5 Books I Recommend—April 2021

“Reading a book is among the most high-leverage activities on earth. For an investment more or less equivalent to the length of a single workday (and a few dollars), you can gain access to what the smartest people have already figured out.”
– Greg McKeown

Below are 5 books I recommend from those I finished reading in April plus my 1-minute video review. 

[See previously recommended books here]

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Nonfiction

1. Time Management Ninja
21 Rules for More Time and Less Stress in Your Life
by Craig Jarrow

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These 21 easy tips will nudge you in the right direction for better managing your time. 

Here’s my 1-minute video review of Time Management Ninja.

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2. Effortless
Make It Easy to Get the Right Things Done
by Greg McKeown

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In the same genre as Time Management Ninja, this book Effortless also lays out easy ways to accomplish the things you want to get done in a day. One of my favorite chapters is Chapter 6, What “Done” Looks Like.

3. The Sum of Us
What Racism Costs Everyone and How We Can Prosper Together
by Heather McGhee

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Racism is expensive. And it’s not a zero-sum game. Everybody pays the price. Heather McGhee spells it out in dollars and cents. 

4. Freeing Jesus
Rediscovering Jesus as Friend, Teacher, Savior, Lord, Way, and Presence
by Diana Butler Bass

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We have many ways we see Jesus. Diana Butler Bass shares 6 ways most of us have seen Jesus and prompts us to keep looking even closer. 

Fiction

5. Salt to the Sea
by Rita Sepetys

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I didn’t know about the MV Wilhelm Gustloff, a German cruise ship used as an armed transport ship during World War 2. This novel is a riveting account of four refugees who come together on board. Highly recommend as a story but also for its historical value.

Reading Now

  • The Great Sex Rescue
    The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
    by Sheila Wray Gregoire
  • Storyworthy
    Engage, Teach, Persuade, and Change Your Life through the Power of Storytelling
    by Matthew Dicks
  • The Making of Biblical Womanhood
    How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth
    by Beth Allison Barr
  • Dwell on These Things
    A Thirty-One-Day Challenge to Talk to Yourself Like God Talks to You
    by John Stange
  • Get Out of Your Head
    Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts
    by Jennie Allen
  • Home Fire
    by Kamila Shamsie

What good book are YOU reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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Share Four Somethings—April 2021

Here are my “four somethings” from April. I’m sharing at Heather’s.

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Something Loved

  • CAR PHONE HOLDER 

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Sometimes it’s the little things, right?

This little car phone holder by iOttie has served me so well. It mounts easily on the air vents of any vehicle and holds any size phone. Because my car doesn’t have a built-in GPS screen, I use the Waze app on my phone, secure in this holder, to take me places I wouldn’t have traveled to without anxiety in the past.

It’s been a game-changer in all the right ways.  

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Something Read 

  • THE POWER OF WRITING IT DOWN

If you want to be motivated to do more journaling, this book will do it for you. It has me back in the habit of writing several times a week, words only for God and me. 

“And writing is an absolutely foolproof way to curate awareness. You cannot write for long and not see yourself show up on the page.”
– Allison Fallon

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Something Treasured

  • A NEW FRIEND

When I began reading blog posts from Shannan at shannanenjoyslife a few years ago, I knew I liked her. But when I discovered we both lived near Huntsville, Alabama, I subscribed to her blog.

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And then one day in February, I received an email from Shannan, wondering if we could talk.

She was responding to my blog post from January 12 about how to fight racism:

“So, Are We Going to Talk About This?”
Is it divisive to talk about racial injustice? Or is it divisive NOT to talk about it? Plus, quotes from Jemar Tisby’s book, “How to Fight Racism.”

So, Are We Going to Talk About This?

Yes, we can talk, Shannan!

I was thrilled.

We talked via a Zoom call in March. We shared about our backgrounds and race and family influences. And books. Shannan works with Modern Mrs. Darcy (she’s even been on a few podcast episodes of What Should I Read Next).

