Hope for Later – But Also Right Now

Hope blesses now

Break an Arm

I remember crashing down. The snow wasn’t soft enough. The ice was too hard.

I braced with my left arm.

And my arm snapped.

It hurt. Badly. [See the story here.]

But the pain from a broken arm went beyond physical.

It was my thoughts about the future that also caused suffering.

My One Word 2019

That happened years ago. But I think about it still.

Almost every year when I am searching for my One Word for the year, one word repeatedly makes it on my preliminary list: hope.

But each year, something else overpowers it. And perhaps rightly so. For those years.

But for 2019, my cynicism and pessimism towards the political and cultural divides in America have made “hope” stand out as the only correct choice.

Because even though I eventually gain it back, I can too easily give up hope.

Just like when I broke my arm. I too easily gave up hope.

What hurt the most were thoughts of losing future abilities to play the piano, to type, to use my left arm for anything meaningful. I was worried about the possibility of unimagined losses for a lifetime, not just that my arm would be useless for the next few weeks.

Hope Is Now

When I become hopeless about the future, I also lose my peace and joy in the present.

Hope brings more than just confidence about the future, more than just trust in God’s grace around the corner.

Hope also is grace for today.

I want joy in the now that comes from confidence in God down the road.

It’s right now that I gain peace when I hope.

These present benefits of hope are the ones I want to claim.

Hope on Hand

So with the Spirit’s guidance—a route I can’t fully predict or plot on a calendar—I want to call hope to mind more often in 2019. As a spiritual discipline. As a deliberate practice.

Each month as I hold hope for myself, my friends, our world, I want to cling to hope personified, the person and deity of Jesus. To learn from him. To let him hold my hand.

“I will not be shaken with the Lord at my right hand.”
Psalm 16:8

I know he’s at my left hand, too.

As it turned out, my broken left arm healed fine. Maybe a tad more crooked upon close examination, but it’s as functional as before the break.

So for 2019, this will be my theme:

“But this I call to mind,
and therefore I have hope:
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
his mercies never come to an end.”
Lamentations 3:21-22

Hope is not only for later. It blesses me right now.

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Do you have one word or phrase for 2019? Does hope come easily to you? Or like me, do you have to work at it? Please share in the comments.

Hope 2019

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5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – January 2019

Happy New Year! What are you looking forward to in 2019? What was a highlight of your December 2018?

1 Second Everyday


[If you can’t see the 1 Second Everyday video, click here]

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5 Things Around the Web

•  A Simple Message on One Man’s Door Is Inspiring Thousands
By Tracy Kornet

We’ve listened to Patrick Mead’s sermons for years. He’s a one-of-a-kind minister. Now that his father has Alzheimer’s, we’re also following that journey. Last month Patrick had to place his dad in a care facility. I love what he wrote for his dad’s door because “he’s not just the new guy in Room 14.”

father's story

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•  How Often Did You Use Cash Last Week? 
By William Thornton

I rarely use cash. But I always want to have some on hand. When’s the last time you used cash? More Americans are going a week without using cash.

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•  Here’s How America Uses Its Land
By Dave Merrill and Lauren Leatherby

I love great graphics. These maps of the United States show lots of different and easy-to-visualize statistics about how we use our land.

land use

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•  The 1 Question to Ask Yourself This New Year
By Nicole Leatherman

It’s only three letters, but it’s a big question, especially as you set intentions and goals for 2019.

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•  Package Deliveries

If you spent any of December awaiting package deliveries, you’ll relate to this, too.

Package Tracking

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5 Things with Books and Words

•  All the Words You Couldn’t Pronounce in 2018
By Christina Maxouris

I either mispronounced many of these myself, or avoided them altogether because I knew I wouldn’t say them right.

pronounce words

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•  The Bigger, Badder 2019 Book Tracking Spreadsheet 
By Rachel Manwill

Do you keep track of the books you read each year? I use GoodReads to keep track during the year, then download it into an excel spreadsheet at year-end so I can rank them. The method here seems pretty intense, but also quite useful.

book tracking

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•  12 Books That Every Leader Should Read: Updated for 2018
By Bob Sutton

Two of these are my favorites: Made to Stick and Quiet. Do you see any you want to read? Maybe this year I’ll tackle Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman.

