How Aware Do We Want to Be?
—Book Review of "Total Meditation"

Are We Awake?

We’ve turned the page on 2020. But really? We know it’s only a calendar number.

2021 still looks very much like 2020.

Surely almost every person on the globe has been affected in some way or another by the pandemic we’ve been living through.

It can make us want to hide our heads under the covers until it’s over.

But we know that denial is not healthy.

Staying aware is the better choice.

Using Meditation to Become Aware

Deepak Chopra focuses on waking up through meditation in his new book, Total Meditation: Practices in Living the Awakened Life. Chopra says we don’t realize how critically important awareness is.

“To be aware is to notice something you didn’t notice before: You become aware that the room is getting too warm, so you turn down the thermostat. . . . Nothing can be changed in your life unless you first become aware of it.”

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But what is awareness?

“Awareness is the most basic experience possible. [It] is more basic than sights, sounds, tastes, textures, or smells. Our senses fill the mind with content, but awareness needs no content. Simply being here is the ground state of awareness. . . . You have a sense of self that exists no matter what is happening or not happening. That sense of self is awareness.”

How do we become aware?

On a purely physical level, our bodies already know. They stay aware of their functions. The heart pumps our blood; the lungs breathe the air; the stomach digests our food. 

And our brains? While they are always working, we don’t always stay mindful.

But to become mindful, we need to become aware. We clear our minds by coming back to the present moment, where every cell in our body already lives.

Jesus stated this truth in Matthew 6:34 when he told his followers not to be anxious about tomorrow, but to stay in today.

Tools for Awareness

Chopra suggests we use these tools to recover our minds:

  • Self-inquiry
  • Reflection
  • Contemplation
  • Concentration
  • Prayer
  • Quiet Mind
  • Controlled Breathing

To be aware means we return to center. For Christians believers, that center is Jesus. While that’s not the specific focus of this book, you can read it from that viewpoint.

While staying aware might not sound enticing on the surface (who wants to be aware of everything?), consciousness is vital to our healing. It unites our heart and mind. It brings life to memory, recognition, learning, and creativity.

When we remain aware, we can live better. Chopra says peaceful behaviors look like this:

  • You actively seek a solution from people who can genuinely help.
  • You don’t act on impulse but wait until you are centered.
  • You take responsibility for your feelings without lashing out or blaming someone else.
  • You trust that a solution is always possible.
  • You don’t become the cause of stress.
  • You respect others as your equal.

By living awake, we get unstuck from the “toxic merry-go-round” that we often live in.

Stay Awake

While I don’t agree with everything that Chopra writes, I do agree with his basic premise:

“The best way to live right now is to live as if you are awake.”

Awake to truth. Awake to love. Awake to God and each other.

Even when it’s hard. 

It’s not always easy to stay awake, to stay aware, but it’s always worth it. 


My thanks to Net Galley for the
review copy of Total Meditation


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On the Blog—December 2020

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from December 2020.

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7 Books I Recommend—December 2020

Many people, myself among them, feel better at the mere sight of a book.
—Jane Smiley

Sorry for two book posts in one week (my favorite 10 books of 2020 is here). But I didn’t want to miss giving you my December book recommendations. 

Below are 7 books I recommend from those I finished reading in December. See all my recommended books here.

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1. Always a Guest
Speaking of Faith Far from Home
by Barbara Brown Taylor

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Barbara Taylor Brown gets to me. She puts things in ways that I didn’t think about, but immediately recognize. This book is a thoughtful compilation of some of her sermons.

[My book review here of Always a Guest]

2. Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man
by Emmanuel Acho

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Have you seen his videos with the same name? Look on YouTube and watch one or two. They are excellent. So is this book.

3. Searching for Certainty
Finding God in the Disruptions of Life
by Shelly Miller

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“In fear, we can miss the obvious—that your uncertainty is God’s opportunity to reveal his great love for you.” Unfortunately, Shelly died this fall in the prime of her life to a quick illness. I only knew Shelly through her blog through the years, but to those who knew her in person, her loss is especially heavy, and her words even more important. I’ll read this book again as part of my One Word 2021, Uncertainty.

4. How to Fight Racism
Courageous Christianity and the Journey Toward Racial Justice
by Jemar Tisby

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Having just finished Jemar’s The Color of Compromise, I had to read his followup book for his practical suggestions on how to move towards racial equity. He writes from a Christian perspective (but you don’t have to be a believer to benefit from the book). It’s a helpful one.

5. The Worry Cure
Seven Steps to Stop Worry from Stopping You
by Robert L. Leahy

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This book contains a lot of CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) steps to apply to many different types of worries. It’s one of the more helpful books I’ve read about worrying.

6. A Promised Land
by Barack Obama

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This book is long, and it only covers President Obama’s first four years in office, but it’s so well-written and the stories are so engaging that it’s worth the length. I didn’t always get the nitty-gritty policy stuff, but I loved the stories about his family life and the behind-the-scenes White House stuff. 

7. Why Don’t They Get It?
Overcoming Bias In Others
by Brian D. McLaren

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This short e-book is dense with information on multiples types of biases that we all fall prey to. I’m going to work back through it in 2021 to see which ones trip me up. Brian gives lots of examples from Jesus’s teachings to back up his material. The accompanying podcast series, Learning How to See, is also helpful. 

