Is More for Me, Less for We? A Look at Poverty, by America
—Grace & Truth Linkup

Day to Day

I was in Dollar General with my friend. She needed to pick up a few essentials.

As I walked alongside her, I noticed she wasn’t shopping smart. Instead of buying the cheaper twin pack of macaroni and cheese, she was getting the single box, which was more costly per unit. She repeated this error picking up a small pack of toilet paper instead of the larger economy size.

I didn’t understand it at the time.

But now I do. It wasn’t that she was being frivolous with her money; it was that was all she had. She didn’t have enough money to buy things in bulk.

She only had enough money for her urgent needs. She could only afford one thing at a time, even if it wasn’t economically wise.

That’s only one small example of how poor people get entrapped into staying poor.

America Causes Poverty?

For many larger examples of the sources of poverty, read Matthew Desmond’s newest book, Poverty, by America.

Look closer at the title. Is Desmond insinuating that we richer Americans are part of the problem in keeping poorer Americans poor?

Yes, exactly.

And it’s devastating—but enlightening—to read in detail how we’re doing it, often unaware of it.

For instance, Desmond writes,

“By one estimate, simply collecting unpaid federal income taxes from the top 1 percent of households would bring in some $175 billion a year. We could just about fill the entire poverty gap in America if the richest among us simply paid all the taxes they owed.”

I’m far from being in the top 1% of households. I pay my full taxes owed. I’m not on welfare. I don’t collect food stamps. My housing isn’t subsidized by the government.

But does that mean I am not benefiting from government handouts myself?

Desmond says that the average rich and middle-class family draws on the same number of government benefits as the average poor family.

Who’s on the Dole?

How am I benefiting from government aid? Here are a few ways:

  • I benefited when my husband got health insurance from his job. Health insurance is one of the single largest tax breaks issued by the federal government.
  • I benefited when I could deduct mortgage interest on my income taxes.
  • I benefited when I receive free checking accounts at my bank because the accounts are subsidized by billions of dollars in overdraft fees.

I’m not saying those things are wrong to accept. But I am saying (or rather Desmond is saying it), “We’re all on the dole.

Virtually all Americans, rich or poor, benefit from some form of public aid. Today, the biggest beneficiaries of federal aid are affluent families.”

And the more the rich receive, the less available there is for the poor.

“Decade after decade, the poverty rate has remained flat even as federal relief has surged. How could this be? — Part of the answer, I learned, lies in the fact that a fair amount of government aid earmarked for the poor never reaches them.”

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Be a Poverty Abolitionist

“This is who we are: the richest country on earth, with more poverty than any other advanced democracy.”

So what can we do about it?

Desmond calls on us to become poverty abolitionists.

“We are connected, members of a shared nation and a shared economy, where the advantages of the rich often come at the expense of the poor. But that arrangement is not inevitable or permanent. It was made by human hands and can be unmade by them.

We can fashion a new society, starting with our own lives. Where we decide to work and live, what we buy, how we vote, and where we put our energies as citizens all have consequences for poor families. Becoming a poverty abolitionist, then, entails conducting an audit of our lives, personalizing poverty by examining all the ways we are connected to the problem—and to the solution.

Specifically, here are just a few suggestions that Desmond gives in Poverty, by America.

  • Make friends with those who are poor, not just to help them (although do that too if you’re able), but for genuine connection; you’ll become more familiar with their struggles along the way.
  • Allow the IRS to crack down on corporations and individuals who cheat on their taxes. (Desmond says, “Studies have shown that most Americans pay 90 percent of the taxes they owe, but the ultra-rich pay only 75 percent.“)
  • Be aware of not only the environmental impact of your purchases, but also the poverty impact.
  • Investigate what a fair minimum wage should be and then vote for legislators who are supportive.
  • Develop a mindset of alleviating poverty instead of overlooking it.
  • Make it less complicated and confusing for those who need aid to receive it. 

Desmond concludes his book with this:

Every person, every company, every institution that has a role in perpetuating poverty also has a role in ameliorating it. The end of poverty is something to stand for, to march for, to sacrifice for. . . .

The citizens of the richest nation in the world can and should finally put an end to it. We don’t need to outsmart this problem. We need to outhate it.”

