On the Blog – June 2019

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from June 2019.


8 Books I Recommend – June 2019

Every month I share the best of the books I just finished. Here are eight books that I recommend from this month’s books.

8 Books I Recommend

Books I Recommend

NONFICTION

1. 168 Hours
You Have More Time Than You Think
by Laura Vanderkam

168 Hours

Along with her newer book Off the Clock, this one—168 Hours—is also helpful to better use the time you have. Laura gives you lots of numbers about the hours that are typical for housework, taking care of children, etc., but without judging or suggesting comparison.

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2. Women Rowing North
Navigating Life’s Currents and Flourishing As We Age
by Mary Pipher

Women Rowing North

My age (56) doesn’t necessarily bother me, but I do think about it a lot these days. This book gives me a jump start on the next phase of aging. And with great hope.

“Most women become increasingly happy after age fifty-five, with their peak of happiness toward the very end of life.”

“The older the person, the better her mental health tended to be. Women’s happiness ratings were consistently higher than those of men. Recent census data from the United Kingdom finds that the happiest people are women aged 65–79.”

3. I’d Rather Be Reading
The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life
by Anne Bogel

I'd Rather Be Reading

Such a fun read for book lovers! I relate to SO many of the things Anne shares about common habits among people who love to read. Highly recommend if you love books.

“I’m the sum of all these bookish memories. My head is so full of musings and insights and ideas from books that I’m not sure who I would be or how I would think if they were all taken away.”

“Shakespeare said the eyes are the windows to the soul, but we readers know one’s bookshelves reveal just as much.”

4. The Hoarder in You
How to Live a Happier, Healthier, Uncluttered Life
by Robin Zasio

Hoarder in You

I’m not a hoarder (unless you count my digital pictures; I’m paralyzed by the quantity). This book inspires me to continue decluttering. Written by Dr. Robin Zasio, a psychologist on A&E’s series Hoarders (which I can’t watch—too overwhelming), this book offers lots of real-life examples (with such compassion) and lots of good advice to get us over the humps of accumulation.

“It is not wasteful to get rid of something you don’t need. You are not responsible for making use of everything that crosses your path.”

5. Outliers
The Story of Success
by Malcolm Gladwell

Outliers

What makes some people succeed and others not? And what defines success anyway? As is typical with Malcolm Gladwell’s books, you get solid data but also well-told stories.

“Practice isn’t the thing you do once you’re good. It’s the thing you do that makes you good.”

“Planes are safer when the least experienced pilot is flying, because it means the second pilot isn’t going to be afraid to speak up.”

6. Almost Everything
Notes on Hope
by Anne Lamott

Almost Everything

I enjoy rambling through Anne Lamott’s writings for her wit, her insights, her authenticity, her spirituality. She’s not for everybody, but she makes me laugh, cry, and think.

“I rolled my eyes: Oh, you again. It was my mental roommate.”

“She and some of the old-timers secretly pray upon waking, ‘Whatever,’ and pray before falling asleep, ‘Oh, well.’ The lesson here is that there is no fix. There is, however, forgiveness. To forgive yourselves and others constantly is necessary.”

7. Born to Run
(audiobook)
by Bruce Springsteen

Born to Run

I listened to the audio version of this memoir written and read by Bruce Springsteen. (Usually I do NOT like the author to read their own book, but in this case, it was delightful.) I’m not a huge Springsteen music lover, but wow, he has a way with words. He’s brutally honest about his struggle with depression through the years. Well-written and well-read.

Fiction

8. Nine Perfect Strangers
by Liane Moriarty

Nine Perfect Strangers

Nine people sign up for ten days at a health resort. Not the best novel I’ve ever read, but interesting enough to entertain me and push me through all 453 pages. Liane Moriarty is a good storyteller.

READING NOW

  • Before We Were Yours 
    by Lisa Wingate
  • Glorious Weakness
    Discovering God in All We
    Lack
    by Alia Joy
  • I Let You Go
    by Clare Mackintosh
  • The Myth of a Christian Nation
    How the Quest for Political Power Is Destroying the Church
    by Gregory A. Boyd
  • The Enchanted Hour
    The Miraculous Power of Reading Aloud in the Age of Distraction
    by Meghan Gurdon

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What good book are you reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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More books I recommend

sharing with Anne

 


When Transformation Seems Slow, Don’t Eat the Change

He Ate the Change

“Mommy, my tummy hurts. Real bad.”