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•  Talking Tech – Podcast

I love short podcasts. This one is about 5 minutes or less every day. It typically highlights one aspect of technology per episode: what’s the best way to save digital photos; how to cut the cord; video streaming options; etc.

talking tech

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•  Top 10 Books I Recommend from 2018
Here are my favorite 10 books from 2018, from a variety of genres: biography, memoir, politics, psychology, and religion & spirituality. I recommend them to you, too.

Top 10 Books of 2018

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5 Things I Love

•  God Connects

Our dear friends Adam and Amber are moving to Greece next week. They’ll be serving Syrian refugees. When Adam went to buy new tennis shoes for the trip, he met Chris working there. They connected. A few days later—moving day—Chris showed up all day to help Adam. God connections are strong ones.

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Tony, Chris, Adam, Jeff

 

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• Puzzle Mania

I don’t understand it. I become totally absorbed working jigsaw puzzles. It’s been a few years since I allowed myself the luxury. But this year I’ve indulged my craving during the Christmas break. And loving every second of it.

christmas puzzle

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• Through a Child’s Eyes

We loved, loved, loved celebrating our granddaughter’s first Christmas together. And this month? She’ll turn 1. Already!

candy cane

santa

baby jesus

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• Family Photos

We had a beautiful day for our whole family to get a photo together this year. I treasure these moments.

family christmas 2018

And it’s our yearly tradition to get a siblings picture with my brother and two sisters. I’m glad this year was no exception.

Siblings

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• Christmas with the Church

More traditions are to attend Christmas services with our youngest daughter Jenna and her in-laws (love them!); to help give away gifts to moms at Manna House; to celebrate with our own church.

highlands christmas

manna christmas

rock christmas

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5 Things on the Blog

•  2-Year Bible Reading Plan {Updated}
Instead of 1 year, take 2 years to read the Bible. Get the plan here.

•  8 Lessons to Learn from 2018
What did you learn from 2018? Here are 8 life lessons you can apply in 2019.

•  When Giving Takes the Fun out of Christmas
Are you looking for that perfect gift? Is it taking away your joy, your Jesus, this Christmas? Try these 3 things instead.

•  When the Bad Thing Does NOT Happen
She heard the shots. And saw the shooter. When something bad happens, it gets our attention. But when it doesn’t? Do we notice?

•  Keep Out? Not Always
The writing on the wall said keep out. But there was more to the story. Isn’t there always?

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What was a highlight from your December? What are you looking forward to in January? Please share in the comments.

previous Links and Books


On the Blog – December 2018


8 Lessons to Learn from 2018

8 Lessons from 2018

What did God teach you in 2018?

Looking back over the year, God taught me things in unique places and people in 2018. I wrote a little about each one during the year. If one resonates with you now, the links are under each picture.

Maybe you can use one for 2019.

1. There are no dead ends with God.

This dead end street in Panama City took heavy losses from Hurricane Michael in October. Charles was growing despondent.

dead-end

No Dead End Here


 2. Pay attention when the bad thing does NOT happen.

Jenna heard the shots. And then she saw the shooter.

man shooting at traffic

When the Bad Thing Does NOT Happen


3. No prayer is a throwaway.

The quiet Hispanic lady needed to tell me something. She said someone prayed over her 4 years ago. And now this?

No prayer is a throwaway. God is better. Lisanotes

Is This a Throwaway Prayer?


4. Grace always comes with refills.

The wind picked up. The paper blew onto the bottle. All the communion grape juice was now spilled on the ground.

Grace comes with refills

You’ll Always Get a Refill


5. Being in the majority may feel comfortable, but it can be detrimental.

Jeff and I looked around the comedy club. We were definitely among the oldest. And among the whitest.

