Whatever Your Volume, Say Something
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Writing Names

It’s washed away now. Bare.

The rain stripped our sidewalk clean Tuesday. It left no traces of the laughter that we had last week with colored chalk, drawing pictures with our 2-year-old granddaughter.

We had fun writing names. 

But sometimes we write names for another reason.

And writing these names is not fun.

We write these names as a testament to a life taken too soon. It’s a ritual undertaken frequently to memorialize yet another Black man or woman dying at the hands of systemic racism in our country.

#sayhisnameGeorgeFloyd

Isn’t everyone talking about it?

Well, no.

Why Silence?

When we don’t speak up about racial injustice, why not? 

Here are 8 thoughts behind choosing silence. Unfortunately, I’m guilty of some.  

HOPELESS
Sometimes we don’t speak up because we feel hopeless. We think our voice won’t make a difference. Nothing ever changes. Why bother?

DEFENSIVE
But *I* didn’t do anything, we say. *I* am not racist, we say. We drown out voices telling us otherwise. Our pride smothers our humility. It strangles our repentance and growth.

ASHAMED
When I watched the video of Amy Cooper call the police on Christian Cooper, a Black birdwatcher in Central Park, I cringed. For her weaponization of white women’s tears. Sometimes we want to ignore the stories because we feel ashamed by them. 

IGNORED
Or we’re quiet because we think nobody is listening to us anyway. Why talk into the void? Our sound is too faint.

APATHETIC
Does racial inequality really concern me? Everything’s stable in my community. Why stir things up? We have no skin in the game.

INARTICULATE
Or we don’t want to say the wrong thing. We don’t want to be misunderstood. We don’t want to make things worse. So we say nothing. 

UNCERTAIN
Maybe we’re conflicted. We’re not even sure what we believe. We’re waiting for complete confidence before we say anything at all.

UNCOMFORTABLE
Or maybe we see others face retaliation when they speak up. We don’t want to lose friends or make someone angry at us. Conflict makes us uncomfortable.

But does silence really resolve any of these concerns? Does it release us from personal responsibility? 

Does it make racial inequality disappear? 

Where Do I Start?

You don’t have to start big.

Here’s what speaking up does NOT require.

  • It doesn’t require you to wear black t-shirts with meaningful sayings (although you might).
  • It doesn’t require you to march for miles around a courthouse with a crowd of people (although you may).
  • It doesn’t require you to blast your thoughts on social media or blog posts or anywhere online (although you can).

Start here instead: with yourself. Talk it out with God about you.

What do I believe about race? About justice? Why? Why not? Are my beliefs helpful or harmful to God’s heart? To other people?

Then maybe talk it out in the privacy of your home. With your partner, with your kids, with your parents.

Maybe you will talk it out further with others. With coworkers or church members or friends in your neighborhood.

Of course racial injustice need not be the only thing we talk about. But it is one thing we need to talk about. It’s worth our time. It’s worth the risk.

And it might just be a matter of life or death to another human being.

Oppression Hurts Everybody

Something stirs in each of us when we see injustice.

And when we cause or contribute to injustice ourselves? Once we realize it, let’s repent. Grieve it. Turn from it. Change.

Oppression not only harms the oppressed, it also destroys the oppressor. It eats away at our souls until they crack.

If you’re a follower of Jesus, Latasha Morrison says in her book Be the Bridge that we are the agents of reconciliation. And because of that:

It’s never too late for us to acknowledge and lament racial injustice. It’s never too late to understand the historic depth of racism and to ask God to show his mercy and heal us.”

It’s never too late to give our nation a fresh start and make the world a safer place.

I believe God smiles when he sees our attempts to play better together, to love each other stronger, to write each other’s names in chalk on sidewalks—for life, not death.

This is work for all of us to do.

We are all stewards of God’s grace.

Add Your Voice

We drove our granddaughter back home on Saturday. We returned home to a quiet house.

I put the sidewalk chalk back in its box. I’ll save it again for the next time she visits.

And then we’ll draw again. It still won’t be a masterpiece. We won’t get it perfect. Not many people will ever see it or know about it.

But we’ll know we did it. We’ll keep adding our names and voices to life’s conversation, however small. It will form us.

