5 Links, Books, and Things I Love – Corona Edition, April 2020

Every month I share my list of favorite 5’s.

  • 5 interesting things online
  • 5 articles about words, books, or podcasts
  • 5 pictures of things I love
  • 5 things on the blog

What are you enjoying this month?

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5 Things Around the Web

45 Things To Remember When The World Gets Scary 

This is a beautiful list to help us get through a tough time. I couldn’t narrow down one favorite. Among others (including #1 and #45), #10 resonates with me: “Fear is easy. Hope is hard.” I’m putting my hope in God to get me through.

Use This Time to Re-Imagine the Faith of Two or Three Gathered in His Name – COVIDTide Prayers

“I hope the coronavirus interruption may help us recalibrate Christian worship and discipleship. If we’re super-mindful right now, quarantine may be the best thing that’s happened to “the church” in a long, long time.”
– Brad Jersak

How to Not Keep Refreshing the News

I have to limit how often I check the news to protect my mental health. You, too? Here are some helpful strategies.

Sorting Through Our COVID Anxieties

There’s no shame in being anxious during this time. Not all anxieties are the same though. This article takes you through six different types of anxieties and how to handle each kind.

Can Your Marriage Survive the Coronavirus?

Several tips here, including this cute one: get an imaginary coworker to blame things on, to keep you on the same side, i.e., “Cheryl” keeps leaving dirty cups all over the place and we really don’t know what to do about her.

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5 Memes

There have been so many great memes going around that I’ve added this special section.

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5 Things with Words and Books

New Words We Created Because Of Coronavirus

We’re familiar now with “social distancing” and “flatten the curve.” How about “doom-scrolling,” “covidiot,” and “coronacation”?

31 Optimistic Books for Readers in Need of a Boost

This is a list of life-affirming books that may have heavy topics, but will give you hope and make you feel good about the world.

Coronavirus: Fact vs Fiction – Podcast

I’ve enjoyed this new podcast every morning with Dr. Sanjay Gupta. He updates you on the latest news about the coronavirus. Sometimes it’s heavy stuff; other times it’s lighter stories.

The Best Distance Learning Is Reading a Book

I love technology but it’s still hard to beat paper. “Crack open a book and you can not only learn from someone who’s several thousand miles away, you can learn from someone who’s several thousand years away.”

5 Books I Recommend

I really loved these books I finished in March. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone seems especially pertinent in this season. 

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5 Things I Love

Missing My Grandbabies

All my pictures this month are my granddaughters from the past few weeks because I’m missing them. So much! I look forward to playing together again as soon as we can! 

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5 Things on the Blog

It’s Okay to Be Sad, Christians 

It’s okay to be sad, Christians.⁣⁣ How am I? I’m grieving. I’m anxious. I’m conflicted. And yes, I’m still Christian.⁣

When Anxiety Needs Words, Memorize Scripture – Psalm 91 Challenge

When you need to put better words in your brain, try memorizing Scripture. Sign up now to learn Psalm 91 beginning April 6.

Ways to Use Technology for Social Connection During Social Distancing 

Here are ways we can use technology to stay socially connected during social distancing.

What It’s Like to Be the Investigator, the Enneagram 5 

See what it’s like to be the investigator, an Enneagram Five, in Mary’s “EnneaWhat??” series.

When Plans Are a Tossup, Live in Grace

Our plans are a tossup in these times of COVID-19. But we can always plan to live in grace. Read Bob Goff’s newest book for encouragement.


What is bringing you joy this month? Please share in the comments.

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If You Can’t Decide, Try This – Grace & Truth Link-Up

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I Can’t Decide

I’m not at my best these days. It’s hard to stay focused. Even small decisions can feel big, like life-and-death.

  • Should I go to the grocery store tomorrow, or can I wait a few more days?
  • Is it safe to get take-out food for supper tonight?
  • Should I volunteer to distribute food at our food pantry, even within CDC guidelines?

The answers aren’t always clear. There’s not always a definite right or wrong.

So what do we do?

Our Featured Post

Debbie Wilson offers four suggestions for us in our featured post this week, “4 Practical Tips for When You Can’t Decide.”

Debbie’s decision involved her new puppy. He began limping. The vet recommended expensive surgery.

It would be costly and these are uncertain economic times. The breeder offered to do a puppy switch instead.

What should she do?

Read Debbie’s post to see how she’s walking through the decision process, and how you can walk through yours.

My decisions? I chose to:

  • Wait.
    Go to the store next week when my list builds up more.
  • Yes.
    Get the takeout food and support the restaurant, but dispose of the wrappings and wash our hands thoroughly back at home.
  • No.
    Let the younger volunteers fill in the gap now. I can volunteer again in a few weeks.

Thank you, Debbie.

And thank you, God.

“The pressure to make the perfect decision is paralyzing. How can we make the right decision when we don’t know everything? Only God has all knowledge. However, we can trust that He will reward those who seek Him, and that provides precious peace of mind (Heb. 11:6).”
– Debbie Wilson

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We pray that Grace & Truth will point you to Jesus. Add your post to encourage others in the Christian blogging community.