Being in the majority feels comfortable. But it also can be detrimental.

When You’re the Minority


6. Be a planter, not a shooter.

The grocery store mom was yelling. I was uncomfortable. Words are either bullets or seeds.

Bullets or Seeds

Are Your Words Bullets or Seeds?


7. Raise your hand when you agree.

Averie is 7. She says things like this a lot: “Raise your hand if you know want to play a game” or “Raise your hand if you’re ready to eat.” Then she asked me: “Why do people raise their hands at your church?

Raise-your-hand

Raise Your Hand If . . . 


8. Give everyday grace generously.

The man is clearly blocking traffic as he walks down the road. Yet no one is honking at him. Why not?

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Give This Kind of Grace Generously

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What’s one lesson you learned in 2018? What do you want to learn in 2019?

Please share in the comments.


Silent Night or Noisy Night? {Book Review}

The Silent Noisy Night

This padded Christmas board book for children gets so many things right.

1. Noisy

For starters, Jill Roman Lord depicts the night Jesus was born as possibly quite noisy, not silent and still.

“I wonder if the cows all mooed.
The horses must have neighed.
Could little goats have bleated loud
and led the grand parade?”

2. Brown People

Next, the illustrations by Kelly Breemer aren’t of white Anglo-Saxon people. Baby Jesus, the shepherds, the townspeople: they are tan and brown, which is much more realistic.

3. Relevant

The message not only celebrates the past, but includes us in the present.

Silent-Noisy-Night page

4. Delightful

And lastly, it’s charmingly-illustrated, well-written, yet sturdy enough for little hands.

If you’re still looking for a Christmas book as a gift this year, or one to just keep on hand year-round for your own family, I definitely recommend The Silent Noisy Night.

My granddaughter and I have already enjoyed it this season. And it will be one we return to again and again in Christmas seasons yet to come.

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Do you have a favorite children’s book you read at Christmas? Please share in the comments.

My thanks to B&H Bloggers
for the review copy of this book


Top 10 Books I Recommend of 2018

Did you have a favorite book this year?

Here are my favorites from 2018 (some were published in 2018; others came earlier). Did you read any of these, too? Or do you see one you’d like to read in 2019?

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These books span a variety of genres: biography, memoir, politics, psychology, and religion & spirituality.

10.  Hallelujah Anyway
Rediscovering Mercy
by Anne Lamott

Hallelujah Anyway

Anne Lamott is so good at making things plain, yet profound. This book on mercy helps you stay merciful. I took copious notes.

“What’s the catch? The catch is that there is no catch. This is so subversive. All I have to do in order to begin again is to love mercy.”

9. Wait
The Art and Science of Delay
by Frank Partnoy

wait-the-art-and-science-of-delay

I’d rather get something finished earlier rather than later. But sometimes it’s better to pause instead of rushing in. This book was counterintuitive to many of the ways I think.

“There is an optimal amount of delay. Not everyone needs to be faster.”

8. Tears We Cannot Stop
A Sermon to White America
by Michael Eric Dyson

Tears-We-Cannot-Stop

Michael Eric Dyson is blunt. He says things we need to hear. About the white elephant in the room, white privilege. About schooling our white brothers and sisters, our cousins and uncles, our loved ones and friends. About participating to make a difference.

“The more black folk you know, the less likely you are to stereotype us. The less you stereotype us, the less likely you are to fear us. The less you fear us, the less likely you are to want to hurt us, or to accept our hurt as the price of your safekeeping. The safer you feel, the safer we’ll be.”

7. The Knowledge Illusion
Why We Never Think Alone
by Steven Sloman

Knowledge-Illusion

We think we know more than we do. As individuals, we know a lot less than we know collectively. There’s too much to know. That’s why we need to learn how to make the best use of each others’ knowledge.

“The curse of knowledge is that we tend to think what is in our heads is in the heads of others. In the knowledge illusion, we tend to think what is in others’ heads is in our heads. In both cases, we fail to discern who knows what.”

