Using the Enneagram as a Spiritual Tool
—Book Review of The Enneagram for Spiritual Formation

It’s not THE answer. But it is AN answer.

The Enneagram is credited for more than it can accomplish and blamed for less than it can do.

In reality, it falls somewhere in between. The Enneagram is a tool for personal growth. And as such, it can also be used as a tool for spiritual formation.

Improving our spiritual practices is a goal of A.J. Sherrill’s book, The Enneagram for Spiritual Formation: How Knowing Ourselves Can Make Us More Like Jesus.

Enneagram Spiritual Formation

Sherrill shows in his book that we can use the Enneagram to root our identity in Christ, to work with our personality, and to create a life of wholeness and beauty.

After I read a few pages, it seemed vaguely familiar. I bought and read Sherrill’s Enneagram and the Way of Jesus a year ago. That book is no longer for sale and this book is its updated rewrite.

As Sherrill does in his Enneagram workshops, he also states in The Enneagram for Spiritual Formation these four agreements:

  1. Remember that you are not a number.
  2. Refuse to become branded as the Enneagram person, church, or organization.
  3. Resist the urge to type another person.
  4. Reclaim the Enneagram as a means, not an end.

For each of the nine Enneagram types (see all the numbers here), Sherrill lists the following (as an example, I’ll use Type 6):

  • Type 6
  • One Word: Questioner
  • Survival Strategy: “I must be secure and safe.”
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  • Lies they believe: “It is not okay to trust yourself.”
  • Truth they need: “You are safe.”

He later lists discipleship spiritual practices for each Enneatype: downstream practices (these come naturally) and upstream practices (harder to do).

For example, he suggests Type 2s practice hospitality as their downstream practice and to use centering prayer as their upstream practice. The day in the church calendar they should heed is Maundy Thursday (the day Jesus washed feet).

This book isn’t an exhaustive resource to fully explain the Enneagram. But if you already know your number, it can help you discover specific ways to practice it.

In the conclusion, Sherrill says,

“There are many things the Enneagram cannot do. Its power is limited. However, as a means toward self-reflection, spiritual practice, marriage, leadership, and evangelism, it is an incredibly valuable tool. . . .

The Enneagram isn’t Jesus, but it can help you learn how to be more like him.”


To learn more about the Enneagram (including 3 ways to find your number), see my Enneagram series, “The Enneagram for Spiritual Growth” here.

Do you know your Enneagram number? I’m a Type 5. Share in the comments.

My thanks to Net Galley
for the review copy of this book


5 Posts on How and Who to Love
—Grace & Truth Linkup

I’m splitting up my five groups of five favorite things this month, sharing one per day. 

  

1. How Can You Love Your Political “Enemy”?


We can hardly even TALK to our political opposites lately. How can we do better? Here are tips from Beyond Your Bubble.

2. Love Yourself by Changing Your Mind

We cause ourselves unnecessary emotional pain when we think untrue thoughts. Show yourself more love by tweaking your thought patterns.

3. 3 Tips to Spread Love Online, Not Hate


Here are 3 tips to make a more peaceful internet by taming our digital tongues in our online relationships.

4. You Are Called to Be a Minister of Love 


Every believer is called to be a special kind of minister: a Minister of Reconciliation. What does that mean? Healing relationships requires love of a special kind. 

5. Keep Your Honesty; Add More Love

It feels good to always be right, but it’s always right to be more loving. Love matters the most. 

Featured Post—The Loss of Love to Suicide

And with love also comes grief.

Heather tells us about losing a friend this summer to suicide.

If you’ve lost anyone to suicide—or walked with someone who is suicidal (even yourself?)—then you’ll relate to Heather.

She also tells the anxiety that gripped her at the fear of losing another person she loves dearly.

Read all of Heather’s post here at her and Valerie’s blog, CandidlyChristian.com.

“Losing Someone to Suicide“

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5 Pictures of Things I Love—October 2020

I’m splitting up my five groups of five favorite things this month, sharing one per day. 

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5 Pictures I Love

A FRIEND IN PERSON

I haven’t seen this sweet friend since the pandemic began. We finally got to see each other in person this week. I appreciate technology, but I still prefer in person the best.   

