Are You a Racist?
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Sadly, most white people are more worried about being called racist than about whether or not their actions are in fact racist or harmful.
– Austin Channing Brown

Am I a Racist?

No, not me! I’m not racist. I can’t be.

I know what BIPOC stands for. I’ve read the books. I have lots of Black friends (notice I capitalized the B? Here’s why). I love the Obamas. I’ve even been to Selma and walked across the Edmund Pettus Bridge with real tears in my eyes.

Surely I’m an exception. I’m one of the good ones. Yes?

But no.

I’m not an exception. (Even though I marched in a #BlackLivesMatter rally? Um, no. Still no).

And if you’re white, you’re probably not an exception either.

Actually, I hear we may be the most dangerous type of racist because we are blind to it.

In his “Letter from a Birmingham Jail,” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said,

“Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will.”

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When Nice Isn’t Enough

Yes, we do love Black people and we do believe we’re all equal in God’s eyes and we’d never intentionally harm anyone in word or deed because of skin color.

But because we think we’re the exceptional whites, the ones who aren’t racist, the “nice” ones, we can become content with our individual goodness and think it’s enough.

And stop showing up. And not see our complicity in allowing systemic racist structures to thrive.

And not do the work that we need to do for the rest of our lives.

As Layla F. Saad says in Me and White Supremacy,

If you do not do the work, you will continue to do harm, even if that is not your intention.”

Ouch. (Is my white fragility showing?)

But Saad isn’t finished yet. Listen to this:

“You are not an exceptional white person, meaning you are not exempt from the conditioning of white supremacy, from the benefits of white privilege, and from the responsibility to keep doing this work for the rest of your life.”

Let’s be real. Racial reconciliation work is not about just being nice.

Even if we are exceptional in our kind words and actions, it’s not enough.

Until we see how racism is perpetuated in our institutions and structures—education, housing, justice, hiring, laws, law enforcement, etc.—and then work to change those, there will still be injustice against Black people.

Our smiles alone are woefully insufficient to end racism in this country.

Get Out of the Rain

We whites will struggle to truly be anti-racist until we first admit we are racist. There is no middle ground.

Ibram X. Kendi gives this analogy. Racist ideas are like rain constantly falling on our heads, yet we don’t realize we’re wet.

“It’s very difficult to grow up in a country or even a world that’s constantly raining racist ideas on your head and to never get wet. That’s how hard it is, essentially, to never consume any racist ideas, and so the first step is admitting that.”

Admit it. And then what? I don’t know the answers. I keep messing up.

And I can’t tell you what to do either. I just don’t know. 

But I do know this: if we’re white, even if we’ve had a hard life, we benefit from a dominant culture of white supremacy, whether we realize it or not, and our Black neighbors suffer from it, whether we realize it or not.

While we didn’t start white supremacy or intentionally perpetuate it, here it is. Now what?

We still don’t want to think of ourselves as racists. But the truth is, it’s been raining here our whole lives. 

We’re soaking wet.

Things must change.

Somehow. Someway. Lord, have mercy.

Give us an umbrella.

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White people, let’s not grow tired of the subject of racial injustice, just because our white privilege allows us the luxury. That’s not fair. Let’s keep listening. Keep talking. Keep changing. Keep doing.

Here’s a place to go next:

Read the ongoing conversation between Lauren Sparks with Yvonne Chase and Calvonia Radford, as our featured post this week, “A Conversation on Race, Part II.

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8 thoughts on “Are You a Racist?
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  1. blankYvonne Chase


    You knocked it out of the park with this post. So many powerful quotes like this one, “If you do not do the work, you will continue to do harm, even if that is not your intention” and this one, “Shallow understanding from people of goodwill is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will” made me sit up straight in my chair and lean in to read more. This post is so good!

    Thank you for saying that being nice isn’t enough. I fear this way of thinking permeates the mind of Christians and interferes with doing the real work to end racial injustice and inequality.

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      Those quotes stood out to me, too, Yvonne. And because of where he was writing it from, Dr. King’s quote holds even more meaning (and importance!) than I can fully imagine from my comfy chair in the suburbs…. Comfort can be such an enemy, yet we all long for it, at least on the surface, often to our detriment and as a contributing factor to the harm of others.

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      And you’re accomplishing one of the hardest spiritual tasks of all, Susan: bridling our tongues. 🙂 I pray for discernment on knowing when to refrain as well. Thanks, friend.

  2. blanksue

    Great post, Lisa. I know now I’ve been complicit simply by not noticing I’m wet! I just finished the book: Just Mercy and our Pastor preached on it last sunday (the movie) – highly recommend as well.

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      That’s wonderful that your pastor preached on Just Mercy. That book wrecked me, as did the movie. Both were so powerful and moving! I watched a few interviews with the actors prior to the movie being released, and they all seemed very sincere in conveying its message. Praying that the needle will move forward in our progress toward racial reconciliation.

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