“He is jealous for me
Loves like a hurricane, and I am a tree
Bending beneath the weight of His wind and mercy”
– “How He Loves” by David Crowder Band
Have you been accused of jealousy? Or accused someone else of it?
Is jealousy a good or bad trait?
In humans, I think of it negatively. But we’re to praise it in God?
The Bible is full with statements about God’s jealousy (including Numbers 25:11, Joshua 24:19, Zephaniah 1:18, Psalm 78:58). J. I. Packer hits it hard in chapter 17, “The Jealous God,” of Knowing God.
“How can jealousy be a virtue in God when it is a vice in men? God’s perfections are matter for praise; but how can we praise God for being jealous?”
Here’s how we praise God for his jealousy, according to Packer.
1. Statements about God’s jealousy are anthropomorphisms.
It’s language in terms of men, for our own understanding. But these anthropomorphisms aren’t limited by men.
“The human qualities which show the corrupting effect of sin have no counterpart in God. . . . God’s jealousy is not a compound of frustration, envy, and spite, as human jealousy so often is, but appears instead as a (literally) praiseworthy zeal to preserve something supremely precious.”
2. There are two kinds of jealousy among men, but only one is bad.
We’re familiar with the bad kind, hating someone for having something we want.
But Packer suggests there is a good jealousy—“zeal to protect a love-relationship, or to avenge it when broken.” He says that the jealousy we feel in a husband-wife relationship brings a “proper zeal to keep it intact.”
He says this is the kind of jealousy that God has for his people, a covenant love. It carries with it “a demand for unqualified love and loyalty.”
Spiritual adultery on our part provokes jealousy on God’s part.
Packer concludes that this jealousy drives us to be more zealous for God.
- We respond to God’s love for us by loving him in return.
- His concern for us leads to our concern for him.
- His jealousy for us provokes us to keep him as our one thing, too.

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What do you think about God being jealous? Please share in the comments.
This is Week 9 of reading Knowing God together with Tim Challies.
Previous chapters:
- Why do you want to know God? (chapters 1-2)
- What does it mean to know God? (chapters 3-4)
- You know God & Jesus. But the Holy Spirit? (chapters 5-6)
- Is reading the Bible worth it? (chapters 7-8)
- Does God toy with us in his wisdom? (chapters 9-10)
- Why doesn’t God give up on us? (chapters 11-12)
- When we don’t believe in grace (chapters 13-14)
- Is God mad at you? (chapters 15-16)
Next week:
- Chapter 19 and 20, “Sons of God” and “Thou Our Guide”


