There’s a Grace for That

There's a Grace for That

Apple makes us lots of promises.

Just take a bite. Whatever you need, there’s an app for that.

  • Want directions? There’s the Maps app.
  • Store your coupons? There’s the Wallet app.
  • A Bible reading plan? There’s the YouVersion app.
  • Need the forecast? There’s The Weather Channel app.

The fruit begs to gratify.

But we know better. Don’t we?

Apple can’t reach our deepest appetites. For satisfying relationships. For a life of significance. For a mission more meaningful than me.

Whatever we really need—direction, understanding, peace, joy—it’s God who has a grace for that. He alone is able to fully satisfy (2 Corinthians 9:8).

  • Need help with a problem child? There’s a grace for that.
  • Stuck in an unsatisfying job? There’s a grace for that.
  • Can’t break an addictive habit? There’s a grace for that.
  • Too much conflict with your partner? There’s a grace for that, too.

Whatever it, God has the power to either change the circumstance or change the other person or change us (Hebrews 4:16). That is his grace.

A year ago, could you have imagined the exact journey you are traveling this year? Would you have been overwhelmed if you’d foreseen each roadblock? Would it have been possible to stockpile every resource in advance that you were going to need?

Yet each step of our way, often only one step at a time, God has left us a gift—a gift of his grace—at the right place, in the right time, through the right person.

Grace is what he promises.
Grace is what we need.
Grace is what he gives.

“From his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace.”
John 1:16

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What unexpected gift of grace have you already received this year? Please share in the comments.

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5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – September 2018

What was a highlight of your August? What are you looking forward to in September? We share once a month with Leigh.

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[If you can’t see the 1 Second Everyday video, click here]

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5 Things Around the Web

1. 10 Reasons Americans Go to Church – and 9 Reasons They Don’t
by Daniel Burke

“But this study suggests that there is an under-served group of believers who seem like they’d actually like to go to religious services — if only someone could help get them there and welcome them when they arrive.”

2. How the Other Half Eats
by Ariel Aberg-Riger

SNAP benefits add up to $1.86 per person, per meal. See what that looks like. An article in graphics.

How the Other Half Eats

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3. Ask Someone Older Than You
by Marshall Segal

Six good pieces of advice on how to get help in making an important decision.

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4. This Is How to Make Your Life Awesome: 6 Secrets from Research
by Eric Barker

Some of these you’ll already know. And some you can’t do anything about. But others? We can tweak some things.

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5. Top Dog Names 2017

How many dogs do you know with these names? I know six. I saw this on National Dog Day last week on al.com.

Top Dog Names 2017

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5 Things about Reading

1. “I Hate That!” Book Design Pet Peeves
by Joel Friedlander

When you read a lot of books, you notice these things. Which of these design pet peeves bother you?

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2. Real Book Readers Stand Out

This comic made me laugh and laugh. I do take a physical book with me on airplanes (along with my Kindle). And it is more and more unusual to see.

Reading real book on airplane

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3. Bible Reading Habits
by Bible Gateway

How do your Bible reading habits compare with those in the survey? Do you read New Testament more than the Old Testament? Which book are you most likely to read? What time of day do you read?

Amount of Time Reading Bible

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4. Why Getting Lost in a Book Is So Good for You, According to Science
by Sarah DiGiulio

“‘Transportation’ — or the act of losing yourself in a book — makes you more empathetic, more creative and (hello!) it’s an escape.”

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Researchers found that reading satisfies the need for human connection because it can mimic what we feel during real social interactions. Peopleimages / Getty Images

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5. Five Books I Recommend – August 2018     

All five of these books were very intriguing in different ways (4 nonfiction and 1 fiction).

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5 Things I Love

1. Birthday Fun

We enjoyed lots of birthday celebrations in August, from age 5-80.

Birthdays

Sandy’s birthday and Bill’s birthday

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2. I want to sleep like this!

I love watching a baby sleep, especially when it’s my grandbaby. I could stare for hours.

asleep

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3. Grandparenting is the best

Everyone said it would be. I’m glad they were right!

grandparents

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4. Special friends forever

I was so surprised to run into Linda at an event a few weeks ago. She’s a one-of-a-kind sister that I treasure. Then a few days later I got to celebrate with Victoria, another dear friend, when her oldest son turned 5 years old.

special friends

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5. Breakfast bunch does dinner

For a season we all ate breakfast at Hardees every Saturday morning. I miss that. But Jeff and I enjoyed eating dinner with my sister Sandy and brother-in-law Barry as we listened to ex-baseball pro and former addict Darryl Strawberry share at the His Way event about finding his worth in Christ.

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Lisa, Jeff, Sandy, Barry

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5 Things on the Blog

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What was a highlight from your August? What are you looking forward to in September? Please share in the comments.

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On the Blog – August 2018

Summaries and links to blog posts for August 2018

 


When You’re the Minority

Being in the majority feels comfortable. But it also can be detrimental.