Here’s why. He ate change. Literally.

My four-year-old friend took a dare this week from a five-year-old. He put coins in his mouth. Then swallowed.

89 cents, to be exact.

Don't eat the change

Swallowing change quickly is a dare we often want to take, too.

As believers in Christ, we want to be kinder. To be more courageous. To be more loving. Now.

  • If I can read the Bible in 3 months,
  • if I can volunteer for every ministry,
  • if I can fast for 40 days,

I’ll be changed quicker, right?

Not really. Change doesn’t usually come fast.

Transformation is a slow process.

When Change Is Slow

I finally finished my daily Bible reading plan yesterday. It’s a 2-year plan for reading all of the Old and New Testaments (already a longer time span than most plans).

But it took me even longer. The 2-year plan stretched into 3 years.

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But that’s okay. I’m in it for the long haul. And if God needs to work longer on me than others, so be it. I’ll celebrate the little wins. Eventually he will get the job done on the other side of this life. My latest mantra has been “not yet” (thanks, Jean).

I may not yet be fully transformed. But I can have peace in the process if I’ll trust it’s coming.

And try to be content with where I am—who I am—today. I don’t make myself holy by reading the Bible. I can be open to change as I read, allowing my spirit to cooperate with God’s Spirit. But I’m not in charge of my own transformation.That’s holy work. I can walk the path, but I can’t make myself arrive. I need grace and peace and Jesus for that.

Learning Lessons

My little buddy ended up at the ER Tuesday. They had to get the money out quicker than letting nature take its course. They were successful.

His throat is sore today, but he’s recovering well. He’s learned a lesson.

I hope I’m learning, too.

Lasting spiritual change doesn’t usually happen overnight. I can’t force it to happen.

Don’t eat the change.

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Have you or your kids ever eaten anything strange? How patient are you with your own transformation? Please share in the comments.

I’ll start over reading the Bible again next week. Do you have a favorite translation you’d recommend? (I like to read a different one each time. Just finished NLT.)


Don’t Just Read the Story – Keep the Conversation Going

Don't just read the story

Leaving the crowd behind, they took him along, just as he was, in the boat. There were also other boats with him.
Mark 4:36 (NIV)

As she reads Mark 4:36-19, I listen intently. At first, the first word lingers: “Leaving…” Jesus is leaving the crowd behind.

She reads the passage again.
I move with her this time. With Jesus.

I feel the wind, the cold air blowing on the disciples, as they leave safety behind, heading into a storm, one not of their own making.

I shiver.

Where is Jesus? Asleep? Of all things. In the back of the boat.

Anger arises. Doesn’t he know—or worse—doesn’t he care? They are in danger! Their very lives hang on the mercy of wind and water.

Or on Jesus.

Jesus. Don’t you care? I’ve left the crowds for you. Am I in danger now? Are you really sleeping?

I’ve heard the story before. So many times. I know what happens next.

But I listen again. A third reading. This time takes me beyond. It’s no longer just a story of historical facts, of Jesus’ commanding power over nature.

Now it’s an invitation.
To me from him.
I take it personally.

The winds and the waves may splash, soaking me in an angry torrent. But is there a safer place to be than traveling with Jesus?

Even when I’m not sure where we’re going.
Even when I think he’s sleeping.
He’s still in control.
Of me.

Peace, O soul. Be still.

I shiver again, this time in awe at his supremacy, appreciating the authority behind his words, imagining what they meant to his followers on that journey, knowing what they mean to this follower on mine.

Oh, the grace. Oh, the freedom.

  • If Jesus is with me, I’ll leave behind my comfort.
  • If Jesus is with me, no tempest can shake my grip.
  • If Jesus is with me, calling peace, I’ll be still and receive.

I yield to his command.

My soul settles into the quiet, the stillness, on this peaceful side of leaving.Regardless of my new destination, my passage is secure—I’m journeying in the boat with Jesus.

I’ll stay the course.

Instead of rereading the words of the story that changed lives then—“Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”—and changes lives now, she invites us to talk of them. To keep the conversation going between Father and child, between brothers and sisters.

I pray for her, my new friend. Another new friend prays for me. He whispers words in silence for my journey of leaving, yet traveling in safety with Jesus, for staying the course.

