Oil the Hinges – Day 11 of Handmade

DAY 11 of Handmade Series, #Write31Days

DOORS

Doors are solid.

They’re intended to block the way. To keep what’s inside in, and to keep what’s outside, out.

Door - Are your hinges oiled

Except . . . when they’re open. Open doors remove the barriers. They allow the freedom to travel in and out, back and forth.

It’s the hinge that makes the difference.

A hinge allows room for movement. For opening. For closing.

Because of the hinge, change is possible.

Our acceptance or decline of opportunities from God often hinge on our attitudes, our faith, our surroundings.

Are we keeping our hinges well-greased?

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Which door do you open and close most often at your home?

(2) Is there a person or situation that comes in and out of your life?

(3) What door do you want God to open for you now? What door do you wish he would close?

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What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) Probably the door to the bathroom. Or the door to the garage.

(2) I have a crazy relationship with my running watch. I’ll lose it for a few months, then it’ll pop back up, out of the blue. I bought a new watch after I misplaced the old one again, which I subsequently left in a car out of town. But surprisingly, a week later the old watch resurfaced one more time. (I need to be more responsible, yes?) More seriously, I also have a young friend who rushes into my life occasionally with big needs, then lays low for awhile after that.

(3) I’d like an open door to deploy with PAR, our local disaster response team, for hurricane relief, in either North Carolina or Florida. Only two weeks ago exactly, Jeff and I were enjoying beautiful, calm weather at Panama City City Beach, and now it’s been upended by Hurricane Michael.

More here

  • Who Will Open the Door?
    Mr. M didn’t answer the door last week. Will he tonight? People pass through our lives so quickly.
  • Portals for God
    Look for portals—openings—that God wants to reveal himself through your routine tasks. Unwrap these gifts of grace; enjoy them to the fullest.
  • When God Parts the Waters, Walk Across
    Opportunities come to us in different ways. But if God parts the waters for you, walk across.

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How Do You Worship? – Day 10 of Handmade

DAY 10, OCTOBER 10

How

Sometimes we know what to do. And even why we do it.

But how?

How do we do it?

How do you worship

How Do We Worship?

How is often underrated.

How is the nuts and bolts of intent. It puts the movement in our lives.

When we think of what we worship, or more precisely, who we worship, many Christians automatically think of God. And hopefully that’s accurate.

When we think about where we worship, one place is the building we gather on Sundays. And also everywhere else we go should be a place of worship.

But how do we worship?

That can look different for each individual.

church of the latter day dude

On Sundays our worship may look similar to others within the same walls. But from building to building, it can vary greatly.

And on Mondays-Saturdays, how we worship can definitely look different from day to day, from person to person.

Think this week about your how, as much as your what, where, or why.

And not just on Sundays. But every day.

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) Are you a screamer at ballgames or concerts, or are you one who sits silently and enjoys?

(2) What’s the norm for worship at your church? Contemporary? Traditional? Quiet? Noisy?

(3) Have you changed how you worship through the years?

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What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) I don’t really yell crazy like a lot of people of games, but I do like to be enthusiastic.

(2) Our church’s worship is contemporary with a bit of rowdy participation from the crowd.

(3) My church of origin was very conservative and very still. Our singing (a cappella only) was to be vigorous, but that was it. Sometimes it was; sometimes it wasn’t.

More here

  • Raise Your Hand If . . .
    She asked, “Why do people raise their hands at your church?” That’s a good question. How would you answer?
  • Let the Body Worship
    I grew up being very still during singing with the church. That’s fine. Still is. But sometimes, when God is in the house, how can a body contain him?
  • I Need Your Worship
    If I feel the words drying up in me, I glance at her to remember why I’m here. For Someone bigger and greater than me. I get that by watching her worship.

Get the whole Handmade series here

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Breathe in the Inspiration
Day 9 of Handmade

Inspire

I would like to be remembered as a person who wanted to be free… so other people would be also free.
– Rosa Parks

Day 9 Inspire

For the hanged and beaten. For the shot, drowned, and burned. For the tortured, tormented, and terrorized. For the abandoned by the rule of law. We will remember. With hope because hopelessness is the enemy of justice. With courage because peace requires bravery. With persistence because justice is a constant struggle. With faith because we shall overcome.

I was fighting back tears.

We hadn’t even paid to enter the museum yet. But standing there in front of the cashier, I wanted to just hug her and cry.

I am white. She is black.

And I’m at the entrance to The Legacy Museum.

It’s the brainchild of Bryan Stevenson, the inspiring lawyer who heads the Equal Justice Initiative and author of the everybody-must-read-this-book Just Mercy.

The location itself is chilling.

The museum is built on the site of a warehouse that once housed slaves in Montgomery, Alabama. Montgomery was the capital of the domestic slave trade in Alabama. And Alabama was among the top two slave-owning states in the United States.

That should be enough to make anyone cry.

But it gets worse. Once inside, we listened to holograms of former slaves inside jail cells, shackled and worn. They told their stories. They pleaded for our help.

