Oh, Lynn. I’m so sorry that you get unsolicited advice about your mom’s care, even though I agree with you that people likely mean well. For some reason, people bring out all their suggestions when it comes to physical illnesses, as I’m sure you’re already aware of due to her vertigo. Granted, we do want to hear good advice when it’s helpful! But when you’ve already done the research and are under good medical care, you don’t really need to hear all the millions of options out there of remedies to experiment with. Blessings to you and your family as you walk out this season of illness with your sweet Fern. Love you.

I see you as one of those wise women that I wouldn’t question either, Dianna. You have a lot of experiences under your belt, and I would trust your discernment. I appreciate how gentle you are with your words online, and I’m just certain you’re that way in person as well. ❤️

Much wisdom in your words, Jennifer. It would smooth over many issues in relationships if more of us could follow your example…

I agree with you, Martha. And I’m wondering too what my friend will decide! And I’m also curious what is going on in the other person’s mind, if she is still as enthusiastic about her offer. But I’m keeping those thoughts to myself for now. 🙂

Thanks, Linda. I agree that sometimes we’re just helping ourselves when we offer our advice. And yes, it is hard to figure that out, though, in the thick of things. I often notice it after the fact, which isn’t particularly useful at that point, except to know to offer an apology… 🙂

You are the kind of friend who listens, and I’m grateful.

I pray your friend will receive the discernment she needs to do what is best for her, and I know you will give her that freedom.

xo
Lynn