See the Movie, But Also Read the Book – Just Mercy

Are You a Movie or a Book Person?

Do you enjoy seeing a favorite book come to life on the big screen?

Sometimes I don’t. It’s hard to squeeze hours of plot and imagination from a reader’s mind into a 2-hour scripted window.

But sometimes I do like to see a book’s story envisioned to a wider audience. Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption is one of those stories.

See Just Mercy

I’ve seen several trailers for the movie, listened to interviews with the actors, and trust the book’s author Bryan Stevenson to have made a wise decision in allowing the film to be made.

See This Movie

The nationwide release of Just Mercy is January 10, 2020. It stars Jamie Foxx and Michael B. Jordan.

Watch the movie trailer here.

Just Mercy Official Trailer

It tells the story of Walter McMillian, a young black man in Alabama who was sentenced to die for killing a young white woman.

The problem? He didn’t do it. Yet he sat on death row year after year.

But Also Read the Book

If you haven’t already read the book, go see the movie. And then come back to read the book (there are a lot more stories in the book). You won’t be disappointed.

And if you don’t already know about Bryan Stevenson, the author of Just Mercy, be prepared to to be wowed. He is a public interest lawyer and the executive director and founder of the Equal Justice Initiative (EJI).

Watch this 60-second clip about Bryan Stevenson here.

Real life hero of Just Mercy

EJI, a nonprofit law office, began in 1989 in Montgomery, Alabama, to right the wrongs of judicial unfairness. Stevenson’s work with EJI has been phenomenal in defending the poor, the incarcerated, and the wrongly condemned.

So when Stevenson talks, we need to listen. 

Closely.

“This book is about getting closer to mass incarceration and extreme punishment in America. It is about how easily we condemn people in this country and the injustice we create when we allow fear, anger, and distance to shape the way we treat the most vulnerable among us.”

And when we get closer, we discover another truth that Bryan shares so eloquently:

“Proximity has taught me some basic and humbling truths, including this vital lesson: Each of us is more than the worst thing we’ve ever done.”

Because how we treat others, ultimately reveals the kind of people we are.

“The true measure of our character is how we treat the poor, the disfavored, the accused, the incarcerated, and the condemned. We are all implicated when we allow other people to be mistreated.”

Stevenson says we have a choice. We can embrace our humanness, which includes acknowledging our brokenness and invoking our compassion. Or we can deny our brokenness, and thus deny our own humanity.

“The power of just mercy is that it belongs to the undeserving. It’s when mercy is least expected that it’s most potent—strong enough to break the cycle of victimization and victimhood, retribution and suffering. It has the power to heal the psychic harm and injuries that lead to aggression and violence, abuse of power, mass incarceration.”

Stevenson hasn’t given up the work of healing the injustices in our nation.

May we not give up either.

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Watch Bryan Stevenson’s 2012 TED talk here

Bryan Stevenson TED Talk

• Read about another convicted death row inmate and Stevenson’s work in The Sun Does Shine: How I Found Life and Freedom on Death Row by Anthony Ray Hinton. It was one of my top 10 books of 2018. It is another VERY powerful story. I first wrote about Hinton and Just Mercy here.

• If you’re ever near Montgomery, Alabama, visit The Legacy Museum. You will be moved, I guarantee.

• Other social justice books I’d like to see made into movies are on my Instagram post.

Would you rather see a movie or read a book? Have you seen or read Just MercyPlease share your thoughts in the comments.


Do You Judge the Victim? How Much Is She Worth?

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We hear the story. And we start wondering:

  • Was she wearing provocative clothes?
  • Was it after midnight?
  • Had she been drinking alcohol?
  • How hard did she fight back?

Maybe it’s because we think: If I avoid those things, I’ll avoid sexual assault, too.

But Rachael Denhollander was just a kid going to a doctor for a gymnastics injury.

And on her first visit, in street clothes in the middle of the day, sober, she was assaulted by Dr. Larry Nasser, a renowned doctor for the USA Gymnastics national team and a physician at Michigan State University.

Don’t blame the survivor for not fighting back. They wish so much more than you that they could have.”

So next we ask ourselves:

  • Why didn’t she say something right then?
  • Why did she go back to him?
  • Why didn’t she immediately press charges?
  • Why did she wait so longer before she told anybody?

Because, again, we think WE would do differently.

“And why did I not tell my mom? I didn’t know how to reconcile who he was supposed to be with what he had done. And I didn’t want to give it words. Words make it real.”

But in reality, we don’t know what we would do unless we are there ourselves. And Rachael explains what happened to her without us having to go there ourselves, fortunately for many of us.

“How do you explain to someone who has never been that vulnerable that even though I wasn’t ‘held down,’ I was still trapped? Even though I wasn’t ‘physically overpowered,’ I was completely powerless?

“There weren’t just two responses to danger —fight or flight —as everyone casually said. There were three. Fight, flight, or freeze. I know what freezing in fear is now. It’s when you’re so confused and ashamed and horrified and scared that you just . . . shut down, because reality is incomprehensible.

