on supplies from the grocery store, but may we remain full of hope. God’s faithfulness and our love for each other will not run out.
When You Help the Helpers (3/12)
When you don’t feel qualified to provide first-line help, help the helpers. That is just as valuable.
Why You Should Write Back. Now. (3/10)
We can’t make someone respond to us. But we can control how we respond to others. Please write back.
Be a Better Daily Helper – Grace & Truth Link-Up (3/6)
When helping doesn’t come naturally, look at these ways to be a better daily helper. Link up with us this week for Grace & Truth.
5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – March 2020 (3/4)
Links and pictures of articles, books, and things I love – March 2020

What It’s Like to Be the Investigator, the Enneagram 5

By LisaNotes March 31, 2020 Enneagram, Guest posts 2 Comments

Unless you’re my daughter or husband, I don’t want to answer your phone call. Don’t take it personally.

When I do answer, know it takes great intention and energy on my part. It costs me.

I’m secretly hoping you can just text or email next time.

This is what it’s like being a Five.

See the rest of the post here . . .“My Life as the Investigator”

I’m writing today at Mary Geissen’s Enneagram series, “EnneaWhat???”

Will you join me there?

For more on the Enneagram here:

Index to my “Enneagram for Spiritual Growth” series