6 Notes to Myself Before Our Next Fight

My thoughts in the car after a garden-variety argument with my spouse on a long ride home: If somebody says to you, “You hurt my feelings,” (1) believe them. Don’t…
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My thoughts in the car after a garden-variety argument with my spouse on a long ride home: If somebody says to you, “You hurt my feelings,” (1) believe them. Don’t…
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No Words She abruptly stopped talking as we stood outside her front door. She asked if we could wait here a minute. We said yes. When she came back, she…
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I knew we had a problem when I saw it was 1 a.m. Prior to looking at the clock, but after I woke up, I assumed it was time to…
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Is It Worth Getting Out of Bed? I hear our little guy stirring in his crib. We are babysitting our 1½-year-old grandson for the weekend. He is awake now. I…
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Start and Stop and Start and Stop You move through your day doing this and doing that. And it all runs together. But even within a day, even within an…
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We pick up rules before we have a chance to question them. ~ Ellen Langer This Is What? What is this? [* answer below] (a) wet/dry sander (b) cigarette roller…
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