Shannan and I have continued texting, and now have a date on the calendar to talk again this week. I’m so excited. Shannan is very gracious. I’m excited to count her as a new friend.

Thank you, blogosphere, for doing good things.

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Something Ahead

  • A NEW GRANDCHILD SOON!

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We’re less than a month away from meeting our 3rd grandchild!

He’ll be our first grandson, and the first child for Jenna and Trey. His two girl cousins are going to have fun playing with him when he gets here.


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What’s a highlight from your April? What are you looking forward to in May? Share in the comments.


How Can I Make a Difference Today?
—Grace & Truth Linkup

It’s been a heavy week as we waited on the jury results from Derek Chauvin’s trial in the death of George Floyd.

Even with the guilty verdict in this case, we still know things are not as they could be. They’re not as they should be.

My mind rumbles with questions:

  • What immediate changes can we make culture-wide?
  • How can we show love more visibly to all peoples?
  • How can we do better as a society now so there isn’t a “next time” later?

I get quickly overwhelmed. These thoughts run through my head without landing on many concrete solutions.

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But when I slow down and and pray it through, I remember what Jesus did first: He loved those right around him.

I can do this, too: Love those right around me.

New questions surface: 

  • Who will I see today?
  • Who can I talk to?
  • Who can I exchange love with in the next hour—me to them and they to me?

The big systemic issues still need addressing. Today. And tomorrow. Jesus addressed those, too.

But perhaps the people right beside me now can guide me in addressing the inequity issues for today. And I can help them.

We do none of this alone.

The people we do it with and the people we do it for make all the difference. Maybe it’s an old friend who will come to mind over lunch. Or maybe it’s someone new we will meet tomorrow.

Either way, it’s people. People are not only our who, but also our why, our how, our what.

Love the people, beginning with the people right beside me.

That’s what I can do today.

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Cami shared a beautiful post in last week’s linkup on this same topic.

“Sometimes, at the end of a long week, I find myself wondering if I’ve made any kind of a difference in my little circle of people.”

I was immediately drawn to her post. And she delivered. She shares 3 observations on how to love like Jesus loves.

Read all of Cami’s post here at Insta Encouragements, then link your own blog posts below.

“3 Ways to Love Like Jesus Loves”


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One Word 2021 Linkup—April
+ 3 Ways to Engage with Your One Word

This is our April linkup for your One Word 2021!

Leave us a comment about your struggles and successes with your word this month.

Then add links to your blog posts about your one word, images, quotes, etc.

Congratulations to Linda from March’s linkup! She was randomly chosen to win a beautiful wooden tray made by Randy Flowers with her one word, Serendipity.

Stay tuned for another giveaway coming soon.

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3 Ways to Engage with Your One Word in April

Here are some ideas for engaging with your word this month.

1. START A CONVERSATION

Talk to somebody about your word. Ask what they think about it. Ask how it works in their life. Tell them your own thoughts.

Getting outside of your own head and into someone else’s can be a great way to discover new ways to engage with your word.

2. LOOK IT UP

Have you looked up the dictionary definition for your word? Sure, you already know what it means. But research its etymology. See how else it is used. Learn extra new meanings and uses.

Looking deeper at your word can help you see it in a yet undiscovered light.

3. GET CREATIVE

Regardless of your artistic abilities, find a way to be creative with your word in the next few weeks. Print it out and color it. Paint it on a rock. Write an acrostic using each letter.

Then share it with us! We’d love to see it. Post it in our Facebook group or add a picture in the linkup (no link required).

This linkup will remain open from April 21 – April 30.

The next One Word linkup will be May 21.

If you’d like to receive a monthly email for suggestions about your word, sign up here.

You can also join our One Word 2021 Facebook group here for more interaction. 

Share your thoughts in the comments.


