5 Posts and 5 Favorite Comments

One of my favorite things about blogging is reading your comments. They often contain far more value than my posts.

Here are five favorite posts from the blog last month, along with five of my favorite comments from you beautiful readers. Thank you for sharing your hearts and wisdom here. 

I’m sharing five groups of five things I love, one per day this week.

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5 Posts and 5 Favorite Comments

1. Would You Want to Be the Next President? 

Would you want to be the next President? Not everyone is called to lead. But Jesus invites all of us to follow.

From Lois:

“I served as class secretary all four years, and in college, when I was given the opportunity to be the editor of the newspaper, I chose to work in the media affairs office instead. I’ve often wondered if my avoidance of leadership roles was indicative of some kind of weakness or flaw, but maybe God has called me to other things, as you suggest. Here’s to “following where Jesus leads,” no matter what the future holds.”

2. Can You Wait 5 More Minutes? 

Can you wait just 5 more minutes before you give in to that temptation? Sometimes that’s all we need.

From David:

“Wait 5 minutes” is a very good idea, which I will definitely use. 5 minutes later I am busy doing something else and the urge is forgotten.

In an insomnia attack, I have to get up. Read, write, have a snack, … the best thing is yoga. 3am is quite a good time for a long slow session. And then my whole body is singing out for sleep.

Perhaps any habit that says “It’s bedtime, you will be asleep soon” will be effective. Bedtime journalling has worked for me (though after 5 minutes I’m just getting started). The best scheme ever was a 1/2 hour sesh: 15 mins free writing — has to be *about* something, has to be positive (eg why I like X); 15 mins reading poetry. Both of which I love but never have time for. And having to set aside 30 mins meant I intentionally went to bed early. Will be starting this again soon as I’ve just ordered a new book of poems.

3. God Personalizes Your Gifts 
God knows you by name and by need. He personalizes his gifts for you.

From Donna:

“God is not one size fits all, and engages with us on such a personal level according to our need. When going through a difficult trial, it’s so comforting to know He sees “me” and knows “me” not just someone like me. Thank you for this encouragement!”

4. What Do You Think About God? It’s Critical 

What we think about God determines who we are and how we live. That’s why it’s important we form the right ideas. Read this excerpt from James Bryan Smith.

From Linda:

“Loving God with you, friend.
How mercifully kind, loving, and just He is.
He’s got this. All that assails us.”

5. How to Prevent Compassion Fade During a Pandemic

How do you not get overwhelmed by the big numbers of deaths during the pandemic? Prevent compassion fade by focusing on one person at a time.

From Marielle:

“I have seen the power of focusing on or ministering to the one. I try to keep that perspective in being present with one child, writing to bless just one soul, and praying for others one by one.”


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5 Things to Make You Smile—November 2020

We need some laughter today, yes? We’ve been through a lot (and we’re still here!).

These 5 things made me smile. I hope they will make you smile, too.

 

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It took me a minute to get the last one. 🙂 Here’s an explanation if you need help.

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5 Links I Love—November 2020

I’m sharing 5 things I love over 5 days this week. Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

What are you enjoying this month?

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5 Links I Love

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Who Is Better at Wearing Mask? Women or Men?

Research suggests it’s women. They are better at wearing masks as well as taking other measures to stop the spread of Covid-19.

Random, Granular Tips for Christian Bloggers

If you’re a Christian blogger, you’ll likely find some goodies in this article by Tim Challies, including the advice to ignore most of the rules. “As Christians, our main concern should always be loving others and doing what is beneficial to them.”

One Way to Calm an Anxious Mind: Notice When You’re Doing OK

“When our mind goes into the future, we worry and plan. When our mind goes into the past, we resent and regret. Threads of fear are woven into the mental tapestries of past and future.

“Look again at this thin slice of time that is the present. In this moment, are you basically OK? Are you breathing? Is your heart beating? Is your mind working?”

