Each month I share 4 somethings that I have:
- Loved
- Learned
- Went well
- Let go of
And then I link up with Jenn.
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Something I loved
- SHOWING UP IN THE FRAME
I’ve never liked getting my picture made. As a child, I would often cry when someone took my photo. As an adult, I always find something I don’t like—my hair, my clothes, an odd expression I’m making.
Still, I like proof that I actually participated in life with people I love. So I want to be in some photos.
Presence matters more than perfection, right?
Thanks to our daughter Jenna’s planning, we spent a beautiful autumn afternoon this month getting family pictures taken. And while I still critique myself in the photos (I try not to, but old habits die hard!), I’m grateful to be in them.
Here are a couple from the day. I truly love everything about them. (photo credit April Stanley Photography)


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Something I learned
- GATHERING MORE STORIES TO SHAPE ME
It’s officially ended now, another Nonfiction November. I apologize for bombarding my fiction-loving readers during this month, but my heart is full and my to-read list is even fuller with new nonfiction titles I gathered.
I love discovering new books in November thanks to other bloggers who also love nonfiction. I’ve reorganized my reading list heading into 2026 to make room for the new titles while also leaving lots of open space for unexpected books that will inevitably pop up.
I’m grateful for the generosity of authors who put their best thoughts into words that then travel all the way to me to help make my life more interesting as a result.
Here are the best of the best books that I shared this year for Nonfiction November.
- Week 1: Read What Matters Most: 5 Nonfiction Books To Use Your Time Well
Explore 5 inspiring nonfiction books on productivity and aging to help you use your time wisely, live intentionally, and read what matters most to you. - Week 2: 5 Reasons to “Do” the Book Instead of Just Reading It (+ 5 Book Picks)
Discover why “doing” a book is more impactful than just reading. Plus 5 nonfiction book suggestions to turn knowledge into action. - Week 3: Double the Insight: Why It Works to Read Fiction and Nonfiction Together
Mixing fiction and nonfiction can make your reading life deeper and more balanced. Here’s why the combo works—and three book pairings to try. - Week 4: Use Nonfiction to See Through Someone Else’s Eyes
See how nonfiction helps you see through someone else’s eyes, build empathy, and understand diverse experiences. These stories matter. - Week 5: The 4 Nonfiction Books I’m Reading Next (And Why They Made the List)
Discover the 4 nonfiction books I’m reading next and why they made my list. Trusted recommendations and thoughtful picks for your own TBR stack.
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Something that is going well
- HONORING THE MOMENTS WE SHARED
I’ve been stuck in limbo since we had our walls repainted this fall. Which photos should go back on the walls and which ones should be retired? Which memories stay visible? How many are too many? Reflecting back on past seasons of our lives is important to me.
This month, I finally found the momentum to get moving on this. We’re not hammering nails yet, but at least I’m looking at frames, playing with arrangements, and sorting through which photos to display. Childhood, graduations, weddings, grandkids . . . the number of pictures can add up fast.
This process of choosing is emotionally charged for me. I want to hang on to memories of well-lived seasons of life with my daughters and grandchildren.
So even though I still have a ways to go, it feels good to be moving on the project. And thanks to our new family photos, I have even more options to choose from.
I’ve also been delighted to find old photos tucked behind newer ones as I’ve sorted through frames. I’d totally forgotten about this Auburn family photo from 2007. War Eagle!

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Something I let go of
- TRADING ONE KIND OF WARMTH FOR ANOTHER
After years of talking about it, we finally made the decision: we’re converting our wood-burning fireplace to a gas one.
I’m excited about the convenience—heat at the flip of a switch, no ash, no messy firewood.
But I’m sad, too. I’ve loved our years of having a real fire in the house. I’ve spent hours lying on the living room floor watching the dancing flames and listening to the crackling noises with a stack of books beside me and a sweet snack or two.
And every Christmas morning—even the unusually warm Alabama years—we lit a fire for the kids to wake up to and open presents around. It’s been part of our family tradition from the beginning.
We’re still waiting on the gas company to come make final connections before the new gas logs are operational. I hope it will happen by Christmas morning. But even if not, we’ll have the warmth in our hearts to keep a fire going . . . .

Christmas 2024 with the wood-burning fireplace
What’s one thing you held onto this month—and one thing you’ve had to let go of?