White Specks

Jeff and I looked around us that Sunday night. Where was our generation?

We were among the oldest in the room.

(It still feels like a new phenomenon to us, but more people are younger than us than are older than us. The median age in American is 37.8 years old.)

But we also were among the whitest. The comedy club was featuring Black Christian comedians this Sunday night (including KevOnStage, who is hilarious) and many (mainly younger) people were arriving to enjoy them.

Two nights later, we showed up at a community prayer vigil. While our age blended in easier, our color still did not.

There is comfort in being the majority. You don’t stand out. Eyes don’t turn your way.

But as the minority in a room, there can be discomfort. Like a white speck on black velvet, you might feel you should be picked off. Taken away for not fitting in.

Youngest, Oldest, Different

I was always the youngest in my class. My mom kicked me out of the house early; she sent me to first grade when I was 5 years old instead of waiting until 6. That meant I was always last to get my driver’s permit, last to get my driver’s license, last to be able to vote.

Now I’m on the other side. In my choir, I’m among the oldest. It sometimes feels awkward. I don’t want to stand out.

In some ways we are all a minority. There is no one else exactly like us. With our exact experiences. Our exact circle of friends. Our exact tendencies.

But in a practical context, majority/minority come in bigger groupings: race, gender, religion, etc.

Being a true minority in this country is a feeling I have not known.

(By 2045, statisticians predict America will become minority white: 49.9% white, 24.6% Hispanics, 13.1% blacks, 7.8% Asians, and 3.8% multiracial populations.

Already there are more nonwhite children than white children under the age of 10.)

I’ve lived most of my life as a member of a majority group. As a white, middle-class, cisgender, married American, I’ve grown accustomed to comfort. I can choose to be invisible in a crowd. Or if I prefer, I can use my voice and be heard.

Yet being in the majority can also be a detriment.

As the majority, we can be blind.

  • We can unconsciously (or consciously?) ignore the struggles of those around us.
  • We can lack compassion for those who haven’t been born with the advantages we take for granted.
  • We can use and misuse power over the marginalized without even realizing it.

Break the Bubble

If we’re not the minority, let’s pop our bubbles of sameness and notice those around us. See the colors. Celebrate the differences. Use our privilege for others’ advantage. Demystify the other by becoming the other.

And if we are the minority, let’s continue to share our stories. Be ourselves. Speak out.

It’s how we grow more alike, more in knowledge of each other. We’ll also grow more in compassion. In kindness. In grace.

The more we learn how to love, the more people we’ll discover to love.

On both our night at the comedy club and our night at the prayer vigil, Jeff and I listened and learned and broadened our perspective.

But we also laughed and talked and prayed. As one community. We saw friends we already knew, and met new friends.

Comfort is overrated. Color is different, but love is the same.

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How often are you the minority in the room? Please share in the comments.


5 Books I Recommend – August 2018

Here are 4 non-fiction books and 1 fiction book I recommend from what I finished reading in August, including a 1-minute video review of a favorite.

Once a month we share our current reading list at Jennifer’s.

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Books I Recommend

NONFICTION

1. The Secret Lives of Introverts
Inside Our Hidden World
by Jenn Granneman

The Secret Lives of Introverts

Are you a social introvert? Or a thinking introvert? I learned a lot about introverts in this enlightening book. Jenn Granneman has done her homework. If you don’t have time for the book, read some of her blog posts at Introvert, Dear. So good.

[Click here if you can’t see the 1-minute review about The Secret Lives of Introverts]

2. Inspired
Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again
by Rachel Held Evans

Inspired

This is an interesting take on Rachel’s journey with the Bible. Her questionings didn’t erase her faith in God, but rather they increased her faith. This isn’t my favorite book of Rachel’s due to her style choices this time: it was written in many different formats—poetry, script, prose, retellings, etc. (Notably, so are the writing in the Bible itself.) But this book is still valuable reading.

My full review here of Inspired

3. Prayer
40 Days of Practice
by Justin McRoberts

Prayer-Forty Days of Practice

Sit with a one-sentence prayer. Gaze at artwork about it. Pray it throughout the day. This small book is more about what you do with it instead of what it offers you. It gives you seeds which you can plant on your own in your prayers with God.

My full review here of Prayer

4. The Desert and the Sea
977 Days Captive on the Somali Pirate Coast
by Michael Scott Moore

The Desert and the Sea

A true pirate story. Ironically, Michael Scott Moore was an American journalist in Somalia writing about pirates, when he was kidnapped by pirates in 2012. For the next 2½ years, he was kept on sea and on land by Somali pirates. He tells a compelling story of his life during those years and shortly after his rescue. Highly recommend.

