“I am grateful for every opportunity I have had to forgive.”
~ Susan Hunt
I’m not there.
But I want to be.
Equipped to Forgive
Opportunities to forgive are opportunities to drink deeper from God’s fountain of grace.
And as grace satisfies, it also equips. The more we learn how to forgive, the more equipped we are to help others heal from their own hurts, too.
Author Susan Hunt in Spiritual Mothering illustrates this forgiveness cycle by repeating Abigail’s story in the Hebrew scriptures (1 Samuel 25). Abigail’s husband Nabal was a gruff man. He displayed his roughness at an inopportune time when David asked him for help. Nabal refused to help David.
So Abigail took it upon herself to intervene directly with David.
What does this have to do with forgiveness?
Abigail strongly encouraged David to forgive both her presumption in approaching David as well as to forgive Nabal’s foolishness. She didn’t want David to have an avenging murder on his record.
How was Abigail equipped to encourage forgiveness?
Susan Hunt suggests it’s because Abigail must have practiced forgiveness herself, proof of having survived a marriage with Nabal for years. While Abigail was described as beautiful, it was also said she was discerning. She was more than just a pretty face.
Like Abigail, if we want to help people forgive other people, we need to have our own experiences with forgiveness.
Only forgivers can teach forgiveness with credibility.
Susan Hunt offers this challenge to practice forgiving others:
If there is anyone you are having difficulty forgiving, make a list of what it will cost you to forgive and what it will cost you not to forgive. Then, by God’s grace, forgive.
I need to take that challenge. Not only for my own good, but so that I’ll be a better example to others of how to forgive.
And I often need others to forgive me.
How about you?
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How can our imagination help (or hinder) our ability to forgive?
Beth Willlis Miller offers four strategies for imagination to apply when we have been hurt.
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