My Best News Yet for 2021
—Grace & Truth Linkup

I struggle to stay in the present. My mind likes to drift toward the future…future plans, future ideas, future to-do’s.

And while those things are good and necessary uses of our present moments—they can make our future moments more pleasant when we arrive there!—my goal is to remain in this moment, enjoy this time, relish God in this grace.

What I’ve discovered the past three years is that when I play with my two granddaughters, I stay present. I’m engaged. And enthralled. In this moment.

For 2021, my opportunities to stay grounded in the present will go from 2x to 3x. After the gift of two granddaughters from our oldest daughter Morgan, our youngest daughter Jenna will give us a grandSON in May!

I’ve never been more surprised than when Jenna let us guess she was pregnant. Can you tell

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We only raised daughters. We then had two granddaughters.

So the introduction of a little boy into the clan will be something new for us. I’ll be looking for boy advice.

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I expect this child will capture my attention in every way like my granddaughters have done.

And I can’t wait to be mesmerized by him. He’ll keep me in the moment.

The Grands

Featured Post—Live Known

Even though my grandson doesn’t know me yet, I already know I love him. When Jeanne writes about choosing “Known” as her One Word this year, I remember how much God knows us. And loves us. More than we can ever know or understand.

“I have a sense God is inviting me to learn how to “live known.” I know that God knows me…I sense God wants me to trust Him completely.”

Read Jeanne’s post here about how she is transitioning from “Present” in 2020 to “Known” in 2021 at her blog, jeannetakenaka.com, then link up your own blog posts below.

2021: Focusing on One Word

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What’s your best news so far for 2021? Share your thoughts in the comments.


Step into Uncertainty—My One Word for 2021

And I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year:
“Give me a light that I may tread safely into the unknown.”
And he replied:
“Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the Hand of God.
That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way.

“God Knows” by Minnie Louise Haskins (1875-1957)

Not THIS One, Please?

I don’t know why.

UNCERTAINTY kept coming to me for months as my potential One Word for 2021. I fought it. I wanted something more positive. Something more doable.

I circled around it with words like CURIOSITY or CHANGE or VULNERABILITY.

But each time, God would bring me back to UNCERTAINTY.

And so here I am. Uncertain about UNCERTAINTY.

Maybe it’s the perfect word for me after all.

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“I don’t know”

I’ve definitely felt a lot of uncertainty the past year. Haven’t we all? The world doesn’t feel as safe as it once did. I’d like more answers, less questions. More security, less ambiguity.

But this is where we are. And uncertain is where I am.

I don’t know.

It’s a phrase I repeat a lot. And that I intend on repeating even more in 2021.

I’m looking for the good in not knowing. It’s in there somewhere. A certain value exists in knowing you don’t know.

  • Not knowing can breed humility.
  • It encourages new learning.
  • It lays a foundation for more trust.
  • It fosters dependence on God.

Month by Month, Walk Together

So as I step into this new year with an unwelcome word attached, I’ve made some goals. My monthly plan includes these ideas.

And I want more to trust God, not just my thoughts about God.

But I’ll hold these goals loosely.

Because what will happen next? . . . I don’t know.

My theme verses will be Proverbs 3:5-7. An abbreviated version from the Message is:

“Don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go. Don’t assume that you know it all. Run to God!”

So here I go, walking into the darkness of uncertainty.

But I am certain I won’t be walking alone.


Thanks to Lesley for introducing me to the beautiful poem at the top of the page. It’s commonly known as “The Gate of the Year.” Lesley says it’s quite common in the UK, but it its new to me in the States. Read the full poem here, “God Knows.”

How comfortable are you with uncertainty? Do you have One Word for the year? Share your thoughts in the comments.

If you want to join our monthly accountability group for your own One Word, here’s what we’ll be doing. We already have an active group on Facebook you also can join.

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How Aware Do We Want to Be?
—Book Review of "Total Meditation"

Are We Awake?

We’ve turned the page on 2020. But really? We know it’s only a calendar number.

2021 still looks very much like 2020.

Surely almost every person on the globe has been affected in some way or another by the pandemic we’ve been living through.

It can make us want to hide our heads under the covers until it’s over.

But we know that denial is not healthy.

Staying aware is the better choice.

Using Meditation to Become Aware

Deepak Chopra focuses on waking up through meditation in his new book, Total Meditation: Practices in Living the Awakened Life. Chopra says we don’t realize how critically important awareness is.

“To be aware is to notice something you didn’t notice before: You become aware that the room is getting too warm, so you turn down the thermostat. . . . Nothing can be changed in your life unless you first become aware of it.”

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But what is awareness?

“Awareness is the most basic experience possible. [It] is more basic than sights, sounds, tastes, textures, or smells. Our senses fill the mind with content, but awareness needs no content. Simply being here is the ground state of awareness. . . . You have a sense of self that exists no matter what is happening or not happening. That sense of self is awareness.”

