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Week 2 of Nonfiction November is about Choosing Nonfiction. Here are a couple questions I often ask when I decide on a nonfiction book:

• Can I do something with this book besides just read it?
• How can I experience this for myself, too?

(Disclaimer: I also love novels! But I read them for escape, for fun, and for entertainment. If it turns out to prompt action, too, well, that’s just bonus.)

5 Reasons to Do a Book Instead of Just Reading It

Here are 5 reasons why I find doing a book to be beneficial—and a book suggestion for each.

1. YOU UNDERSTAND BETTER WHEN YOU PRACTICE.

Reading about something is one thing. Doing it is another. To get better at basketball, for example, you don’t just read about plays and strategies; you pick up a ball and play.

“Doing” a book works the same way to me. Answer the journal prompts. Try the exercises. Experience the game, when possible.

My book club recently finished Priya Parker’s book, The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters.

But instead of only reading it, we are trying to individually experiment with Parker’s ideas in our own gatherings. It’s been interesting to try new strategies in how we meet with others.

2. YOU DISCOVER BLIND SPOTS.

My friend showed me how to do something. It looked easy. Until I tried it myself. Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know until you actually try it yourself.

Here’s a book that is perfect for this if you want to discover your blind spots: Seek: How Curiosity Can Transform Your Life and Change the World by Scott Shigeoka.

While reading about curiosity is one form of practicing curiosity, it’s more beneficial if you take the material outside the book to see where you can improve.

Shigeoka suggests practical tips, like acknowledge small bids for attention, take a “brave pause,” or ask yourself key questions before taking action.

While we want to learn from others’ mistakes, the strongest lessons still come when we experience our own.

3. DOING MAKES IT STICK.

We retain what we do longer than what we simply read. Books that get us out of our heads and into our bodies make knowledge stick around better.

This book did it for me: Democracy in Retrograde: How to Make Changes Big and Small in Our Country and in Our Lives by Sami Sage and Emily Amick.

Some of its practical suggestions include:

• Audit your news consumption
• Create a civic calendar
• Show up at local events
• Join a nonprofit
• Call your representatives
• Celebrate small wins

At the book’s prompting, I finally downloaded the Five Calls app for calling Congress, and now I use it to keep up with my calls to representatives instead of starting every time from scratch.

4. DOING BUILDS CONFIDENCE.

This summer when I realized I was on my phone too often, I read this book for strategies: How to Break Up with Your Phone: The 30-Day Plan to Take Back Your Life by Catherine Price.

In it, she instructs the reader to actually pull out their phone and do things like this:

• Set a digital Sabbath
• Assign a bedtime and wake-up time for your phone
• Establish no-phone zones in your home
• Unsubscribe instead of just delete unwanted emails

These are all actions I can do (well, some of the time anyway?), thus building my confidence (a little) that I can control my phone instead of my phone controlling me. This one is still a work in progress for me….

5. DOING TURNS KNOWLEDGE INTO WISDOM.

After watching the encouraging reels by James ‘Fish’ Gill on Instagram, I grabbed a copy of his book about relationships: How to Fall in Love with Humanity: 16 Life-Changing Practices for Radical Compassion. And I’m so glad I did.

His insightful advice can improve relationships—but only if they’re practiced.

Here are some examples from his book, things you may already know but good reminders to practice them:

• Share your experience, not your analysis
• Listen to understand, not just to respond
• Ask questions with curiosity, not assumption
• Witness both the yearnings and the pains of others

Learning is rarely one-and-done. It takes time and repetition to go from head-knowledge to heart-wisdom. 

The Takeaway

Books aren’t only for your thinking—they’re also for your living.

The best nonfiction doesn’t just inform. It challenges you to act.

So read a book, then do it, and watch for the changes that follow.

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Which book have you read recently that you could put into practice? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Read more about reading:

• 5 Ways to Get More From Reading Nonfiction Books
  Don’t just read a book. Do the book. See 5 ways to get more from reading nonfiction books.
• Read What Matters Most
  Explore 5 inspiring nonfiction books on productivity and aging to help you use your time wisely, live intentionally, and read what matters most to you.
• Can a Book Make You Do Something?
  It’s easy to read and forget. But instead, what if we read and do? Can a book inspire you to do something?