We then walked past exhibit after exhibit of hard things, horrible things, things that should never have happened.

Yet they did.

It doesn’t end with the past though. The museum continues forward into this era of mass incarceration.

You can sit across the table with a video of a prisoner. Pick up the phone, and he tells you his or her story. You’ll cry again.

We later walked through The National Memorial for Peace and Justice. It’s dedicated to the thousands of lynched African-Americans.

If a lynching was documented in your county of the U.S., there is a heavy steel monument hanging from the ceiling with your county’s name and the names of the lynching victims.

There are over 800 monuments here, representing over 800 counties in America where over 4,000 human beings were documented to be lynched by other human beings.

That doesn’t include the undocumented. Who knows that number?

lynching memorial

I looked for my county. It was there. And 3 names.

  • Daniel McBride
  • Joe Harris
  • Alex MacDonald

I wondered about their stories. About their mamas. About their children…and the children they didn’t get to have because their lives were cut short by lynching.

On the other side of the structure are corresponding steel columns laid in rows on the ground. These are only temporary. They are there until a representative of each county claims their monument and establishes one on their own soil.

Raise Up Memorial for Peace and Justice

“Raise Up” sculpture by Hank Willis Thomas on the grounds of the Memorial for Peace and Justice

We then left Montgomery and drove to Selma, Alabama. We walked across the Edmund Pettus Bridge.

It’s another very sobering site.

rosa parks

the Rosa Parks magnet now on my fridge that I bought in Selma

Our history has multiple dark chapters.

Yet also hope. And little by little, alongside hope came change. And with change came healing.

Love never stops breathing into humanity.

Love inspires us to never give up.

Love emboldens us to always move forward. Despite the darkness. Despite the pain. Despite the affliction.

Keep breathing in love. Be inspired. Press on.

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) What book have you read more than once?

(2) What speaker or author or friend inspires you?

(3) What is Love inspiring you to do in this season? 

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) The Power of Now

(2) This week I’m inspired by those who speak their truth, specifically the courage of “Science Mike” (Mike McHargue). He’s begun telling his own story of being sexually assaulted, even though he’s not ready to tell it fully now. Or maybe ever. It happened years ago. And that makes no difference.

(3) I’m inspired to lean in to hear hard stories and to look for ways to make a difference, however small they seem.

More here

  • How to Stay Soft in a Hard World
    She’s seen so much badness. Yet, she’s still touched enough to cry for this bride. She still has a heart. Where can I get one like that?
  • Hey You, Overweight Runner
    Hey you, overweight runner. You’re my hero today. When we see somebody doing a hard thing, we are encouraged to do a hard thing, too.
  • Honor the Wounded
    When someone gets hurt for the cause, they deserve an extra salute. Shouldn’t we all participate in their healing? Honor the wounded.

Watch about The Legacy Museum here

Why Build a Lynching Memorial Video

Equal Justice Initiative Racial terror lynching has a legacy that must be confronted.

Watch more videos about the Museum and the Memorial here

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Step Out of Your Comfort Zone – Day 8 of Handmade

DAY 8, OCTOBER 8

Comfort

The promise of stretching is not success, it’s learning.
– Chip Heath, Dan Heath

Day 8 Comfort Zone

I like my comfort zone. It feels safe. It’s not scary.

But I can run in circles inside its borders. It doesn’t push me outward into the world.

And it’s outside of my comfort zone where real growth usually happens.

So sometimes I have to get a running start to break out of my comfort zone. Other times I just tiptoe out of it, one inch at a time.

God is good at calling us out of our comfort zones.

Is he calling you out of a comfort zone now?

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) What’s your favorite comfort food?

(2) Who is good at comforting you during hard times?

(3) When has God called you out of your comfort zone? What happened?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) Chocolate chip cookies – they’re my go-to treat. After hundreds of them, I haven’t gotten tired of them yet. They taste like home to me.

(2) It depends on the issue. Jeff is helpful at alleviating my guilt when I need to say no to something. My girlfriends and sisters and daughters give good comfort about relational things.

(3) God calls me out of my comfort zone almost every week. For example, it takes me awhile to get comfortable in volunteer opportunities I get, but then something will change in it and I’m uncomfortable all over again. Yet God keeps showing up with me anyway, even in my awkwardness.

More here

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This Is Why It’s Safe to Hope – Day 7 of Handmade

DAY 7, OCTOBER 7

Hope

“How you view tomorrow affects how you live today.”
– Caleb Kaltenbach

Sometimes I worry when I think about the future.

  • I know worrying is futile.
  • I know it’s faithless.
  • I ask God to break me of it.

And slowly, ever so slowly, he is removing it.

I haven’t released it totally (I still have a long way to go). But at least I see progress.

I have hope.

God of Tomorrow

Books like this help – God of Tomorrow: How to Overcome the Fears of Today and Renew Your Hope for the Future.

Because they point to God.

