On the blog – August 2014


Twelve steps to a compassionate life

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In my year of One Word 2014: Compassion, I’m practicing one step per month from Karen Armstrong’s Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life.

  1. Learn about compassion
    How do you stay soft in a hard world?
  2. Look at your own world
    Does it matter?
  3. Compassion for yourself
    Practice on yourself
  4. Empathy
    Go toward, not away
  5. Mindfulness
    It matters to me; does it to you?
  6. Action
    First you listen, then you act
  7. How little we know
    “I’m not sure”—Is that compassionate?
  8. How should we speak to one another?
    Change your tone
  9. Concern for everybody
    When we are different
  10. Knowledge
    Don’t take my word for it
  11. Recognition
    Don’t look away
  12. Love your enemies
    Compassion for an enemy?

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Books I’m reading in August/September

This is my grand reading hurrah for the summer. I made a library raid last week, and they actually had many of the books I wanted. I probably won’t finish them all before they’re due again. See other nightstands at 5 Minutes for Books.

CURRENTLY READING

1. The Circle
by Dave Eggers

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This novel is a little scary in its normalcy about the direction that technology and social media are taking us through the guise of “The Circle,” the world’s most powerful internet company.

2. A New Kind of Christianity
Ten Questions that Are Transforming the Faith
by Brian D. McLaren

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Put your thinking cap on for this one because you’ll need it. The ten questions include:

1. What is the overarching story line of the Bible? 3. Is God violent? 6. What do we do about church? 9. How should followers of Jesus relate to people of other religions? 10. How can we translate our quest into action?

3. Overcoming Sin and Temptation
by John Owen

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Join in on this one! Tim Challies is heading up a reading group, discussing one chapter each Thursday, beginning September 4. I downloaded a free pdf of the book, then converted and transferred it to my Kindle.

4. Les Misérables
by Victor Hugo

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I’m still plugging along in this one. Why am I surprised that it’s so interesting? Too often I underestimate classics.

5. If Grace Is True
Why God Will Save Every Person
by Philip Gulley and James Mulholland

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I don’t believe in universalism, but I’d like to better understand why others do. So while I may not agree with everything these authors may say (which is true for ANY author), I trust I’ll still glean truth from their writings (as I already have).

6. Thinking, Fast and Slow
by Daniel Kahneman

Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

This one is to change the way you think about thinking. I won’t read it word for word (it’s very long), but what I’m skimming is interesting about how our brain works in a fast, intuitive way and then a slower, more deliberate method.

FINISHED FROM AUGUST’S LIST

1. The Everything Store
Jeff Bezos and the Age of Amazon
by Brad Stone

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Oh my. This was a most fascinating book about Amazon and its founder Jeff Bezos.

2. Why We Eat Our Own
by Michael Cheshire

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Sadly, Christians are often best known for how we judge everybody, even each other. This book challenges our tendency to be cannibalistic with our own.

3. The Presence Process
A Journey into Present Moment Awareness
by Michael L. Brown

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Mixed feelings. The title caught my eye as I was browsing library shelves. It had good things in it about living in the now, but also things that didn’t click with me at all. I ended up skimming it after the first half, so I can’t give it a fair review.

4. So Long, Insecurity
You’ve Been a Bad Friend to Us
by Beth Moore

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My family girls finished reading this book last week for our summer book club. Perhaps its greatest value to me was revealing more of my insecurities, thus showing me areas I still need to grow in. Bottom line: our security has to rest in Christ alone.

5. A New Earth
Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose
by Eckhart Tolle

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I tried reading this 6 years ago and hated it. This year, I loved it. Go figure. Tolle is purposed on being content in the present moment. He’s very spiritual, but not necessarily Christian (nor anti-Christian). I read books like this through my own lens of Christianity, and usually find many principles very compatible with the teachings of Christ.

6. Naked Spirituality
A Life with God in Twelve Simple Words
by Brian D. McLaren

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Another McLaren book. Here are the twelve words:

Here. Thanks. O. Sorry. Help. Please. When. No. Why. Behold. Yes. [ . . . ]. (I especially love that last one, an ellipsis! Genius.)

It’s a book of spiritual growth and practices. I went through it too quickly. It’s one of those books that needs more breathing space, so maybe I’ll return to it later.

7. 700 Sundays
by Billy Crystal

700 Sundays by Billy Crystal

A quick memoir of poignant and funny moments by Billy Crystal about his youth. He made me laugh out loud, and inspired me to love him and his close family even more. He turned this into a one-man show on stage in 2004, and HBO aired a viewing of it this spring. I also checked out his latest memoir from the library, Still Foolin’ ‘Em, that I hope to read next.

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What’s a good book you are reading or want to read this month? Please share here.

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Previous reading lists


When small things are great things

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Everybody wants to do great things. We tell our kids they’re destined for greatness. Things that will matter, that will make a difference.

But what is greatness?

“The great arises out of small things that are honored and cared for. Everybody’s life really consists of small things.

     Greatness is a mental abstraction and a favorite fantasy of the ego. The paradox is that the foundation for greatness is honoring the small things of the present moment instead of pursuing the idea of greatness.

     The present moment is always small in the sense that it is always simple, but concealed within it lies the greatest power.”
– Eckhart Tolle

The great lies in being aware of and doing what God wants you to do in this moment . . .

  • listening to your mother-in-law on the phone
  • looking eye-to-eye with your child asking for juice
  • being fully present with God when you’re praying
  • giving attention to words you’re reading
  • performing consciously the work you’re doing

Those are simple things.
Momentary things.
But, if done intentionally with God, those are also great things.

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What small thing can you approach as a great thing this week?

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Links I like this week

1. If you’re white in America, this is for you: How to discuss racism with your black friends. Ashley Nicole Black gives 6 sets of dos and don’ts that we need to hear and practice.

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2.  What’s the goal for your Christian life? Daniel Wallace may make you think twice about your answer.

3. Facebook repeats – Many of the posts I see in my news feed are repeats. Arghh. Now I know I’m not imagining it. What Facebook Doesn’t Show You at the Washington Post.

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4. When others are scared, what do you do? Mastin Kipp at The Daily Love says answer that call with more Love.

5. Want to read a classic book together? Tim Challies is about to start another book, John Owen’s The Mortification of Sin (or Overcoming Sin and Temptation), on September 4. Don’t let the title scare you. One chapter a week. Get your copy now and start reading.

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6. Robin Williams’ death has affected us all. Read one more view on it by Glennon Doyle Melton at Momastery. It’s important. Because many times people who need help don’t look like people who need help.

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A prayer when you worry

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a tomorrow of uncertainty
i peek ahead
i sense my lack

i am timid
unsuited
less

until i rehearse
You are more
You are abundance

You unclutter today’s space of tomorrow’s stock
You store supplies til needed
Your treasury of wealth never ends

the beauty of provision is Your gift
i live in plenty because You live in me
presence is Your present

always enough
in this moment
for this time

now is peace in rest
You hold on to tomorrow
i’ll stay here—with You—in today

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Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.
Matthew 6:34 (The Message)

Do you have a favorite verse when you worry? Please share.

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