Find more posts on choosing nonfiction books at Frances’s blog, Volatile Rune, for week 2 of Nonfiction November.

Each November, nonfiction lovers pause to reflect on the books that have shaped us over the past year. Week 1’s theme—Celebrate Your Year of Nonfiction—invites us to look back at favorite books, topics, and what we want to explore next.

But here’s the challenge:

So many books, so little time.

Eventually we readers realize this truth—there’s not enough time left to read everything we want to.

So how do we choose wisely?

Unfortunately, there’s no magic formula.

You likely do what I do to decide what to read next:

• take recommendations from trusted reader friends with similar tastes,
• sample fresh books that break new ground,
• reread old books that stand the test of time,
• follow your personal curiosities, and
• know when to stop reading a boring book.

This year, especially relevant with my year of Ripple, I’ve been drawn to this theme: making the most of my time while I’m here—both in reading and in life.

To help with that, two topics have stood out in my nonfiction stack in 2025: productivity (time management) and presence (aging well). These books encouraged me to use my limited days (and book time) with more focus and intention while also accepting my finitude with more grace and clarity.

Five Favorite Books on Using Your Time Well

Here are my five favorite books so far this year on managing our remaining years better. I hope they inspire you, too—not just to read more books, but to spend your reading time (and all your time) on what truly matters most to you.

1. Tranquility by Tuesday
9 Ways to Calm the Chaos and Make Time for What Matters
by Laura Vanderkam

I’ve been working through Vanderkam’s nine strategies this year to give me a better perspective about time. Such as, I now have a weekly planning session with myself each Friday about my week ahead (it only takes about 10 minutes). I see what things I have to do, such as appointments, but also create slots to fit in things that I want to do, like working a jigsaw puzzle.

I hope I keep this habit going forward because it’s made such a difference—this year I’ve already put together another photo album, almost finished my end-of-life documents (Jenna will thank me later for this one!), learned new piano songs, and begun reading my and my mother’s old journals.

2. Advice for Future Corpses (And Those Who Love Them)
A Practical Perspective on Death and Dying
by Sallie Tisdale

This book about death and dying is fascinating, but not in a creepy way. Tisdale’s experience as a nurse in palliative care brings a wise perspective on what to say and not to say to a dying person; how the last few weeks of life can look; what options are available for the body after death; and how to grieve your own future death.

Death is a given for each of us, so why not be better informed about it?

3. Aging as a Spiritual Practice
A Contemplative Guide to Growing Older and Wiser
by Lewis Richmond

I used the schedule in this book last December to reflect back on my year (and life) and think about my years ahead in a more intentional way. I hope to do it again this year as I reread this book.

It is full of personal reflections and practical meditations with wisdom gleaned from Buddhist philosophy. I want my aging to be an opportunity for growth instead of something to dread.

4. Meditations for Mortals
Four Weeks to Embrace Your Limitations and Make Time for What Counts
by Oliver Burkeman

Highly recommend! (And it’s NOT about meditating.) I read the short 28 chapters during the 28 days of February as an apt reminder that I’ll never get everything done—and that it’s perfectly okay.

One idea that has stuff with me is Burkeman’s 70% rule—that a 70% readiness is fine to put most things into the world, even if they feel unfinished, imperfect, or below our best. Life is too short to wait for perfection. Focus most on what matters most—even with its imperfections—in your limited time here.

5. Joyspan
The Art and Science of Thriving in Life’s Second Half
by Dr. Kerry Burnight

Joyspan is a very practical book. Dr. Burnight provides one idea after another on how to live a more joyful life, not just a longer life. While you’ll know some of these things already, it’s nice to hear how they all add up—things that help you grow, stay connected, be flexible, and give back.

Aging isn’t all downhill; there are many things that can actually improve as we age, and this book shines a light on those.

What’s a common denominator in these 5 books?

Not only is each book interesting to read, but each one prompts me to set the book down when I’m finished and go live a more interesting life.

That makes a book worth reading to me.

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What helps you decide which books are worth your time? What’s a favorite nonfiction book you’ve read this year—or a topic you want to explore more?

Share in the comments.

Find more posts on Favorite books at Heather’s blog, Based on a True Story, for week 1 of Nonfiction November.