Who Is With You?—Grace & Truth Link-Up

 

Who Are You With?

Sometimes it’s who we’re with that matters more than where we are or what we’re doing.

If you’ve had to shelter at home the past two months, hopefully you’ve enjoyed the company of those around you (most of the time anyway!).

But there is one whose company we’re always in. And it’s always good. Even when we’re unaware of his presence.

Our Featured Post

Paris Renae wrote a beautiful post last week entitled, “I’m With Him.”

She reminds us that even when we yell, think bad thoughts, are jealous, etc., God has us covered. No condemnation. Just forgiveness.

Why? Because we’re with him, with Jesus.

Read it all here. 

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MAREE DEE – Embracing the Unexpected
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LAUREN SPARKS
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Have you enjoyed you enjoy the company you’ve been quarantining with? Please share your thoughts in the comments


Stuck in the Middle? 3 Ways to Stay Strong

Being in the middle can feel abysmal.

Whether it’s from the pandemic or other circumstances . . .

  • Our strength wanes; we’re weak. 
  • Our supplies run out; we’re thirsty. 
  • Our optimism turns dark; we’re discouraged.

But our lack never takes God by surprise.

With God, we can do this. We are and will be blessed.

Even in the middle.

Read the rest here . . .

 3 Ways to Stay Strong When You’re Stuck in the Middle

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I’m writing today at Do Not Depart on Psalm 84.

Will you join me there?


What If You Hadn’t . . . Upstream and Downstream

If You Hadn’t?

  • What if you hadn’t buckled your seat belt?
  • What if you hadn’t kept your blood pressure under control?
  • What if you hadn’t had kids?

What if you hadn’t stayed home the past few weeks?

What didn't happen

We rarely know the answers to these kind of questions. The things we prevent from happening aren’t easily measured. These are upstream things.

It’s easier to measure downstream things . . . fires we put out, addictions we overcame, criminals we arrested.

As states reopen, either in phases or full-out, some are saying our stay-at-home efforts were in vain because the coronavirus didn’t get out of hand in our state.

True? Not true? How can we know?

We often undervalue what DIDN’T happen if we can’t measure it. We never know how many fires didn’t happen because someone practiced fire prevention.

We don’t know how many people didn’t get COVID-19 because of our staying at home. 

Work from Upstream 

Staying at home has been an upstream activity.

Dan Heath explains upstream activities in his excellent new book, Upstream: The Quest to Solve Problems Before They Happen. 

“Downstream actions react to problems once they’ve occurred; upstream efforts aim to prevent those problems from happening.”

By staying home, we prevented many health problems from occurring.

But we can’t prove that. Heath explains “the prophet’s dilemma“: it’s a prediction that prevents what it predicts from happening, a self-defeating prediction.

“What if Chicken Little’s warnings actually stopped the sky from falling? The Y2K bug was an example of the prophet’s dilemma. The warnings that the sky would fall triggered the very actions that kept the sky from falling. Maybe what society needs is a new generation of enlightened Chicken Littles.”

We often preach upstream principles to our children. We’d rather them say no to a dangerous behavior from the get-go instead of saying yes and dealing with consequences later.

It’s also what God does with us. He advises upstream behaviors for our benefit, to keep our lives wholesome and healthy and as problem-free as possible.

More Downstream to Come?

So now what will happen? With the silencing of Chicken Little’s voice, more businesses are opening again.

We’ll find out in a few weeks if the gamble was worth it.

And if there are more new cases and spikes in hospitalizations? We’ll have to do more downstream work of throwing life preservers.

We can pay to fix problems once they happen, or we can pay in advance to prevent them.”

We’ll always need people around to do the downstream work. Things happen and we need rescues. God’s grace is the best downstream gift I know. Doctors and nurses are downstream gifts, too. 

“We will always want someone there to rescue us. The point is that our attention is grossly asymmetrical. We spend our lives consumed with problems that we might have avoided altogether.”

If I can avoid a problem or two altogether, I’d prefer that.

I plan on continuing coronavirus upstream actions awhile longer: staying home as much as possible, wearing a mask when I’m out, and practicing social-distancing.

I’ll try to be patient in the process. It can take awhile to see which fruit grows from either staying home or from going out.

“Downstream work is narrow and fast. Upstream is broad and slow(er).”

Taking an upstream approach isn’t always popular. Or easy. But it’s usually worth it.


Please share your thoughts in the comments.

Thanks to Net Galley
for the review copy of Upstream


So, What DO You Know?—Grace & Truth Link-Up

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Uncomfortable with Uncertainty

We haven’t canceled yet.

Our reservation is still on for June. But building sandcastles on Panama City Beach and playing in the Gulf waters with our kids and grandkids seems very iffy.

I realize, even in the best of times, we can’t accurately predict next month. People get sick. Work crunches happen. Unexpected scenarios pop up.

We learn to live with a little uncertainty.

But the uncertainty of these times? It’s maxed out. We can’t even predict when we’ll see pork chops at the grocery store again, not to mention who might catch the coronavirus and be quarantined, or worse, for two weeks.

I don’t like it. Uncertainty makes me anxious.

“Intolerance of uncertainty is the most important element in worry.” Yes, Robert Leahy, I agree.

So to calm my worries, I’m reminding myself more and more these days:

I don’t know, but God does.
I don’t know, but God does.
I don’t know, but God does.

I can’t demand certainty from anything in this life. God—as love and as goodness—is the only unchangeable thing I know.

Everything else? It’s subject to change, and mostly out of my control.

Whether we make footprints on the hot sand next month beside baby and toddler feet, or whether Jeff and I just take another lap around the neighborhood, alone, on a sticky Alabama evening, is unpredictable.