6. Beyond the Messy Truth
How We Came Apart, How We Come Together
by Van Jones

Beyond-the-Messy-Truth

It’s been a rough two years in politics. Van Jones not only acknowledges the problems (and he steps on everybody’s toes), but he also shows us a path forward. We can do better. He includes tons of helpful resources at the back of the book, regardless of which side you lean politically.

“One side is committed to liberty. The other side is committed to justice. Our schoolchildren get it right every morning; they pledge allegiance to a nation offering liberty and justice for all.”

5. The Gift of Years
Growing Older Gracefully
by Joan D. Chittister

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Joan Chittister doesn’t ignore the hard things about growing older; she redeems them. She finds the beauty in aging, and helps us discover them for ourselves. These things are more on my mind with each passing birthday.

“Life is not about age, about the length of years we manage to eke out of it. It is about aging, about living into the values offered in every stage of life.”

4. The Sin of Certainty
Why God Desires Our Trust More Than Our “Correct” Beliefs
by Pete Enns

Sin-of-Certainty

Pete Enns doesn’t condemn people for wanting to be “right” about what they believe; that’s a good thing. But he points out that no one is totally right. Everybody gets some things right and many things wrong.

‘I’m just following the Bible.’ No one just ‘follows’ the Bible. We interpret it as people with a past and present, and in community with others, within certain traditions, none of which is absolute.”

3. Everybody, Always
Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People
by Bob Goff

Everybody Always

If you want to be inspired to love bigger, read this book. Bob Goff is enthusiastic, illuminating, and motivating. He has a way of making you want to seek out an enemy just so you can love him.

“Find a way to love difficult people more, and you’ll be living the big life Jesus talked about. Go find someone you’ve been avoiding and give away extravagant love to them. You’ll learn more about God, your neighbor, your enemies, and your faith.”

2. When
The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing
by Daniel H. Pink

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You’ll change the way you think about time after reading this book. And if you let it, it can also affect your behaviors for the better. I took page after page of notes from this one. Daniel Pink always challenges my status-quo thinking.

“I used to believe in ignoring the waves of the day. Now I believe in surfing them. I used to believe that lunch breaks, naps, and taking walks were niceties. Now I believe they’re necessities. I used to believe that the best way to overcome a bad start at work, at school, or at home was to shake it off and move on. Now I believe the better approach is to start again or start together.”

1. The Sun Does Shine
How I Found Life and Freedom on Death Row
by Anthony Ray Hinton

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Anthony Ray Hinton was wrongly accused of multiple murders. He spent almost 30 years of his life in an Alabama prison for crimes he did not do. Finally, finally, justice prevailed, truth was revealed, and Anthony was set free. He tells his story from beginning to end here. You won’t forget it once you read it.

“When you are trying to survive, the superficial things don’t matter anymore. When you are hanging at the end of your rope, does it really matter what color the hand is that reaches up to help you?”

But Wait, There’s More!

And because I can never stop at just ten, here is my runner-up set of ten more books.

The next 10:

11. American Grace
How Religion Divides and Unites Us
by Robert D. Putnam

12. 21 Lessons for the 21st Century
by Yuval Noah Harari

13. 42 Seconds
The Jesus Model for Everyday Interactions
by Carl Medearis

14. Obama: An Intimate Portrait
The Historic Presidency in Photographs
by Pete Souza

15. The Desert and the Sea
977 Days Captive on the Somali Pirate Coast
by Michael Scott Moore

16. Blessed Are the Misfits
Great News for Believers who are Introverts, Spiritual Strugglers, or Just Feel Like They’re Missing Something
by Brant Hansen

17. Fear
Trump in the White House
by Bob Woodward

18. The Line Becomes A River
Dispatches from the Border
by Francisco Cantú

19. The Path Between Us
An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships
by Suzanne Stabile

20. Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics
A 10% Happier How-To Book
by Dan Harris

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What was your favorite book this year? Please share in the comments.