FICTION

5. Lincoln in the Bardo
by George Saunders

Lincoln in the Bardo

After five minutes in this book, I stopped reading and googled it instead. What is this book? I didn’t realize it was an experimental novel. It’s written almost like a play, with many voices, fictional and historical, alternately speaking during one night in a cemetery in February, 1862, where President Abraham Lincoln had just buried his eleven-year-old son Willie. I’m glad I stuck it out; it’s a weird but fascinating tale.

READING NOW

  • Station Eleven
    by Emily St. John Mandel
  • The Handmaid’s Tale
    by Margaret Atwood
  • How to Be a Perfect Christian (a satire)
    Your Comprehensive Guide to Flawless Spiritual Living
    by The Babylon Bee
  • Raise Your Voice
    Why We Stay Silent and How to Speak Up
    by Kathy Khang
  • Bring Me a Vision
    A Story of Redeeming Hope
    by Pam Ecrement
  • Resist and Persist
    Faith and the Fight for Equality
    By Erin Wathen
  • God of Tomorrow
    How to Overcome the Fears of Today and Renew Your Hope for the Future
    by Caleb W. Kaltenbach
  • Reframing the Soul
    How Words Transform Our Faith
    by Gregory Spencer 

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What good book have you read this month? Please share in the comments.

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Read the Bible Differently – Review of “Inspired”

Inspired by Rachel Held Evans

I grew up reading the Bible. King James Version at first. Then a daring move to New International Version in my teens.

I wasn’t sure what it all meant. Scriptures can be confusing. But I listened to the thoughts of my parents, my teachers, my friends.

I kept growing.

I kept reading the Bible. I still do. And I still listen to others’ interpretations.

But now I know that others don’t understand all the Bible either.

It’s not as easy to decode as some make it out to be. None of us have it nailed down. We do the best we can with what we’ve learned, with what we’ve seen, with what we’ve experienced.

That’s what Rachel Held Evans does, too, just like the rest of us.

She’s gotten bad press the past few years for how she interprets the Bible. But she loves the words and she loves God. Even though she wrestles with the words, like many of us, it’s in the Bible that we learn the stories about Jesus. And ultimately, about ourselves.

Rachel’s latest book, Inspired, is all about the Bible. About her love for it. She shares her wranglings, her quests, her discoveries. I recognize many of my own in hers.

“With Scripture, we’ve not been invited to an academic fraternity; we’ve been invited to a wrestling match. We’ve been invited to a dynamic, centuries-long conversation with God and God’s people that has been unfolding since creation, one story at a time. If we’re lucky, it will leave us with a limp.”

This book is different from her other books. It’s a collection of genres instead of a simple narrative. In one chapter she’s retelling a favorite Bible story. In another chapter she writes a poem. Yet another may be a memoir moment. Or an exegesis of a biblical text. I admit it’s not my favorite book of hers (I prefer her straight narratives). But it’s still worth reading.

Rachel doesn’t ask us to agree or disagree with her in this book. She’s just sharing where she’s been and where she is now. And like the rest of us, who knows where she’ll be next?

“I’m still learning, still getting things wrong. But sometimes God knows the kind of deliverance you need the most is deliverance from your own comfort.”

Quotes

Here are some of my favorite quotes from the book. The first quote is long, but it’s one I love the most.

“Jesus didn’t just ‘come to die.’ Jesus came to live—to teach, to heal, to tell stories, to protest, to turn over tables, to touch people who weren’t supposed to be touched and eat with people who weren’t supposed to be eaten with, to break bread, to pour wine, to wash feet, to face temptation, to tick off the authorities, to fulfill Scripture, to forgive, to announce the start of a brand new kingdom, to show us what that kingdom is like, to show us what God is like, to love his enemies to the point of death at their hands, and to beat death by rising from the grave.

Jesus did not simply die to save us from our sins, Jesus lived to save us from our sins. His life and teachings show us the way to liberation. But you can’t fit all that on a bumper sticker.”

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“So perhaps a better question than, ‘Do I believe in miracles?’ is, ‘Am I acting like I do?’ Am I including the people who are typically excluded? Am I feeding the hungry and caring for the sick? Am I holding the hands of the homeless and offering help to addicts?”

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“To demand that the Bible meet our demands is to put ourselves and our own interests at the center of the story, which is one of the first traps we must to learn to avoid if we are to engage the Bible with integrity or care.”

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“But their assurances, however sincerely intended, proved empty when, as a young adult, I started asking those questions for myself.

. . . Instead of bolstering my confidence in the Bible, its most strident defenders inadvertently weakened it.”

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“The gospel means that every small story is part of a sweeping story, every ordinary life part of an extraordinary movement. God is busy making all things new, and life, death, and resurrection of Jesus has opened that work to everyone who wants in on it. The church is not a group of people who believe all the same things; the church is a group of people caught up in the same story, with Jesus at the center.”

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“These questions loosened my grip on the text and gave me permission to love the Bible for what it is, not what I want it to be.”

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How’s your relationship with the Bible? At what age did you first begin reading it? Please share in the comments.

My thanks to Net Galley
for the review copy of this book.