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FALL FLOWERS

My sunflowers have been beautiful again this fall. I love their brightness as the days are already getting shorter. 

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SISTERS ARE GRAND!

They don’t always get along this grand together, but having our granddaughters for the weekend is always grand to me.

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SMILE FOR THE CAMERA

The 2-year-old has learned to pose, unprompted. And she does it quite well!

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OUR HAPPY PLACE

This is definitely a fun season of life! Playing with the grands has been the best. 

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5 Things on Reading and Writing—October 2020

I’m splitting up my five groups of five favorite things this month, sharing one per day. 

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5 Things on Reading and Writing

1. Nonfiction November Is Almost Here

I did this challenge last year and loved it. Write weekly on your blog or post pictures daily on Instagram with prompts. Get details here.

Blog discussion prompts include:

  • Week 1: (Nov. 2 to Nov. 6) – Your Year in Nonfiction
  • Week 2: (Nov. 9 to 13) – Book Pairing
  • Week 3: (Nov. 16 to 20) – Be The Expert/Ask the Expert/Become the Expert
  • Week 4: (Nov. 23 to 27) – New to My TBR

2. One Word 2021—Too Soon? Nah!

What is your one word for 2020? (Mine is “Linger.”) Are you already thinking about a word for 2021? It’s not too soon!

I’m working on an easy monthly linkup starting in January for anyone interested. I’d appreciate accountability with my word and having a community would help. (So far, my word possibilities are…maybe “Uncertainty” or “Enough”???)

One Word 2021

Details coming next month. 

It’s also not too soon to start thinking about Anita Ojeda’s annual writing challenge for February. Join the #Write28Days group on Facebook to start planning for Feb ’21.

3. Quote Investigator

This is supposedly a reliable way to check the source of a quote. (I didn’t have a lot of luck with it, but maybe you will? I’m not giving up yet.)

4. The Booktrail

When I’m planning a trip, I like to read a novel set in that location. This site is supposed to search for books by their setting. I haven’t used it myself yet (I haven’t been outside Alabama in 6 months!), but it’s good to know it’s available.

5. 4 Books I Recommend

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What’s the latest book you recommend? I finished reading these four wonderful books in September:

  • a book about the Bible and spirituality (Love Matters More)
  • how to use the Enneagram to become more like Jesus (The Enneagram for Spiritual Formation)
  • how to talk across our political divides (Beyond Your Bubble)
  • a novel about two generations of two NYPD families (Ask Again, Yes)

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5 Memes I Love—October 2020

I’m splitting up my five groups of five favorite things this month, sharing one per day. 

Today we look at 5 of my favorite memes from the month.

5 Memes I Love  

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5 Things to Make You Smile

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5 Links I Love—October 2020

I’m changing it up this month. Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

And I still am. But for October, instead of 5 groups of 5 things in 1 day, I’m spreading it out: 1 group of 5 things over 5 days this week.

It seemed a little less overwhelming to me. 🙂 TBD what I’ll do in November.

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5 Things Around the Web

Sisters, You Have Permission to Lead an Ordinary Life

Breathe easy. Instead of thinking you have to do world-changing things, relax and live your quiet, ordinary life. It’s extraordinary enough as it is. (HT to Barbara)

Stop! Think Twice Before Switching Churches in 2020

I admit that temporarily changing churches has crossed my mind during this pandemic…but only because there aren’t many mask-wearers at my church so I haven’t been back in person yet. I miss Sunday gatherings.

About Those Old White Men

Confession: I’m often guilty of stereotyping “old white men” as most resistant to seeing their own faults and being willing to change. But this article reminds me there are still quite a few “old white men” that I know personally who are incredible human beings. 

How To Organize Your Digital Information

How easily can you locate a document or folder on your computer? I try to stay digitally organized, but it’s a battle. Some good tips here. 

Embrace the Rule of Awkward Silence

“Intelligent minds like Tim Cook and Jeff Bezos embrace the rule of awkward silence. You should too. In a word of instant gratification, awkward silence is more useful than ever.”


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