Add your voice, too.

You have something to say.

  • To somebody.
  • At some volume.
  • For peace and justice and righteousness.

Start somewhere.

Say your something.

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And Now . . . Our Featured Post

Yvonne Chase, a sister of color and of common faith, writes her response to a white sister about how to respond to racial injustice at her post, Silence Speaks Volumes.

She doesn’t want to offend you. But listen. Listen with your heart to her heart. 

I’ve been sitting with her words all week since I read her post.

“Whatever you do, don’t be silent….If you are my sister in Christ and believe we’re all made in God’s image, how can you be silent?”

May Yvonne’s words stick with you, too.

“Black people cannot fight this battle alone. We need our white allies to come alongside us and fight with us until change comes.”

Read all of Yvonne’s post here at her blog, YvonneChase.com.

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18 thoughts on “Whatever Your Volume, Say Something
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  1. blankLaurie

    Isn’t it always a little bit sad to come home to a quiet house after a grandchild’s visit? They make the house seem so alive!

    I read Yvonne’s post earlier this week and am still turning it over in my mind. Such a good one! This post is a good one too, Lisa! We all do need to speak up, even if we are ashamed or don’t feel as though we know the right words to say. If we look into our hearts and start from there, we will be alright.

    I loved this line: “Oppression not only harms the oppressed, it also destroys the oppressor.” So true!

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      It has been a very quiet week here without little feet and a little voice calling, “Granna, I’m awake!” after her naps. My daughter called this afternoon to see if we could keep both girls in August; I’m already excited about it. But will definitely need to rest up for a 2 year old and a baby at the same time for several days in a row. 🙂

      It is somewhat intimidating when we speak up because it’s hard to know what we want to say and how to best say it. I’m fearful of my words coming across as offensive when that’s not how I intend. But thankfully there is grace for each other when we flounder.

  2. blankBarbara Harper

    I appreciated Yvonne’s post, too. And I love what you said here, that first we need to talk it out with God, and then respond however He directs, and that may look different for different people.

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      Exactly, Barbara. Each person’s response is as unique as they are, and none of us should judge how the other responds. I appreciate what you wrote this week!

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      I appreciate what you said last week and for mentioning Yvonne’s post there too. I’m looking forward to what you’ll share next, Lauren. I know you take this personally too.

  3. blankBev @ Walking Well With God

    Lisa,
    I had read Yvonne’s post previously and found it to be very powerful. There is a strong part of me that wants to add my voice. Sadly, I’ve seen employees at my husband’s company lose their jobs for things they have posted or family members have posted on their personal social media pages. These were not hostile comments, but comments made with good intentions that were taken incorrectly. Having seen this, I am very hesitant to post anything for fear of it being viewed by critical eyes and possibly misunderstood. I am using my ears to listen and try to understand what it is like to live life in a different color of skin.
    Blessings,
    Bev xx

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      It’s unfortunate when that sort of thing happens. 🙁 I’m sorry that you’ve seen it happen with your husband’s work, Bev. I pray for change in the hearts among corporate leadership so people don’t have to fear standing up for justice in order to keep their jobs. Hopefully they’ll also be using their ears to listen. We’re all on a learning curve.

  4. blankTeresa

    Hi Lisa, I agree and loved your post and your friend’s post. I didn’t link up this week because my post isn’t a faith post, just a grandchild post. Have a great week friend!

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      Thanks, Teresa. When I read your grandchild post, it made me excited for August to get here. My daughter asked us to keep our 2 granddaughters for a weekend while she and her husband take a trip. We’ve kept the 2-year-old a couple weekends ago and LOVED it, but this time we’ll also add in the 8-month old. I know I’ll be tired at the end. 🙂 But it will be worth it.

    1. blankLisaNotes Post author

      Always okay to share; thanks, Teresa. I know how you feel–I have to limit my intake of the news (on every front) but I still am staying informed too, and it all breaks my heart. 🙁 I love hearing you speak your voice!

  5. blankCalvonia Radford

    I love your suggestion to say something to God. Perhaps that is where we all should start. We should invite God to test our hearts to see if there is any wicked way in there. And then we must agree with Him and commit to change.

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