“Why didn’t you cry out? Why? Because I trusted. I was a child. He was a doctor. He knows best. He had cared for me. He knew me. There had to be a reason. I must be reading too much into it.”

Rachael also reminds us that we need to drop the narrative that if you’re abused, you did something to deserve it. No. If you’re abused, the blame falls on the abuser, not the abused.

“You are not crazy. I wanted the survivors to know. This. Is. Not. Your. Fault.

Rachael was among the first women to come forward about being sexually abused by Larry Nassar. She recounts her story and her journey to trial in her gripping book, What Is a Girl Worth?: My Story of Breaking the Silence and Exposing the Truth about Larry Nassar and USA Gymnastics. If you haven’t read it yet, I encourage you to. It’s a difficult book to read, but it’s an important one.

Rachael is wise, articulate, and authentic. She is an attorney, advocate, educator, wife, and mom. She stays on track with the storyline and she shares her strong Christian faith along the way.

“I want you to understand why I made this choice, knowing full well what it was going to cost to get here and with very little hope of ever succeeding. I did it because it —was —right. No matter the cost, it was right. “

She moves us to think. To feel. To act.

And to stop blaming the victim.

Because, as she asks the judge at Nassar’s trial before his sentence is determined, how much is a little girl worth? Everything.

“Good and right do exist. Truth does exist.”

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Thanks to those who recommended this book to me. You were right about it.

Please share your thoughts in the comments.

My thanks to Tyndale House Publishers
and Net Galley for the review copy of this book


5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – January 2020

Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

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  • 5 interesting things online
  • 5 articles about words, books, or podcasts
  • 5 pictures of things I love
  • 5 things on the blog

What are you enjoying this month?

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5 Things Around the Web

The Original Article on Mister Rogers

Have you seen the movie “It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” with Tom Hanks as Mister Rogers? Please do! It’s so good. This is the original Esquire magazine article that the movie is based on.

White Fragility: Why It’s so Hard To Talk to White People About Racism

Thought-provoking. “Our socialization renders us racially illiterate. When you add a lack of humility to that illiteracy (because we don’t know what we don’t know), you get the break-down we so often see when trying to engage white people in meaningful conversations about race.”

Something This Protestant Learned from a Jew About Reading the Bible: A Story

We do well to listen to Jewish readers talk about the Bible. “I wonder how much else I think I know about the Bible might be less what I actually read in the Bible and more what I bring to it?”

6 Steps to a Safer Digital Life: Your 2020 Checklist

I’ve been working on #1 already. Cleaning up my digital clutter is harder than cleaning up my physical clutter.

Gregory Boyle’s Inspirational Speech about Gang Members

There is no us and them, just us. I love the work and the person of Gregory Boyle. His book, Tattoos on the Heart, hooked me a few years ago.

Gregory Boyle video

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5 Things with Words and Books

LSSU’s 45 Annual List of Banished Words

Did you notice any words overused, misused, or generally useless this past year? The list includes quid pro quo, living my best life, I mean, ….

How to Read More Books: Life Kit Podcast

Life Kit is a newish podcast to me that I love. This episode on how to read more books is a winner with all 3 tips.

5 Things to Help You Read More

And another “how to read more” list…this one has 5 things (#1 is the hardest for me, but I’m learning to do it).

How to Make Time to Read

Laura Vanderkam gets real. We have time to read, but are we reading what we want to? Some of it is our choice to make.

My Personal Favorite Books of 2019

It was hard narrowing down the list. But here are the favorite books I read in 2019: 10 nonfiction, 10 fiction, and 5 memoirs.

Top Books of 2019

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5 Pictures of Things I Love

Christmas Poses

Last month we took a lot of traditional family photos. I do not like getting my own picture made, but I love having photos of our family together.

Christmas poses

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Family Traditions

There are traditions I love doing either yearly (attending Christmas candlelight services together with Jenna and her in-laws) or at least every few years (The Nutcracker ballet).

Christmas Traditions

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Babies in Bassinet

Another Burgess family tradition is getting each newborn’s picture made in the family bassinet. My newest granddaughter and her cousin weren’t too excited about being put in there together, even for a few seconds.

babies in bassinet

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Play-Doh Play

Nobody loves Play-Doh more than our oldest granddaughter. I’ve learned that I love it now, too. I’m finally learning to create more than just snakes and balls.

Play-Doh

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I’m the Mom

This meme makes me laugh, because it’s true.

I'm the mom

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5 Things on the Blog

3 Steps to Choose “One Word” 

Have you picked one word for 2020? Here are 3 steps to help you choose a word right for you.

Should You Take This Personally? 

I hear her screaming at me. “I know you’re not sorry!” Should I take this personally?

Find Hope in the Darkest Day of the Year, Or, Why I Love Winter Solstice

Winter is my least favorite season. But after the darkest day of the year comes a brighter one.

9 Reasons to Keep Hope Alive No Matter What 

Hope works. Even when it doesn’t come naturally, we can choose hope. Here are 9 reasons to keep hoping, regardless of your circumstances.