I just don’t know that. But God does.

That’s what I do know.

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Our Featured Post

Our featured post this month is by Karen Del Tatto.

How to Trust God in Times of Uncertainty

Karen gives us great advice, looking at what the Bible says about the future and showing us how to have faith in uncertain times.

“We may live in uncertain times, but for those who are in Christ Jesus, our future is certain and secure. If we can trust God with our eternal future, we can certainly trust Him with our lives here on earth.”

Read it all here. 

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1. Share 1 or 2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. (No DIY, crafts, recipes, or inappropriate articles.) All links are randomly sorted.

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LAUREN SPARKS
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What plans have you had to cancel? What plans are you still holding loosely for the future? Please share your thoughts in the comments


5 Links, Books, and Things I Love—May 2020

Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

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  • 5 interesting things online
  • 5 funny memes
  • 5 articles about words
  • 5 pictures of things I love
  • 5 things on the blog

What are you enjoying this month?

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5 Things Around the Web

The Reason You’re Exhausted Is ‘Moral Fatigue’

What was once a small decision now feels like it could be life or death.

20 Questions to Ask Instead of “How are you doing right now?”

And how to get a better answer than, “Hanging in there.”

Arguing with Your Partner About Household Chores During COVID-19?

Here are 13 suggestions from Gretchen Rubin to help ease tension in relationships.

Lockdown was supposed to be an introvert’s paradise. It’s not.

“For introverts, extroverts, and everyone in between, is the bizarre feeling of being socially overwhelmed despite the fact that we’re staying as far away from each other as we can.”

Meet the Illustrators Who Gave the Coronavirus Its Face

Here’s an interesting backstory about the little red coronavirus illustration we’re all VERY familiar with by now.

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5 Memes

More funny memes. We all need to laugh more, right?

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5 Things with Words and Books

8 Pandemic Words & Phrases People Absolutely Never Want To Hear Again

What words are you tired of hearing? This list includes: new normal, social distancing, and trying times.

A Side Effect of the Covid-19 Pandemic? Reading Got a Lot Harder

Yes! These university students—and their professor—have trouble focusing on their reading. 

7 Digital Libraries You Can Visit from Your Couch

I haven’t visited these yet (my library’s digital collection is more than enough for me), but it’s good to know these are available.

How Reading Books Helps Your Brain Recharge

Find a good book you love and recharge.

4 Books I Recommend

Reading was hard the first half of April (see above article). But it’s getting easier again each week.  

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5 Things I Love

The Grands

We made a day trip in April to see the grandbabies. I couldn’t stand it any longer. Our youngest granddaughter has started sitting up and our oldest is talking in paragraphs. Jenna took the best photos, so they will sustain me for a little while.

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5 Things on the Blog

When You Need to Stay Where You Resist Being

Even when it may be easier to run away, sometimes we need to stay. With our pain. With God. With love. Excerpts from Stay by Anjuli Paschall.

Will Life Go Back to Normal?

Will things ever go back to normal? Probably not. But hopefully, some things will be better, if we learn our lessons right.

Just One at a Time

Keep reaching out, one at a time. Isolation will end; relationships won’t.

Is It Okay to Do Nothing?

It’s okay to do nothing sometimes. If we lose touch with our being, our doing is wasted. Just be. See what happens.

Congratulate Yourself – Thanks for How You’re Helping

Congratulate yourself. There are a lot of ways to help people through this crisis. Don’t underestimate your way.


What sustained you in April? What are you looking forward to in May? Please share in the comments.

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The Call to Come Close—Grace & Truth Link-Up

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Check Your Closeness

We visited with my in-laws (Jeff’s parents) this week. It was the first time in two months. We’d been delaying a visit because they are in a high-risk category.

But we decided with safe physical distancing, we could talk outside for a bit.

And it was delightful. For them and for us.

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But it was also weird. We had to check our internal calls to get closer. We typically hug hello and hug good-bye. We typically sit close and chat.

Not this time.

The life-and-death risk outweighed the benefits. For them and for us. 

Concerns Are No Joke

Back in the moon shot days of the 1960s, scientists encountered a similar threat. They weren’t sure if the astronauts would leave potentially destructive germs on the moon (forward contamination). And/or if the astronauts coming back from the moon would bring potentially destructive organisms back to the earth (backward contamination).

Dan Heath explains it in Upstream. He adds,

It might be tempting to mock these fears now, with the infallibility of hindsight, but this concern was no joke. Existential risk was in the air.”

One day we may look back on 2020 and see we were unduly afraid of risks that weren’t valid.

But right now? We’re still in the unknown. Existential risk is in the air.

NASA still keeps up its efforts to reduce contamination. Catharine Conley was one of the Planetary Protection Officers (formerly called the Planetary Quarantine Officer, interestingly enough). Conley said,

“So far as I can tell, planetary protection is the first time in human history that humans as a global species decided to prevent damage before we were capable of doing something.”

Heath adds, “May there be a second time.”

This is a second time. 

Heath didn’t know when he wrote the book that as I was reading it, we are living in the second time.

May we continue to proactively prevent damage to each other.

Our Featured Post

In our featured post, “Draw Near,” blogger Linda Gill writes about drawing near, while staying apart, with her prayer partners on a Monday morning. It’s a beautiful story.

And so is her conclusion. Linda writes,

“BUT…the sweet news I share is that we are never…no NEVER…far from Jesus. He calls us to be near to Him.”

Read it all here. Linda always shares gentle, godly wisdom at her blog, beingwoven.org.

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Who have you missed seeing in person? In which situations have you practiced social-distancing?  Please share your thoughts in the comments