How do we become aware?

On a purely physical level, our bodies already know. They stay aware of their functions. The heart pumps our blood; the lungs breathe the air; the stomach digests our food. 

And our brains? While they are always working, we don’t always stay mindful.

But to become mindful, we need to become aware. We clear our minds by coming back to the present moment, where every cell in our body already lives.

Jesus stated this truth in Matthew 6:34 when he told his followers not to be anxious about tomorrow, but to stay in today.

Tools for Awareness

Chopra suggests we use these tools to recover our minds:

  • Self-inquiry
  • Reflection
  • Contemplation
  • Concentration
  • Prayer
  • Quiet Mind
  • Controlled Breathing

To be aware means we return to center. For Christians believers, that center is Jesus. While that’s not the specific focus of this book, you can read it from that viewpoint.

While staying aware might not sound enticing on the surface (who wants to be aware of everything?), consciousness is vital to our healing. It unites our heart and mind. It brings life to memory, recognition, learning, and creativity.

When we remain aware, we can live better. Chopra says peaceful behaviors look like this:

  • You actively seek a solution from people who can genuinely help.
  • You don’t act on impulse but wait until you are centered.
  • You take responsibility for your feelings without lashing out or blaming someone else.
  • You trust that a solution is always possible.
  • You don’t become the cause of stress.
  • You respect others as your equal.

By living awake, we get unstuck from the “toxic merry-go-round” that we often live in.

Stay Awake

While I don’t agree with everything that Chopra writes, I do agree with his basic premise:

“The best way to live right now is to live as if you are awake.”

Awake to truth. Awake to love. Awake to God and each other.

Even when it’s hard. 

It’s not always easy to stay awake, to stay aware, but it’s always worth it. 


My thanks to Net Galley for the
review copy of Total Meditation


Happy New Year and the Grace & Truth Linkup

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On the Blog—December 2020

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from December 2020.

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7 Books I Recommend—December 2020

Many people, myself among them, feel better at the mere sight of a book.
—Jane Smiley

Sorry for two book posts in one week (my favorite 10 books of 2020 is here). But I didn’t want to miss giving you my December book recommendations. 

Below are 7 books I recommend from those I finished reading in December. See all my recommended books here.

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Nonfiction

1. Always a Guest
Speaking of Faith Far from Home
by Barbara Brown Taylor

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Barbara Taylor Brown gets to me. She puts things in ways that I didn’t think about, but immediately recognize. This book is a thoughtful compilation of some of her sermons.

[My book review here of Always a Guest]

2. Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man
by Emmanuel Acho

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Have you seen his videos with the same name? Look on YouTube and watch one or two. They are excellent. So is this book.

3. Searching for Certainty
Finding God in the Disruptions of Life
by Shelly Miller

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“In fear, we can miss the obvious—that your uncertainty is God’s opportunity to reveal his great love for you.” Unfortunately, Shelly died this fall in the prime of her life to a quick illness. I only knew Shelly through her blog through the years, but to those who knew her in person, her loss is especially heavy, and her words even more important. I’ll read this book again as part of my One Word 2021, Uncertainty.

4. How to Fight Racism
Courageous Christianity and the Journey Toward Racial Justice
by Jemar Tisby

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Having just finished Jemar’s The Color of Compromise, I had to read his followup book for his practical suggestions on how to move towards racial equity. He writes from a Christian perspective (but you don’t have to be a believer to benefit from the book). It’s a helpful one.

5. The Worry Cure
Seven Steps to Stop Worry from Stopping You
by Robert L. Leahy

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This book contains a lot of CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) steps to apply to many different types of worries. It’s one of the more helpful books I’ve read about worrying.

6. A Promised Land
by Barack Obama

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This book is long, and it only covers President Obama’s first four years in office, but it’s so well-written and the stories are so engaging that it’s worth the length. I didn’t always get the nitty-gritty policy stuff, but I loved the stories about his family life and the behind-the-scenes White House stuff. 

7. Why Don’t They Get It?
Overcoming Bias In Others
by Brian D. McLaren

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This short e-book is dense with information on multiples types of biases that we all fall prey to. I’m going to work back through it in 2021 to see which ones trip me up. Brian gives lots of examples from Jesus’s teachings to back up his material. The accompanying podcast series, Learning How to See, is also helpful. 

Reading Now

  • Total Meditation
    Practices in Living the Awakened Life
    by Deepak Chopra
  • Attention!
    The Power of Simple Decisions in a Distracted World
    by Rob Hatch
  • The Lazy Genius Way
    Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn’t, and Get Stuff Done
    by Kendra Adachi
  • Charitable Writing
    Cultivating Virtue Through Our Words
    by Richard Hughes Gibson
  • 40 Days of Grace
    by Paul David Tripp
  • Such a Fun Age
    by Kiley Reid

What good book are YOU reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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