Poverty, by America isn’t a how-to book on solving poverty, but it is a compelling book on recognizing the problems. And encouraging us to do better.


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If you are one of the women like me who struggle on Mother’s Day for a variety of reasons, I encourage you to read Maree’s post on how we can feel more than one thing at a time, both joy and sadness.

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The Way You Always Do It

It’s Saturday afternoon and I’m sitting on my porch swing reading a library book. I’m trying to finish it. It’s due next week and it’s not renewable.

Even though our library has stopped charging overdue fines, I still don’t want to be late returning my books. For over 50 years I’ve been checking out books and trying to get them back in on time. I don’t want to change now.

But I lay the book down now because my cellphone is ringing.

It’s not the ringtone I want to hear, though.

I’d spent time last Monday working with my friend V and her new phone. We have an arrangement where she calls me weekly to let me know if she needs anything since she doesn’t drive.

And she always calls using the Messenger app.

The app normally works fine for our calls, except when V accidentally logs out of Messenger, forgets her password, and can’t get back in. Calling me directly from her Phone app would be far more reliable.

So on Monday I programmed my cell number into her phone, and starred it as a favorite for her. Standing together inside her apartment, I called her so she could practice answering it. Then I had her practice pushing the green phone icon and calling me.

She got it right every time. Whew. It will be a new habit for her, but she can do it.

We all use our phones in different ways. When I look at my own phone bill, I’m amused at how differently Jeff and I communicate with our phones. I have lots of text messages, but few actual phone calls. Jeff has fewer text messages, but more phone calls. We both like it that way.

But as my phone is ringing this Saturday from V, it’s the old tone.

She’s still calling me from Messenger.

Oh well.

If it works for V (at least for now), it’s fine with me. Sometimes we don’t need to change our ways if they’re still working, even if the new way might be easier.

We chat. She tells me she loves her new phone. I don’t question her about not calling me this time from the Phone app. We’ll address it again later if the need arises. For now, she’s happy doing it her old way.

We hang up and I return to reading my book on the porch. I should be finished before next Saturday.

And I will return the book to the library on time, just the way I’ve always done it.

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Are there habits you keep because it’s how you’ve always done it (and they’re still working)? Share in the comments.

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Their Delight Is Precious Love
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Our little grandson Henry turned two this week. He had a fun “choo-choo” party last weekend. His little friends came and big friends, too. He received gifts he’ll love and play with for months ahead.

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But two of Henry’s biggest fans weren’t at the party.

Yet they showed him their love in big ways anyway.

My daughter Jenna and I deliver meals on Monday to disabled residents in town, but the food isn’t the first thing people look for when they see us coming. It’s Henry. He’s the main attraction. Each week our friends are more excited to see Henry than to receive a meal.

Last Monday, two of the women on an upper floor were eagerly anticipating Henry’s arrival because they knew it was his birthday week. They each had bought him gifts, despite being on limited incomes themselves. They practically raced each other to see who could be first to give their gifts.

Their delight at his delight was priceless.

This is precious love.

“Loving others and allowing yourself to be loved are the only things that matter in this eighty-trips-around-the-sun adventure we call life,” writes pastor Josh Graves in his newest book, The Simple Secret (I hope to read it soon!).

Also in the book Josh quotes this definition of love that Scot McKnight told a group of fellow pastors:

“Love is a rugged commitment to be with someone, to be for someone, unto Christlikeness, for as long as it takes.”

Loving like this isn’t always easy. Love can be complicated and difficult and draining at times.

But if love is the meaning of life—and I believe it is—then loving is always worth it.

May we keep giving and receiving love more and more each day of our lives.

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One way to love more is to love wider. In our featured post this week, Michele writes about growing in wisdom by looking for—and finding!—diversity in her not-so-diverse area of Maine.   

“The input of others, the influence of time, and the grace of God introduce a kind of humility appropriate to a time-bound creature like me.”

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Turn on the Light of Mindfulness

It was unexpected. No howling winds. No pelting rains. No booming thunder.

Just one single POP.

And then darkness.

Mindlessness is going through the motions without even thinking. If you feel like you’re drifting through your day mindlessly, try losing electricity.

Going from light to darkness is one way to shake you out of mindlessness and into mindfulness.