Reading Now

  • Total Meditation
    Practices in Living the Awakened Life
    by Deepak Chopra
  • Attention!
    The Power of Simple Decisions in a Distracted World
    by Rob Hatch
  • The Lazy Genius Way
    Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn’t, and Get Stuff Done
    by Kendra Adachi
  • Charitable Writing
    Cultivating Virtue Through Our Words
    by Richard Hughes Gibson
  • 40 Days of Grace
    by Paul David Tripp
  • Such a Fun Age
    by Kiley Reid

What good book are YOU reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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3 Steps to Choose One Word of the Year
—Take another lap around the globe

If you’re looking for accountability for your One Word journey, !

If you’re looking for even more ideas, see 7 Tips for Choosing Your One Word

3 steps to choose one word of the year

Have you decided on One Word of the Year? Or do you make New Year’s Resolutions? Or neither?

I haven’t made a list of resolutions the past few years, but I have chosen One Word since 2010.

Let us know in the comments if you’ve chosen a word, and how certain you are of it.

If you want help in choosing a word, below are three suggestions I’ve shared in the past.

If you want to join our One Word group to help each other stay accountable, sign up here to get a monthly email reminder and questions to engage with your word. We’ll meet here every month and in our Facebook group.

3 Steps to Choose One Word

Get ready for another lap around the globe.

Using the acronym LAP, here are 3 steps to help you decide on One Word.

1. L—Listen

Pay attention. Your word may already be at work in you, doing new things, preparing you for new things.

Are you hearing repetitive messages on a specific theme? Does a particular song touch you deeply? Have you been drawn to a certain book or scripture?

Your word can come through any of these avenues. Listen for its message. Stay present to your wisdom. It’s not something you sweat over, but something you notice and receive.

Accept what comes without having to understand it fully. More will be revealed when the time is right.

One word is simple, yet flexible in the directions it can move you through.

2. A—Abbreviate

Narrow your focus. It’s better to give your full attention to one main word or concept than be distracted by a hundred little resolutions.

Be most attentive to one thing at a time. This thing. At this time. With this person.

Your One Word choice doesn’t have to be profound or complex. Keep it simple and relevant to this season of your life.

It’s a step, not the complete journey.

When you welcome whatever comes in this day—accepting it as your reality for now—you are present to the gifts around you. Once you accept this moment, allow yourself to be guided into what to do next.

3. P—Plan

Think of a few concrete things you can DO to help you live out your One Word. Are there ways you can practice it?

Come up with a few ideas for how to use your word.

Yet at the same time, also release expectations of where your One Word will take you. Let go of a specific outcome you may have in mind. Your journey will shift as the year goes along.

Plan for the future, but hold your plans loosely.

We can’t predict how our words will work. But we can honor our intentions to use them wisely.

Let your word become embeded into your life one relationship at a time, one day at a time, one situation at a time.


Do you make yearly resolutions? What’s your One Word for this year? Share your thoughts in the comments.


Favorite 10 Books of 2020

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This is a hard task each year: deciding on my favorite books. But it’s also a fun task. Without intentionally looking back, I can forget about some of the great reads I was given in a year.

Here are 10 of my favorite books, followed by another 10 (which could as easily be followed by another 10, on and on).

1. Holy Envy
Finding God in the Faith of Others
by Barbara Brown Taylor

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Taylor chronicles her journey of teaching a college course on different world religions and what can be gained from each, while remaining rooted in her own faith of Christianity.

2. I’ve Seen the End of You
A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know
by W. Lee Warren

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Dr. Warren shares stories about his journey as a neurosurgeon and about the lives of his patients with brain cancer that inspire him to live better, do better, believe better.

[My review here of I’ve Seen the End of You]

3. Lies We Believe About God
by William Paul Young

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Young helps destroy some of the things we think we know about God but that aren’t true.

4. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
by Lori Gottlieb

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Gottlieb, a therapist, decides she needs a therapist after a breakup. She writes here about her own journey with therapy as well as things she learns from her patients.

5. Stamped from the Beginning
The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America
by Ibram X. Kendi

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Kendi teaches us lots of things we didn’t learn in history class about racism in the United States. This is an eye-opening book, well-researched and documented.

6. The Truth about Us
The Very Good News about How Very Bad We Are
by Brant Hansen

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We’re not as good as we like to think we are. But God has us covered anyway. Hansen’s writing is personal, liberating, and inspiring.

[My review here of The Truth About Us]

7. The Worry Cure
Seven Steps to Stop Worry from Stopping You
by Robert L. Leahy

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This is actually a helpful book about worrying. It’s broken down into seven practical steps and can be applied to many different types of worries.

8. Thinking, Fast and Slow
by Daniel Kahneman

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Kahneman explains the two ways we think: System 1, the intuitive level, and System 2, the more logical level. This is fascinating information about our brain and our behavior.

9. Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man
by Emmanuel Acho

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Acho answers the uncomfortable questions that white people often have about race issues, but are too embarrassed to ask. If you’ve seen his videos, you’ll feel like you’re talking to a friend in this book. 

10. Upstream
The Quest to Solve Problems Before They Happen
by Dan Heath

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Heath explains why it’s better to prevent a problem before it happens than have to clean it up afterwards.

Bonus: 10 More Favorite Books

These ten books are also very good, too. I hated to leave them out. 

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What book would you include in your top 10 list of 2020? Share in the comments.