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6 Ways to Take the Plastic Wrap Off Jesus

Packaging can be hard to tear off. When we buy something new, we expect to be able to open it without much effort. But sometimes it requires scissors or a knife. Or if we disobey our mother’s advice, our teeth.

But other times, we let the plastic languish on the item. We don’t unwrap it. We keep it pristine on a shelf, as new as the day we bought it.

Have we kept Jesus all wrapped up, too?

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Take the Packaging Off Jesus

For many of us who were born into a family of believers, our origin story with Jesus may look the same. We were toted to church from infancy, never missed a Sunday or Wednesday service, could quote the books of the Bible by 3rd grade (or earlier).

But when we really came to know Jesus, our stories will vary. They’ll be as unique as we are.

Some came to know Jesus first as Savior. Others as Friend. Others as Teacher.

In her new book Freeing Jesus, author and historian Diana Butler Bass describes 6 ways of freeing Jesus, of undoing his packaging, of letting him out of the box.

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They include discovering Jesus as:

  1. Friend
  2. Teacher
  3. Savior
  4. Lord
  5. Way
  6. Presence

Bass organizes this book brilliantly to tell her own spiritual autobiography.

But the book isn’t just about her. It’s mainly about Jesus. And about us and Jesus.

As Bass explains, it’s not a theological memoir. It’s a memoir theology. The focus is on theology; the memoir is just there to give it structure.

What is your spiritual autobiography? How and when did you take the wrapper off of Jesus? Which role of Jesus did you begin with, and where are you now?

There are no right or wrong answers. There is no divine sequence. Jesus is all things at all times. We’re just more in tune with Jesus in different ways at different times.

6 Ways to Experience Jesus

Here are quotes from Bass relating to six sides of Jesus that become visible as we free him from the packaging. See which ones relate most to you.

1. JESUS AS FRIEND

“The story of the New Testament is that the risk of friendship is the risk that frees us from fear and reshapes our lives—it is better to go together than to go alone. Jesus befriends us, opening our hearts to genuine love and the capacity to forgive each other, welcome all, and act justly in the world.”

2. JESUS AS TEACHER

“Although Christians call Jesus by many names, those who knew him best mostly called him ‘teacher.’ Of the ninety or so times Jesus is addressed directly in the New Testament, roughly sixty refer to him as ‘teacher,’ ‘rabbi,’ ‘great one,’ or ‘master’ (as in the British sense of ‘schoolmaster’). . . .

“Jesus, who was complete love, the man for others, taught us to go and be likewise. He did not teach rules. He taught that love ruled. He lived what he taught.”

3. JESUS AS SAVIOR

“‘Savior’ may well be the most ubiquitous term that Christians use to describe Jesus. Yet, oddly enough, ‘Savior’ appears only twice in the gospels to describe Jesus. . . .

“At-one-ment was the reason the authorities did away with Jesus. No empire can stand if the people it oppresses figure out that reconciliation, love, liberation, and oneness hold more power than the sword.”

4. JESUS AS LORD

“I had not brought Jesus to anyone. Instead, my host had brought Jesus to me as he welcomed me and invited my heart to be cleansed along with the kitchen. There was something of me that got saved that day, not the other way around.”

5. JESUS AS THE WAY

“In the mystical poetry of John, Jesus uses these terms to explain how he embodies a way of being in this world so close to the heart of God that God can be known in and through Jesus. . . .

“Being a Christian is about finding or getting found by Jesus.”

6. JESUS AS PRESENCE

“Jesus as mystery is, indeed, the Christian faith’s greatest spiritual enigma. A human being who is fully God? That is what Christianity proclaims—that beyond our wildest imaginings, the ever-creating Love of the cosmos made its way into our small, hurting world, living and dying with us and for us, and promises never, never, never to leave us alone. Love is in the world, and inside of us, dwelling with us even as we dwell in it. I cannot explain one bit of that.”

Let Jesus Move and Breathe

Bass explains there are multiple other ways we experience Jesus, too: as Word, Wisdom, Sustenance, etc.

