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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221848&quot;&gt;Jean Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, an &quot;optimist&quot; is one word for you, Jean. A &quot;blessing&quot; is another one.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221848">Jean Wise</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, an &#8220;optimist&#8221; is one word for you, Jean. A &#8220;blessing&#8221; is another one.</p>
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		By: Jean Wise		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jean Wise]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221846&quot;&gt;LisaNotes&lt;/a&gt;.

good quote, and yes!  I guess the best place to begin when it seems the whole world is crazy is to speak kindly to the people we are with and interact with and mind our own manners on social media.  I am a optimist so will keep trying.  ( :]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221846">LisaNotes</a>.</p>
<p>good quote, and yes!  I guess the best place to begin when it seems the whole world is crazy is to speak kindly to the people we are with and interact with and mind our own manners on social media.  I am a optimist so will keep trying.  ( :</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221844&quot;&gt;Jean Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, I do, Jean. Fear as well as pride. :(

I read this today about listening:

&quot;For many of us, the opposite of talking isn&#039;t listening. It&#039;s waiting.&quot; As in, we&#039;re just waiting until it&#039;s our turn to talk again. We can do much better, yes?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221844">Jean Wise</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, I do, Jean. Fear as well as pride. 🙁</p>
<p>I read this today about listening:</p>
<p>&#8220;For many of us, the opposite of talking isn&#8217;t listening. It&#8217;s waiting.&#8221; As in, we&#8217;re just waiting until it&#8217;s our turn to talk again. We can do much better, yes?</p>
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		By: Jean Wise		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221844</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jean Wise]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:31:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221843&quot;&gt;LisaNotes&lt;/a&gt;.

you know you are right Lisa.  Applying that deep listening to all interactions would make a difference.  Don&#039;t you think so much of this comes from fear?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221843">LisaNotes</a>.</p>
<p>you know you are right Lisa.  Applying that deep listening to all interactions would make a difference.  Don&#8217;t you think so much of this comes from fear?</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221843</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221842&quot;&gt;Jean Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

The funny thing is I haven&#039;t heard any bad conversations in person; all that I&#039;ve &quot;heard&quot; has been online. :( I guess we haven&#039;t figured out yet that those conversations matter too. Our words need to be seasoned wherever we lay them down. 

Your post today about deep listening has really been on my mind today. How much different our relationships would be if we would practice that!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221842">Jean Wise</a>.</p>
<p>The funny thing is I haven&#8217;t heard any bad conversations in person; all that I&#8217;ve &#8220;heard&#8221; has been online. 🙁 I guess we haven&#8217;t figured out yet that those conversations matter too. Our words need to be seasoned wherever we lay them down. </p>
<p>Your post today about deep listening has really been on my mind today. How much different our relationships would be if we would practice that!</p>
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		By: Jean Wise		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221842</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jean Wise]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 01:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with you completely.  Too bad conversations get so out of hand. What happen to being civil and trying to understand another point of view and learning and growing? There is a societal meanness. Lots of prayer about!  Have a wonderful 4th weekend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you completely.  Too bad conversations get so out of hand. What happen to being civil and trying to understand another point of view and learning and growing? There is a societal meanness. Lots of prayer about!  Have a wonderful 4th weekend.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2015 20:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221809&quot;&gt;Lisa Tindal&lt;/a&gt;.

Just read your post. So grateful that regardless of what swirls around us, we can maintain our peace. And regardless of ugly chatter from any direction, we can center ourselves in love. That&#039;s the goal anyway. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221809">Lisa Tindal</a>.</p>
<p>Just read your post. So grateful that regardless of what swirls around us, we can maintain our peace. And regardless of ugly chatter from any direction, we can center ourselves in love. That&#8217;s the goal anyway. 🙂</p>
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		By: Lisa Tindal		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa Tindal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2015 15:04:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Good words.  I&#039;ve been burdened as well and wrote a little about in my blog this week.  
I am grateful for your reminders, too!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good words.  I&#8217;ve been burdened as well and wrote a little about in my blog this week.<br />
I am grateful for your reminders, too!</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2015 14:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221736&quot;&gt;Cindy&lt;/a&gt;.

Love you Cindy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221736">Cindy</a>.</p>
<p>Love you Cindy!</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2015 14:06:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221735&quot;&gt;Lorretta&lt;/a&gt;.

Love is always our correct response, yes? Thanks, Lorretta. May we all listen more to Jesus.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-ugly-out-there/#comment-221735">Lorretta</a>.</p>
<p>Love is always our correct response, yes? Thanks, Lorretta. May we all listen more to Jesus.</p>
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