How I Read and 2020 Reading Challenges

This is how I read. I hope to read as much in 2020 as I did in 2019, which is mainly in snatches of time here and there. Here is a list of 2020 Reading Challenges I am participating in. It’s not too late to join, if any interest you.

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What was a highlight from your December? What are you looking forward to in January and 2020? Please share in the comments.

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Bless Others through Your Brokenness

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We all know what it means to take a loaf of bread, break off a piece, hand it to a friend.

Glenn Packiam shows us what a sacred act it is in his book, Blessed Broken Given. As Jesus created holy moments with bread in his life on earth, we discover through Packiam that we can do the same thing.

“There is more to this life than what you see. There is more to you than what you see. Nothing in this world is as common as it seems. Even bread is really more than bread.”

This book breaks down each word, Blessed – Broken – Given, and gives examples from Jesus’s life in the New Testament and provokes thoughts for our own ways to live out these concepts.

“Bread in the hands of Jesus is blessed, broken, and given. And so it is with you. Your life, as common and ordinary as bread, in Jesus’s hands becomes something more.”

It is okay to not be okay.

“Let your brokenness open you up. To the light. To love. To the grace of God.”

It’s not difficult to show your scars; it’s much harder to reveal your wounds. To let others into your pain in real time, to allow them to see that tender place of brokenness, to allow them to hear your questions, your off-the-cuff reflections, your in-the-moment vows—that is hard to do.”

But we don’t have to do it alone. We have a High Priest who goes with us.

He gives us a holy imagination. “Begin to see all God’s gifts and handiwork as icons of His glory and grace.”

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How will God use your brokenness to bless others in 2020? How can you share with others what God has given to you? Please share in the comments.

My thanks to Net Galley & WaterBrook Multnomah
for the review copy of this book


On the Blog – December 2019

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from December 2019.

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How I Read and 2020 Reading Challenges

In snatches of time between here and there, I read. Five minutes here, ten minutes there. Weeks go by and books get finished.

I don’t keep a standard to-be-read list.

Rather, I get samples of books I’m interested in sent to my Kindle from Amazon. I currently have 343 books (too many!) in my Samples folder (I create my own folders on my Kindle). These book suggestions come from other bloggers, podcasts, library shelves, friends, other books, etc.

After reading the sample, I decide if I want to read the full book. If I don’t, I remove the sample altogether.

But if the book does make the cut, I move it from my Samples folder to one of these folders:

  • My Borrow These folder (206 books, groan!)
  • Or, if I really like it and can’t find it at the library or on NetGalley, to my Buy These folder (47 books, and let’s be real, I’ll only buy maybe 5 a year).

When I’m ready for a new book, I look to those two folders on my Kindle to choose from. 

Occasionally someone will loan me a book or I’ll get a pre-published book to review on my blog or I’ll pick something off the “New” shelf at the library.

Sometimes they’re a dud. Sometimes they’re fascinating. And occasionally they’re life-changing.

So I’ll keep reading when I wake up too early in the morning or when I can’t sleep at night or as I’m folding towels at home or waiting in line at Walmart.

Almost every day I read. Definitely every week.

Reading books make me happy.

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2020 Reading Challenges

This year I’m returning to reading challenges.

  • They’re fun.
  • They provide camaraderie among readers.
  • They push me to expand my reading selections.

Here are the 2020 challenges I’m participating in. With each, you choose the books you want to read in each category. And you choose your preferred level of participation.

You can also include the same book in multiple challenges (crossovers are usually encouraged). Books can overlap.

Most have a monthly or quarterly linkup if you want to add your book reviews and see what others have been reading.

You can also set your own goals and/or create your own shelf on Goodreads, or join several of these challenges on Goodreads or Facebook.

Look into one or more of these challenges for yourself if you’re interested. We can read together.

For the Love of Ebooks Reading Challenge

Details: Any number of ebooks from any source, any genre
My Goal: Pro Status, 20-29 ebooks
Host: As Told by Tina

The 2020 Reading Challenge

Details: 12 books total over 10 categories (such as, a book by a local author, a re-read, a classic you didn’t read in school, …)
My Goal: 12 books
Host: Modern Mrs. Darcy

Library Love Challenge

Details: Any 12+ books from the library
My Goal: Thrifty Reader, 24 library books
Hosts: Angel’s Guilty Pleasures and Books of My Heart

NetGalley/Edelweiss Reading Challenge

Details: Any book from NetGalley or Edelweiss
My Goal: Bronze, 10 books
Host: Reading Between the Pages

New Release Challenge

Details: Books released/reviewed in 2020, minimum 100 pages per book
My Goal: New Release Newbie, 1-30 books
Hosts: Linda and Brandee

Nonfiction Reader Challenge

Details: 1 book each from 12 given categories (such as memoir, disaster event, psychology, …)
My Goal: 12 books
Host: Shelley Rae at Book’d Out

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I don’t always set reading goals. Do you? How many books do you want to read in 2020? Please share your thoughts in the comments.

Here are my favorite books from 2019.