How you view tomorrow affects how you live today

While I don’t agree with everything Caleb Kaltenbach writes, I agree enough.

And I definitely agree with this:

Why hold on to hope for tomorrow? Because God will be there.

Not because he will make everything you wish for come true.
Not because you won’t have disappointments along the way.

But because God will show up in your tomorrow. He always does.

“Let’s confidently point people in the direction of what hope has to offer: God himself. He himself is the focal point that we look to when we’re fatigued, upset, saddened, or troubled about the coming days. Hope reminds us that our best days are ahead, not behind us.”

More Quotes

Here are a few quotes from God of Tomorrow that moved me. Maybe they’ll move you, too.

“Since tomorrow belongs to God, we can graciously offer hope to people today.”

~ * ~

“There is someone greater than our worst fears.”

~ * ~

“God isn’t afraid of tomorrow, and neither should we be.”

~ * ~

“We can take comfort in the bigger picture that Christianity has outlasted and will outlast any one person who leads a political party, city, state, country, gang, or empire. There’s great freedom in knowing that our faith doesn’t rely on the politics of any one person or nation. Our faith rests securely in the rule of God on earth today and his promise for a better tomorrow.”

~ * ~

“God is on his throne. He won’t relinquish it. He’s not pacing back and forth with anxiety, wondering how things will turn out.”

~ * ~

“God has already been to the tomorrow you’re excited about. God has already seen the tomorrow you’re dreading. Tomorrow belongs to God, not you.”

Three Questions

Our three questions for today are:

(1) Are you a worrier or not?

(2) What’s one thing you hope will happen today?

(3) What’s something you hoped for that God did fulfill? What hasn’t come true?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) Unfortunately, yes, I am a worrier. My mind drifts to the imaginable possibilities. I have to consciously force it elsewhere.

(2) I’m hoping my granddaughter will let me see her first new baby tooth today!

(3) In younger years, I remember hoping for different guys to be “the one” but I am SO very thankful that God didn’t let those come true. He knew instead that Jeff would definitely be the one for me. He was very much worth waiting for!

More here

  • Get Your Hopes Up
    Life never goes as expected. We’re often afraid to get our hopes up. But here’s why we should.
  • When You Want to Hope
    Will I ever see these kids again? I want to hope that their lives will turn out good. But will they?
  • 3 Ways to Have More Hope
    We all have times we need more hope. Here are 3 ways to choose to have more hope.

My thanks to Net Galley
for the review copy of this book

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Do You Belong at Church? – Day 6 of Handmade

DAY 6, OCTOBER 6

Belong

“God doesn’t like people to be without a place. Out-of-place people always have a place with God.”
– Caleb Kaltenbach

When someone asks, “Where do you go to church?” we know what they mean.

But I’ve been ruined to answer ever since the AVB song, U Can’t Go 2 Church, “cause the church is you.” [Listen to it here; it’s quite catchy.]

You can’t go to church as some people say
The common terminology we use everyday
You can go to a building, that is something you can do
But you can’t go to church ’cause the church is you

To be polite, not contentious, and remain truthful, I answer what they’re looking for. I say, “I go to The Rock now. And I love it.

Belong at Church - Day 6

Where Do You Fit In?

But depending on how long we talk, and how far they’re willing to go, we uncover more spiritual traditions about each other.

We discuss deeper than where we find ourselves seated on Sunday mornings.

Do you have a church you feel you belong to?

While we may want to find one place and stay there for life, that rarely happens anymore, for better or for worse. People move. People change. Faith changes.

If you’ve ever left a church, you know how painful it can be. I definitely know.

But if you’ve then landed in a more fitting community to grow your faith—a place you belong—you also know how refreshed you can feel. I know that exhilaration, too.

Your Church History

Think about how God has led you to the churches you’ve attended.

And how he’s led you to the place you are now, whether this is a final landing place or not, whether you’re satisfied there or not.

Find him in this part of your story. He’s in it.

What is he up to now?

Three Questions

Here are our three questions of the day:

(1) How many churches have been a true home for you?

(2) Have you ever changed denominations or faith traditions?

(3) What’s one thing you really love about your current church?

* * *

What are your answers? Please share in the comments.

My answers

(1) Four churches have really been home for me at different seasons of my life. I’m grateful for all four. I’ve learned things, made lasting friends, and found God in new ways at each one.

(2) I’ve remained in the Christian faith, but I have moved from a very conservative to a more multi-denominational church.

(3) I love the worship at my current church! It’s all about Jesus, with both head knowledge and heart emotions.

More here

  • How to Be a Perfect Christian
    This satire of how to be a perfect Christian by The Babylon Bee will make you laugh. And make you cringe.
  • Quit Going to Church
    I pray for you to quit going to church and start being the church.” More quotes from Bob Hostetler’s book, Quit Going to Church.
  • Where Do You Go to Church?
    It’s not as easy a question as it sounds. Frank Viola in Reimagining Church has some interesting answers.

 

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