Each way, and each person’s experience, is valuable, in both shaping their own life as well as kingdom life.

“Our frame is so narrow, and Jesus’s is so wide. If only we knew all the Jesuses who have been hidden from view, all the Christs never heard. Thankfully, more voices count now—the experiences of many are arising to bring every Jesus to light the world.”

Bass addresses COVID-19 in the conclusion of her book.

She writes,

“Jesus did not leave us to suffer alone. COVID-19 forced Jesus out of the cathedral into the world, reminding Christians that church is not a building.”

Many of us can attest to this. We are thankful that Jesus has never been confined to a building or an institution.

Nor does he want to be packaged tightly in plastic wrap, sitting on a shelf, never to be opened.

Wherever we go, Jesus wants to be unwrapped and experienced as friend, teacher, Savior, Lord, way, and presence.

Let’s take the wrapper off Jesus. And leave it off. He wants to move and breathe in us.


Who is Jesus to you? Which of these 6 ways have you encountered Jesus the most: Jesus as friend, teacher, Savior, Lord, way, or presence?

Share your thoughts in the comments.

For more about Freeing Jesus, listen to the March 29 interview with Diana Butler Bass on the “Things Not Seen” podcast.

My thanks to NetGalley and HarperOne
for the review copy of Freeing Jesus


You Know I Can Hear You, Right?

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I glance at the clock. It is 2:03 a.m.

It’s too quiet in the house. I don’t hear any deep-sleep breathing beside me.

Jeff must be awake, too.

I feel him lean over his side of the bed to grab his phone. He must have been awake awhile. He is going to listen to his audiobook to put him back to sleep. It’s a mystery story, but it won’t be intriguing enough to keep him awake.

I see the light flicker on his phone. The earbuds go in. He hits play.

And then?

Is It Really Hidden?

What we do in private may seem like our own business. We think our inner life is invisible to the world. We believe we can keep sections of ourselves cut off from public viewing.

We think it’s possible to have bad thoughts and bad feelings about someone behind their back, and then good behavior to their face.

But can we really? Are we that good at fooling others? At fooling ourselves?

Can we ever fool God?

It Ripples Out

In reality, our private selves are never truly private.

Even if we don’t speak out loud every word we’re thinking, our inner thought life still makes noise in the outside word.

Who we are in private is revealed in public.

We’re not as successful at acting as we think we are. Perhaps we can masquerade some of who we are, but our most basic character eventually becomes known.

That makes it all the more important that we get it together in private.

Cultivating a healthy spiritual life is an investment worth making. For our own sakes. For our relationship with God. For our relationships with others.

Jesus lived authentically. Jesus was authentically kind, authentically good, authentically loving. He was the same on the outside as he was on the inside.

Because Jesus lived clean and whole, the ripples he sent out were clean and whole, too.

Our lives have ripples too.

Sometimes our ripples are heard more loudly and clearly than our actual voices. Even when we think no one is listening or paying attention to us, our ripples are still flowing outward, floating on and on.

I Hear You

As soon as Jeff hits play on his phone, I suddenly become fully awake!

His audiobook isn’t playing only through his earbuds like he thinks. The sound is coming out directly through his phone’s speaker.

I am hearing every word of his mystery, too.

I wait a few seconds. Still playing. A few seconds more. Still playing.

I finally nudge Jeff:

“You know I can hear that, right?”

No. He didn’t know. He thought only he could hear it. He wasn’t aware that his earbuds weren’t properly plugged in.

We laugh about it, and he apologizes. He makes the correct cord/port connection this time and all goes silent again in my world as only he can now hear his book.

May we never mistake that we’re the only ones who can hear the voices in our head.

Others may not hear our literal words, but they’ll still get the message.

  • Through the way we treat others.
  • Through the way we talk to others.
  • Through the way we love others.

We all are listening.


Share your thoughts in the comments.

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