I’ve never sung on national TV. Nor do I ever intend to.
But when I was watching American Idol a few weeks ago, I felt like I was on the stage myself.
The contestant Hunter Metts was singing along, doing a fine job, almost to the end of his song when…he forgot the words.
He was visibly distressed.
He stumbled through the song until it was over. And then he broke down.
He could hardly be comforted.
The three judges of Lionel Richie, Katy Perry, and Luke Bryan were all extremely gracious to him. They admitted their own mistakes through the years. They reassured him that it was normal, it was human, it was okay.
Watching Hunter stand there, in front of the world, so vulnerable, so sensitive, I couldn’t have loved him any more.
I felt incredibly connected to him in that moment. His humanity was mine, was ours. He was one of us.
I’m not sure why we fool ourselves that if we’re perfect, people will love us more.
It’s actually easier to love those more like us: flawed.
The lesson I learned from Hunter that night is that vulnerability is a gift. A gift given and a gift to receive.
I received that gift as I watched TV that night.
And I’m reminded to give the gift of my own vulnerability more often myself. (But it won’t be by singing on live TV!)
Flaws don’t have to ruin us. They just make us more human. And more connected.
Paula, our featured writer this week, lays herself bare in this post.
She shares her personal story with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks. And her reluctance to make it public.
“I wanted to write this piece several months ago. I was anxious and wrestled with doing so.
I was afraid of what others would think or what people from long ago would think, those who knew me before I became a new creation in Christ.”
But Paula also shares the truths that Jesus says about her.
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