1. Follow your hosts on their blogs and/or social media channels, if you’d like.

2. Share 1 or 2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. (No DIY, crafts, recipes, or inappropriate articles.)

3. Visit and comment on 1 or 2 other links. Be an encourager. Please don’t link and run.

4. All links are randomly sorted. Link early or late. The playing field is even.

To Be Featured:

5. Post the button or link back to one of our hosts. It encourages new participants. (Not mandatory to participate, but required to be featured.)

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6. Every host will feature and promote one blog every week. 

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How is your decision-making skill these days? What helps you decide? Please share your thoughts in the comments. 


On the Blog – March 2020

Here are brief summaries and links to blog posts from March 2020.

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What It’s Like to Be the Investigator, the Enneagram 5

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Unless you’re my daughter or husband, I don’t want to answer your phone call. Don’t take it personally.

When I do answer, know it takes great intention and energy on my part. It costs me.

I’m secretly hoping you can just text or email next time.

This is what it’s like being a Five.

Enneagram 5s want you to know

See the rest of the post here . . .“My Life as the Investigator”


I’m writing today at Mary Geissen’s Enneagram series, “EnneaWhat???”

Will you join me there?

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5 Books I Recommend – March 2020

“A library is infinity under a roof.”
– Gail Carson Levine

5 Books I Recommend

Every month I share the best of what I’ve finished reading. Here are books I recommend from March. See all my recommended books here.

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Nonfiction

1. The Library Book
by Susan Orlean

The Library Book

I love libraries. So naturally I loved this book.

Our library closed its doors two weeks after I finished reading this book and recording the video. I don’t think I had even considered the possibility. But of course I understand their wise decision. And of course I’m heartbroken.

[click here if you can’t see the 1-minute book review, The Library Book]

2. Live in Grace, Walk in Love
A 365-Day Journey
by Bob Goff

Life in Grace Walk in Love Bob Goff

This little book has been a lifesaver of encouraging words in this season. Bob Goff points you to what really matters, loving God and loving people in every way you can, no strings attached. Everything else is extra. He shares the best stories, making you laugh along the way and sometimes cry, too. 

[My review here of Live in Grace]

3. Talking to Strangers
What We Should Know about the People We Don’t Know
by Malcolm Gladwell

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Such an interesting book! Gladwell shows through stories that we don’t always make proper assumptions about strangers. And those misconceptions lead to problems. “We should accept the limits of our ability to decipher strangers.”

4. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
by Lori Gottlieb

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Another excellent book! Gottlieb is a therapist herself who decides she needs a therapist after a breakup. Her honesty and insights about her own therapy as well as her patients makes for such interesting stories that we can apply to our own lives. 

Fiction

5. The Turn of the Key
by Ruth Ware

The Turn of the Key

This suspenseful mystery will keep you turning the pages, but without the violence that often comes with mystery novels. This one is about a nanny, Rowan Caine, who accepts a dream job in the Scottish Highlands working for a family with young children, but something goes terribly wrong. 

Reading Now

  • The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
    How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World
    by John Mark Comer
  • Write Better
    A Lifelong Editor on Craft, Art, and Spirituality

    by Andrew T. Le Peau
  • Upstream
    The Quest to Solve Problems Before They Happen
    by Dan Heath
  • A Spark of Light
    by Jodi Picoult
  • I’ve Seen the End of You
    A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know
    by W. Lee Warren
  • Human(kind)
    How Reclaiming Human Worth and Embracing Radical Kindness Will Bring Us Back Together
    by Ashlee Eiland

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What good book are YOU reading this month? Please share in the comments.

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It’s Okay to Be Sad, Christians

It’s okay to be sad, Christians.⁣
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How am I? I’m grieving. I’m anxious. I’m conflicted. And yes, I’m still Christian.⁣

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Sometimes we have a false expectation that believers in Christ aren’t supposed to be sad when bad things happen. We are the ones with reasons to hope, to have unspeakable joy, to have peace that passes understanding. Yes.⁣
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But we’re also the ones, like all human beings, to grieve with those who are grieving. Even if we and our families haven’t had a loss yet.⁣
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Right now our whole world is in pain. Many have suffered unbearable losses on every front. So while I remain grateful to God for my personal blessings and I have faith that things will improve again in the future, right now I am sad.⁣
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I’m sad for those who have lost income. I’m sad for kids who aren’t safe at home. I’m sad for those awaiting test results. I’m sad for those alone in a hospital room (and for those who want to be with them but aren’t allowed). I’m sad for those who have already lost someone to death that they weren’t supposed to lose yet. On and on and on.⁣
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Being sad doesn’t mean I have no faith. Being sad doesn’t mean I have no joy. Being sad doesn’t mean I have no hope.⁣
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Being sad doesn’t mean I’m not a Christian.⁣
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It just means I’m sad.⁣
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That’s okay. That’s normal. That’s human.⁣
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That’s Christian, too.

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