How to Reach Out in the Time of Covid

We may have to stay physically distant, but we don’t have to stay socially distant. Good tips here, including: 

• Ask for advice
• Never accept the first answer

How Does Your COVID-19 Risk Tolerance Compare to Others?

Take this interactive quiz to see how you handle these situations compared to other people: Going to the movies, taking a flight and eating at an indoor restaurant.



5 Reasons to Read Nonfiction Books + 5 Favorite Books to Read in 2020

The librarian finally handed over the two books that I had put on hold months ago. I’ve been patiently waiting for both of them. One is nonfiction, White Fragility. The other is fiction, Transcendent Kingdom.

The librarian was especially excited about the novel. She asked me if I’d read the author’s first novel, Homegoing. I hadn’t. She said they both were SO good.

I loved her enthusiasm.

I know many readers who are excited about novels. I’m glad.

I love novels too. I want to read the best of the best.

But my true love? Nonfiction books.

Many don’t understand that. They assume that fiction books are more interesting because they’re not limited to the facts; novels can be about anything, limited only by the author’s imagination.

But as the saying goes, truth is often stranger than fiction.

And nonfiction books have much to offer. Different things. Important things.

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5 Reasons to Read Nonfiction

Some studies say that women read more fiction than nonfiction (reverse for men), but I read more nonfiction (although I love both).

Here are 5 reasons I enjoy reading nonfiction books. And 5 books I read this year that I can recommend under each reason.

1. LEARN ABOUT THE PAST TO UNDERSTAND THE PRESENT

This year has been particularly jarring in the United States for a variety of reasons, including our increased awareness of racial disparities. I’ve been reading many books (and having conversations) about it to better understand it.

But I also wanted to read a history book on racism to get a fuller picture of the past, to better understand what brought us to this point. Books about the past can enlighten us about where we are now.

One such history book I recommend highly is:

Stamped from the Beginning
The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America

by Ibram X. Kendi

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It enlightened me on things I didn’t learn in history class because they weren’t taught there. It is a challenging book (both in length and in scope) but exercising your brain is another benefit of nonfiction.

2. BE INSPIRED BY OTHER PEOPLE’S LIVES

While we can certainly be inspired by great heroes in novels, there’s something special about a real person’s account of their actual story. (I’m even more inspired by a movie if I know it is based on a true story. You, too?)

Hearing how other people make sense of life helps me survive it better myself.

One book I recommend in this category is by W. Lee Warren, a practicing brain surgeon who treats patients with a fatal type of brain cancer, glioblastoma.

I’ve Seen the End of You
A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know
by W. Lee Warren, MD

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Warren’s stories about his journey as a neurosurgeon and about the lives of his patients inspire me to live better, do better, believe better.

3. LEARN SOMETHING NEWLY DISCOVERED OR NEW TO YOU

Nonfiction books are where many researchers pour out their discoveries. I’ve learned that the more I know, the more I know I don’t know. And the more I am in awe of God who does know all.

You can learn the latest and most current news through nonfiction, as well as learn how to do or improve on things new to you, whether cooking or computer skills or how to build a house.

Five of the more popular nonfiction categories are: food, history, memoir, politics, and self-help. But there is no end to the available categories. You can find a book on anything and everything.

One area I love learning about is how we think and why we do what we do. Here’s a book I recommend in that category.

Thinking, Fast and Slow
by Daniel Kahneman

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Kahneman’s book on the two ways we think is a fascinating read about our brain and our behavior.

4. CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE

We often read fiction books to lighten our mood or transport us to a different place. But nonfiction books can do that, too. They can make us laugh or cry or be amazed. And they do it based on factual information.

One of my favorite daily books I read every morning is this one by Bob Goff.

Live in Grace, Walk in Love
A 365-Day Journey
by Bob Goff

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Goff starts each day’s devotional with a Bible verse then shares a personal story to weave a direct application to our own lives. This little book gets my day started on a positive note.