In such stillness, there is peace.

I am still.
He is my peace.

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The Bible story is an invitation. Don’t just read it. Take it personally. Keep the conversation going.

Listening to his stories still move us. What story has taught you anew lately?

revised from the archives


Is the Church Living Up to Its Name?

When I dreamed of marrying Jeff, I practiced writing what my new name would look like: Mrs. Lisa Burgess. When a bride takes on her husband’s name, it’s symbolic of a oneness like no other.

What about when the church, the bride of Christ, takes on His name?

Are we wearing His name well?

Don’t take a poll. You’ll be disappointed. Our ratings as Christians are poor. For too long we’ve been a bad taste in the mouth of the world. Many may like our Christ, but not everybody likes His followers.

Are we not living up to our name?

Read it all here

Church Living Up to Name_pin

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I’m writing today at Do Not Depart. Will you join me there on living up to our name?

 


5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – June 2019

Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

  • 5 interesting things online
  • 5 articles about words, books, or podcasts
  • 5 pictures of things I love
  • 5 blog posts from the month

What are you enjoying this month?

5 Links I Love June 2019

1 Second Everyday

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5 Things Around the Web

• 10 Ways to Spoil an Apology
Um, I’ve probably used all ten of these at some point. I’m so sorry.

• What Makes a Sermon Hard to Listen to
I agree; these seven things can make me tune out to a sermon, unfortunately.

• How to Make Time Go Slower
Sometimes I wish we could actually make time go slower. But at least we can help it feel slower. Sort of. (Hint: Do something new today.)

• Where Do You Park Your Car at Church?
Jeff likes to park in the most distant spot. (He’s a parking lot attendant at church, so that partially explains it). Here are some suggestions for making church more welcoming.

• The Making of Paper Props for Movies
We rarely notice these hand-made paper props in movies and TV shows. But someone has to create them. This is fascinating to me.

Prop Master's Work video

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5 Things with Words/Books

• People Who Read More Are Nicer?
That’s what they’re saying here. “According to research, people who read more—specifically fiction—tend to display more sociable behaviors and are more empathetic.” Maybe I need to read more novels.

• What Word Does Your State Have to Look Up to Spell?
Here is each state’s top word they google “how to spell” in 2019. (English teachers will be sad.)

• Younger Parents Are Skipping Out on This Traditional Part of Parenting – Are You?
Children need to be read to AND sung too. Sing, Mama, sing.

• How to Read More Books in the Golden Age of Content
This video is a little long (for me anyway), but as a true book-lover, I got sucked in and watched it all.

• 7 Books I Recommend
I finished some extraordinary books in May. Here are 7 books I recommend.

7 Books I Recommend

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5 Pictures of Things I Love

• Grandbaby #2 Growing
Our second granddaughter is cooking right along! Almost halfway there. We’re excited for her appearance mid-October.

ultrasound-2019

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• Hugs, Hugs, Hugs
You can never get too many hugs. These sweet kids in my life (including one of my godsons) are always good for lots of hugs.

hugs-2019

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• Grown Kids
Morgan and Fuller came into town for a wedding over the weekend. We loved having them. And also loved that Jeff and I got to keep our sweet grandbaby.

morgan_fuller_2019

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• Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star
Jenna got in on the fun, too. Her auntie game is on!

piano-2019

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• Baby Boomer Selfie
This meme makes me laugh. Do you get it, too?

Baby Boomer Selfie

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5 Things on the Blog

• Do Big Kids Need Their Mother, Too? Review of Doing Life with Your Adult Children
How do you do life with your adult children? This is a great new resource by Jim Burns for parents of adult kids.

• Welcome the Outsider
I’d never tried Vietnamese food. Then again, I’d never had a Vietnamese friend. God was ready to change that. Welcome the outsider.

• Only God, Only Good
I think God may be an exception to synecdoche. It is safe to credit complete goodness to him. It’s impossible to ascribe TOO much goodness to God.

• 4 Ways to Enjoy Your Peace Again
Have you lost your peace? Here are 4 ways to find and enjoy your peace again.

• When We Lose Another Author – Goodbye, Rachel Held Evans
When a favorite author like Rachel Held Evans quits writing, mourn the silence. But keep listening for God’s voice.

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What was a highlight from your May? What do you have planned for June? Please share in the comments.

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