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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2025 16:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336806&quot;&gt;Lynn Morrissey&lt;/a&gt;.

&quot;Living Freely and Lightly&quot; doesn&#039;t always come easy to me - I tend to have a more serious nature. So it&#039;s something I have to be intentional about, or yes, &quot;she&#039;s gonna blow.&quot; :) I do find it easier to play in summer, even though I am not beholden to a school schedule in any way at any time of year! ha.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336806">Lynn Morrissey</a>.</p>
<p>&#8220;Living Freely and Lightly&#8221; doesn&#8217;t always come easy to me &#8211; I tend to have a more serious nature. So it&#8217;s something I have to be intentional about, or yes, &#8220;she&#8217;s gonna blow.&#8221; 🙂 I do find it easier to play in summer, even though I am not beholden to a school schedule in any way at any time of year! ha.</p>
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		By: Lynn Morrissey		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lynn Morrissey]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2025 16:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When I was a contributing author to Dr. Charles Stanley&#039;s magazine, a couple years before it ended publication, my first essay, which I&#039;d called &quot;Living Freely and Lightly&quot; (from MSG Mt. 11:28-30), was about play (and the harms of not playing)! They retitled it as &quot;She&#039;s Gonna Blow.&quot; I&#039;m so glad your play rippled out in consecutive circles of joy. Lisa, I had not received this blogpost. Pls. ck to be sure my email  is still on your list, and I&#039;ll ck SPAM! I don&#039;t want to miss a thing you write. I happened to see this at One Word on FB.

Play away! It&#039;s summer!
xo
Lynn]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was a contributing author to Dr. Charles Stanley&#8217;s magazine, a couple years before it ended publication, my first essay, which I&#8217;d called &#8220;Living Freely and Lightly&#8221; (from MSG Mt. 11:28-30), was about play (and the harms of not playing)! They retitled it as &#8220;She&#8217;s Gonna Blow.&#8221; I&#8217;m so glad your play rippled out in consecutive circles of joy. Lisa, I had not received this blogpost. Pls. ck to be sure my email  is still on your list, and I&#8217;ll ck SPAM! I don&#8217;t want to miss a thing you write. I happened to see this at One Word on FB.</p>
<p>Play away! It&#8217;s summer!<br />
xo<br />
Lynn</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 16:40:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336758&quot;&gt;Barb Hegreberg&lt;/a&gt;.

I will always think about it too now. I finished a puzzle this week that had one piece missing - I was so torn about passing it along to anyone else because it was such a letdown to get to the end and realize it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336758">Barb Hegreberg</a>.</p>
<p>I will always think about it too now. I finished a puzzle this week that had one piece missing &#8211; I was so torn about passing it along to anyone else because it was such a letdown to get to the end and realize it.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 16:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336740&quot;&gt;Jennifer Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

I love your insight here, Jennifer! You&#039;re right - some of those childhood lessons don&#039;t have to be followed anymore because we&#039;ve matured out of them. I am trying to remember to question those old &quot;rules&quot; that I still follow out of habit. If they&#039;re still good, I want to keep them. But if they&#039;re ones I&#039;ve outgrown the need for, I want to bid them goodbye!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336740">Jennifer Wise</a>.</p>
<p>I love your insight here, Jennifer! You&#8217;re right &#8211; some of those childhood lessons don&#8217;t have to be followed anymore because we&#8217;ve matured out of them. I am trying to remember to question those old &#8220;rules&#8221; that I still follow out of habit. If they&#8217;re still good, I want to keep them. But if they&#8217;re ones I&#8217;ve outgrown the need for, I want to bid them goodbye!</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 16:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336663&quot;&gt;Katie Brewster&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Katie! I won&#039;t know who works the puzzle next, but hopefully whoever does will smile at finding the extra bag of end pieces. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336663">Katie Brewster</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Katie! I won&#8217;t know who works the puzzle next, but hopefully whoever does will smile at finding the extra bag of end pieces. 🙂</p>
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		By: Barb Hegreberg		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Barb Hegreberg]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2025 18:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I will never again put a puzzle away without putting the edge pieces in a separate bag. Genius...pure genius!! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will never again put a puzzle away without putting the edge pieces in a separate bag. Genius&#8230;pure genius!! </p>
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		By: Jennifer Wise		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jennifer Wise]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 16:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love these thoughts so much, Lisa!  In fact, as I was reading your &quot;first work, then play&quot; or &quot;no play until the work is done,&quot; I appreciated that you mentioned it&#039;s what we were taught AS CHILDREN.  As children, we needed that because we were more given to play.  Work also needs to be done, but we didn&#039;t care about it as much then, most likely.  It occurred to me that some things we learned in childhood literally DON&#039;T APPLY ANY MORE.  That is a huge takeaway for me today because I have a hard time playing (except on vacation, especially with my husband--like you) because the work is never done, as you so aptly pointed out.  This perspective is a great takeaway for me today.  Thank you!  :)  Visiting from the Sweet Tea &#038; Friends linkup.  (Love the puzzle story, by the way!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love these thoughts so much, Lisa!  In fact, as I was reading your &#8220;first work, then play&#8221; or &#8220;no play until the work is done,&#8221; I appreciated that you mentioned it&#8217;s what we were taught AS CHILDREN.  As children, we needed that because we were more given to play.  Work also needs to be done, but we didn&#8217;t care about it as much then, most likely.  It occurred to me that some things we learned in childhood literally DON&#8217;T APPLY ANY MORE.  That is a huge takeaway for me today because I have a hard time playing (except on vacation, especially with my husband&#8211;like you) because the work is never done, as you so aptly pointed out.  This perspective is a great takeaway for me today.  Thank you!  🙂  Visiting from the Sweet Tea &amp; Friends linkup.  (Love the puzzle story, by the way!)</p>
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		By: Katie Brewster		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katie Brewster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2025 22:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[May the ripple flow on:)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May the ripple flow on:)</p>
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		By: Nancy Ruegg		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy Ruegg]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2025 19:45:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336643&quot;&gt;LisaNotes&lt;/a&gt;.

You&#039;re welcome, Lisa!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336643">LisaNotes</a>.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re welcome, Lisa!</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2025 16:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336635&quot;&gt;Debbie Harris&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Deb. I&#039;m discovering that almost every post could be about ripples, in some way or another! I&#039;m having to restrain including it every time. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/do-you-have-to-earn-your-joy-guilt-in-a-box/#comment-336635">Debbie Harris</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Deb. I&#8217;m discovering that almost every post could be about ripples, in some way or another! I&#8217;m having to restrain including it every time. 🙂</p>
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