5. EXPAND YOUR PERSPECTIVE

There are no end to the number of books to grow in spirituality and expand your faith and worldview.

These are some of my favorite types of books because they reach down to the deepest parts of my beliefs about God and work their way out through my actions.

A favorite book I read this year in this category is by one of my favorite authors, Barbara Brown Taylor.

Holy Envy
Finding God in the Faith of Others

by Barbara Brown Taylor

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Taylor writes from her own Christian perspective, sharing how she grew in her own faith by learning from believers of all faiths.

Just Keep Reading

After I finish a book, I sometimes know immediately how important it’s been. Other times I don’t realize it long after the fact.

It may not have taught me a particular skill or informed me of previously unknown facts.

But if it challenged my thinking or prompted new growth or encouraged me to love deeper, even if I forgot the actual words I read, it was worth reading it. 

Books can change us.

I hope books have done that for you, too, fiction or nonfiction.

Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep reading.


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3 Reasons You Don’t Read Nonfiction (And Why You Should Anyway)

What’s the latest nonfiction book you’ve read? What encourages or discourages you to read nonfiction? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

 

I’m sharing 5 things I love over 5 days this week. Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.


On the Blog—October 2020

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from October 2020.

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Can You Wait 5 More Minutes?
—Grace & Truth Linkup

When the Temptation Comes

It happened again last night.

I woke up around 11:45 pm. I only slept for 90 minutes and I’m already awake? Not good. Sigh.

I know the best thing to do. Relax, meditate on memorized scripture, pray. 

But sometimes I lack the self-discipline for that.

An immediate temptation instead?

Put in my earbuds, find a non-engaging podcast to listen to on my phone, and let it derail my brain into nothingness. It can take awhile to work. And sometimes the podcast topic is too interesting after all, and it keeps me awake. Or if I forget to set the sleep timer to turn the podcast off, it wakes me back up later.

Sometimes I suspect the whole process of trying to get back to sleep can actually keep me awake.

But listening to podcasts is just so tempting. And so easy. I don’t like waiting for sleep to come on its own good time.

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Wait 5 More Minutes

It’s hard to wait for things we want. We’re accustomed to instant gratification. Amazon has spoiled us with “buy now.” Google gives us prompt answers to our queries. Apple music lets me hear my favorite song immediately.

It’s uncomfortable to sit in uncertainty. The in-between makes us antsy. We’d rather forge ahead with the quick thing than wait patiently for the right thing.

So when I’m tempted to jump in too quickly, I trick myself with this: Just wait 5 more minutes.

  • Instead of sending off the angry email in the heat of the moment, wait 5 minutes.
  • Instead of getting the 3rd slice of pizza because I’m still hungry, wait 5 minutes.
  • And instead of immediately reaching for the podcast when I can’t sleep, just give it at least 5 minutes. Relax my muscles, recite scripture in my head, and watch my breathing.

God can do a lot when we give him 5 minutes. When we turn off the urgency. When we release our grip on getting relief now.

Our emotions might shift. We might find something better to do in the delay. We might discover a better solution. We might find we can hold off even longer. The problem may even resolve on its own.

And if it doesn’t? Well, maybe we need another 5 minutes. Or maybe this time we just give in to the podcast to lull us back to sleep.

Either way, we don’t always need willpower to get through hour after hour.

Maybe we just need willpower for 5 more minutes.

Sometimes in the 5 minute delay, I actually fall asleep.

And stay asleep.

For much longer than 5 minutes.

Featured Post—Do This for 5 Minutes

Donna Bucher suggests a 5-minute bedtime ritual to clear our minds. Try using a night journal to unload your thoughts and quiet your mind before sleep.

“Writing down your thoughts at bedtime brings an end to the day. It draws a line between today and tomorrow. It gives you a new, fresh day upon waking and keeps today from spilling over into tomorrow.”

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Using a Night Journal For a Quiet Mind at Bedtime

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