Here are 4 ways to help you be more mindful (without having to lose electricity) from Ellen Langer’s classic book Mindfulness.

1. CREATE NEW CATEGORIES

Children are naturals at reframing things—sticks become guns; blankets become hide-outs; Ken becomes Prince Charming.

But we adults sometimes lose this imaginative ability.

When the lights went out last week, I thought, This day is ruined. But to the contrary, the day became a new adventure of accomplishing meals and tasks in different ways. There’s almost always more than one way to get things accomplished.

2. WELCOME NEW INFORMATION

There’s always more to learn, more new information to let in.

I unconsciously flicked light switches again and again when I was without electricity. But eventually my brain caught on and stopped trying the old ways. I put fresh batteries in the flashlight and lit some candles instead.

3. CONSIDER OTHERS’ PERSPECTIVES

Langer says studies show we tend to blame circumstances, not ourselves, when we mess up. But when others make errors, we blame them, not their circumstances.

This faulty attitude can stunt our potential to make useful changes in ourselves, and prevent us from being empathetic toward others. As I stumbled around in the dark, I gained a new respect for those who live beautiful and meaningful lives with visual impairments.

4. VALUE THE PROCESS, NOT JUST THE OUTCOME

If I were to rank the productivity of my hours without electricity, it might have been low. But a day is as much about journey as destination. It’s not how polished the outcome is, but how we’re seeing and growing through the process.

And this day, being kicked into darkness helped turn on the light of mindfulness.

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I later found out the electricity outage was caused by a squirrel blowing a transformer in the neighborhood. (Not a good day for the squirrel.)

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On the Blog—April 2023

Here are brief summaries and links to posts on the blog, Lisa notes, in April 2023.

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Share Four Somethings—April 2023

Near the end of each month, I share four somethings at Jennifer’s linkup: what I’m loving, reading, learning, and eating. 

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What I’m Loving

  • LEGOS???

I’m a jigsaw puzzle girl, through and through. Puzzles captivate me. I can work a puzzle for hours on end and lose all track of time.

So when Jeff came home last summer with a LEGO kit of a Vespa 125 as one of his retirement gifts from coworkers, I had no interest. This would be his project alone, not our project together.

Months later, when my friend Kay told me how relaxing it was to assemble a bonsai tree LEGO kit, I decided to give it a try, too. I asked Jeff if we could tackle his LEGO project together, all 1,100 pieces.

And wow, I loved putting together this LEGO Vespa this month! Who knew I was a LEGO person? The instructions were clear enough to feel easy, and challenging enough to be engaging. Now I look forward to doing another one someday.

Jeff and LEGO Vespa

LEGO Vespa

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What I’m Reading 

  • 2 NOVELS

Of the books I read, 90% of them are nonfiction. I enjoy having several nonfiction books going at the same time.

But novels? While I always want one novel in every pile (they’re my 10%), I only want one of them at a time.

Except when two library holds become available at the same time. Oops. I’m currently reading both Fresh Water for Flowers AND Lessons in Chemistry

Lessons in Chemistry and Fresh Water for Flowers

They’re different enough and entertaining enough that it’s working out so far, even though it’s breaking my informal rule to only read one novel at a time. 

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What I’m Learning

  • IT’S OKAY TO START OVER

An ongoing mental stressor for me is keeping my digital photos organized. A few years back I was determined to set up a system to keep them under control. It worked for awhile. I felt caught up. But now they’re out of hand again.

So I’m starting anew. I’m ready to tackle it again. 

I’m giving myself several months, starting now, to go through the last 6 years of digital photos. I want to print out a few photo albums (I still love having physical photos to look at). Then I’ll put the rest on USB flash drives and the cloud, create a better system of managing photos moving forward, and then, most importantly, rest my brain from obsessing about having so many photos. 

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What I’m Eating

  • A GO-TO MEAL

Do you have a go-to meal when you’re too tired to cook, but don’t want to go out? Jeff and I often fall back on baked potatoes and BBQ pulled pork.

When we came home from a trip to Indiana this Wednesday, neither of us wanted to cook. So we microwaved some potatoes and added some BBQ on top (we often have leftover pulled pork in the freezer). It’s not the most nutritious meal, but it’s not the worst either. 


What’s something you’re learning or loving this month?  

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