5 Links I Love—December 2020

I’m sharing 5 things I love over 5 days this week. Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

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5 Links I Love

Nine Nonobvious Ways to Have Deeper Conversations

I’d answer YES to this question. You, too? “After all we’ve been through this year, wouldn’t it be nice to be able to talk about this whole experience with others, in a deep, satisfying way?”

Why Your Christian Friends and Family Members Are So Easily Fooled by Conspiracy Theories

“Rather than attempt to debunk the plethora of conspiracy theories, it’d be more helpful to understand why we’re so enamored with them in the first place.”

How to Socialize in the Cold Without Being Miserable

We had a relatively warm family Thanksgiving dinner outside last Thursday, but it may be a different temperature for an outside family Christmas dinner. I appreciate all the tips I can get. 

10 Journalism Brands Where You Find Real Facts Rather Than Alternative Facts

I’m doing a serious look through this list of “top 10 large journalistic brands where I believe you can most often find real, reported facts.”

The 10 Happiest Songs, According to Science

Do you have a happy song? I have a few that I play when I need to immediately lift my spirits. Here are 10 songs through the years that might bring you joy. Does one resonate most with you? Of these, my favorite is #5. 



5 Things to Laugh About in 2020

What an unusual year we’re living through! As we enter December 2020, let’s take a minute to laugh in spite of it all.

Being intentional about joy is an important exercise to keep us mentally healthy for the winter ahead.

May God give you many reasons to smile as we end this year and prepare for 2021.

At the first of each new month, I share 5 days of 5 things. Here’s the schedule.

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5 Things to Laugh About in 2020

I didn’t create any of these. But they each made me laugh as I came across them on social media. I hope they will make you laugh, too. 

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I knew I forgot to do something for Thanksgiving this year. I should have done this! 

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I realize life won’t drastically change when the calendar flips to 2021, but here’s to praying that 2021 won’t be just an extension of 2020. 

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On the Blog—November 2020

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from November 2020.

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5 Books I Recommend—November 2020

That’s the thing about books. They let you travel without moving your feet.
—Jhumpa Lahiri

Below are 5 books I recommend from those I finished reading in November. See all my recommended books here.

This week I’m sharing 5 days of 5 favorite things. Here’s the schedule.

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Nonfiction

1. The Color of Compromise
The Truth about the American Church’s Complicity in Racism
by Jemar Tisby

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Jemar Tisby gives us a history of racism through the lens of the Christian church in America. It’s not a pleasant journey. But it’s an essential one to see. He offers insights on better steps moving forward. An important book. 

2. White Fragility
Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism
by Robin DiAngelo

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This one is written by a white lady to a white audience about how we as whites can learn to be less defensive when confronted about racial issues. DiAngelo helps us see things from a different perspective, a needed perspective, so we can step away from our blind biases.

3. The Paper Solution
What to Shred, What to Save, and How to Stop It From Taking Over Your Life
by Lisa Woodruff

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If you want to get a handle on your paper clutter, this is an excellent place to start. This is a how-to book, broken down into manageable steps. I hope to put more of it into practice soon.

Fiction

4. Deacon King Kong
by James McBride

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Set in the housing projects in New York in 1969, this novel begins with an old church deacon shooting a drug dealer. From there you see the ripple effects throughout the neighborhood of how people are affected by the shooting.

5. Transcendent Kingdom
by Yaa Gyasi

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The author of this novel grew up in the largest city near me, Huntsville, Alabama. Her book is partially set in Huntsville as her family from Ghana acclimates (and doesn’t) to American culture. Both this book and Deacon King Kong have strong church themes running through them.

Reading Now

  • Always a Guest
    Speaking of Faith Far from Home
    by Barbara Brown Taylor
  • Searching for Certainty
    Finding God in the Disruptions of Life
    by Shelly Miller
  • Total Meditation
    Practices in Living the Awakened Life
    by Deepak Chopra
  • Attention!
    The Power of Simple Decisions in a Distracted World
    by Rob Hatch
  • The Lazy Genius Way
    Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn’t, and Get Stuff Done
    by Kendra Adachi
  • Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man
    by Emmanuel Acho

What good book are YOU reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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Ways to Keep Hope Alive
—Grace & Truth Linkup

They were prisoners in a POW camp in Vietnam during the Vietnam War. Isolated and tortured, they knew they needed hope to survive.

One by one, the inmates started tapping hopeful messages to the others by using their tin-metal drinking cup.

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This is the story that Bev shares as our Featured Post this week. She reminds us that while we may feel like prisoners in our own homes this year, we too need to keep hope alive for others and for ourselves.

“Remember that God is not flummoxed or frustrated by what’s going on. Ask Him what He would have you learn in this wilderness season.”

Read all of Bev’s post here for practical ways to send and receive messages of hope. They include: calling friends more often; sending an uplifting text at random times; writing old-fashioned snail mail; put on praise music as you run errands; memorize one new scripture each week; plus more.

Keep Sending Out and Receiving Messages of Hope

Let’s also remember to receive messages of hope that are sent to us!

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How are you keeping hope alive in 2020? Has it been difficult for you, too? Share your thoughts in the comments.


What Will You Read Next? How Do You Decide?

You’ve finished reading your book. How do you decide what to read next?

Here is how I decide what to read next:

  • I look to my blogging friends.
  • I watch what pops up on the “New Releases” shelf at the library.
  • I get book titles from podcast interviews (including Modern Mrs. Darcy, of course).
  • I take suggestions from in-person friends.
  • I write down recommended books listed within a book.
  • I notice nudges about specific topics I want to learn more about.

But in November? I add to my to-be-read list from #Nonficnov posts. It’s an overload of the best of the best nonfiction books from bloggers who read. 

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Below are the titles I’ve collected this November from the blogging challenge. I’ll first get samples sent to my Kindle from Amazon. If I like them, I’ll check my library and digital library for a free copy, or see if Net Galley has a free copy for review. If I can’t find a free copy and I really, really think it’ll be a great book, I’ll buy a copy.

Have you read any of these books? Would you recommend that I read them?

1. In Other Words
A Language Lover’s Guide to the Most Intriguing Words Around the World 

by Christopher J. Moore

Recommended by Deb Nance at Readerbuzz

2. The Power of Small
Making Tiny Changes When Everything Feels Too Much
by Aisling Leonard-Curtin & Dr. Trish Leonard-Curtin

Recommended by Leann at Shelf Aware

3. Lies My Teacher Told Me
Everything Your American History Textbook Got Wrong
by James W. Loewen

Recommended by Jen at Introverted Reader

4. The Warmth of Other Suns
The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration
by Isabel Wilkerson

Recommended by Claire at Claire Has a Life

5. The Body
A Guide for Occupants
by Bill Bryson

Recommended by Happiest When Reading

6. Bad Blood
Secrets and Lies in a Silicon Valley Startup
by John Carreyrou

Recommended by Katie at Doing Dewey

7. The Clutter Connection
How Your Personality Type Determines Why You Organize the Way You Do
by Cassandra Aarssen

Recommended by Laura at Library of Clean Reads

8. The Space Barons
Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, and the Quest to Colonize the Cosmos
by Christian Davenport

Recommended by Jen at Introverted Reader

9. Why We’re Polarized
by Ezra Klein

Recommended by Happiest When Reading

10. The Choice
Embrace the Possible
by Dr. Edith Eva Eger

Recommended by Carol at Reading Ladies


Do you have a favorite book you would add? Share in the comments.