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		By: Lisa @ Reading, Writing, and Random Musings		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-303074</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa @ Reading, Writing, and Random Musings]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2020 18:35:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is something I am hard core working on right now. I find myself getting so frustrated and angry with people who are not taking the pandemic seriously. In the end, I always go back to I have no control over what others do, and I need to take care of myself and my family to the best of my ability. When I focus it that way, I tend to do better mentally (but I still have moments of frustration). Thanks for the discussion!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is something I am hard core working on right now. I find myself getting so frustrated and angry with people who are not taking the pandemic seriously. In the end, I always go back to I have no control over what others do, and I need to take care of myself and my family to the best of my ability. When I focus it that way, I tend to do better mentally (but I still have moments of frustration). Thanks for the discussion!</p>
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		By: Leanne McIntyre		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leanne McIntyre]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2020 12:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Really good read! Your honesty is refreshing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really good read! Your honesty is refreshing!</p>
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		By: Teresa		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302854</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2020 14:37:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa, Great post. I&#039;m sharing it with a friend of mine who has a serious lung condition and has had to be in the house way too long. She&#039;s missing her grands and life as we used to know it. I have experienced many of the same things you spoke about. Love the way you closed your post. Take care my friend!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa, Great post. I&#8217;m sharing it with a friend of mine who has a serious lung condition and has had to be in the house way too long. She&#8217;s missing her grands and life as we used to know it. I have experienced many of the same things you spoke about. Love the way you closed your post. Take care my friend!</p>
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		By: Louise (Little Hearts, Big Love)		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302805</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Louise (Little Hearts, Big Love)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2020 17:16:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh yes I can so relate to this. Not just with &#039;missing out&#039; when it comes to Covid-19 but also in other areas of life. It&#039;s not an easy thing to overcome. I&#039;m with you in finding taking a step back from social media helpful, trying not to judge other people for their decisions and reminding myself that the only person whose behaviour I have control over is me. #WotW]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yes I can so relate to this. Not just with &#8216;missing out&#8217; when it comes to Covid-19 but also in other areas of life. It&#8217;s not an easy thing to overcome. I&#8217;m with you in finding taking a step back from social media helpful, trying not to judge other people for their decisions and reminding myself that the only person whose behaviour I have control over is me. #WotW</p>
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		By: Bev @ Walking Well With God		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302800</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bev @ Walking Well With God]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2020 14:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lisa,
I appreciate your honesty in your post.  I have been in the same boat - allowing resentment to build.  While others are vacationing in maskless groups, we&#039;ve been hanging out in our back yard.  God, however, is the judge...not me.  As with everything we do in life, there will be an accounting to be made.  I just need to follow what I feel God is leading me to do and ask for His wisdom.  Great tips to keep us off the resentment bandwaggon.  What is truly sad is seeing young people dying because they thought the virus was one big joke...
Blessings,
Bev xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lisa,<br />
I appreciate your honesty in your post.  I have been in the same boat &#8211; allowing resentment to build.  While others are vacationing in maskless groups, we&#8217;ve been hanging out in our back yard.  God, however, is the judge&#8230;not me.  As with everything we do in life, there will be an accounting to be made.  I just need to follow what I feel God is leading me to do and ask for His wisdom.  Great tips to keep us off the resentment bandwaggon.  What is truly sad is seeing young people dying because they thought the virus was one big joke&#8230;<br />
Blessings,<br />
Bev xx</p>
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		By: Jennifer Dougan		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302774</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jennifer Dougan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2020 19:50:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa, 

It&#039;s nice to be back here. It&#039;s such a weird time, isn&#039;t it? So sad about George Floyd&#039;s death and the racial inequalities, and an uncertain and hard time for our hard working police officers too, as well as a strange polarizing season of life with the coronavirus and the pendulum of people&#039;s responses. I agree! 

We are walking that too in Minnesota. 

How are you?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa, </p>
<p>It&#8217;s nice to be back here. It&#8217;s such a weird time, isn&#8217;t it? So sad about George Floyd&#8217;s death and the racial inequalities, and an uncertain and hard time for our hard working police officers too, as well as a strange polarizing season of life with the coronavirus and the pendulum of people&#8217;s responses. I agree! </p>
<p>We are walking that too in Minnesota. </p>
<p>How are you?</p>
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		By: Lois Flowers		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lois Flowers]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2020 01:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Those are some wonderful steps, Lisa (and you even offered extra credit--even better). :-) No matter what anyone else thinks or does, all we can control is ourselves and our attitudes, right? Which is why I love how you ended ... &quot;Less bitterness, more beauty. Less guilt, more grace. Less dislike, more love.&quot; Amen to that, my friend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those are some wonderful steps, Lisa (and you even offered extra credit&#8211;even better). 🙂 No matter what anyone else thinks or does, all we can control is ourselves and our attitudes, right? Which is why I love how you ended &#8230; &#8220;Less bitterness, more beauty. Less guilt, more grace. Less dislike, more love.&#8221; Amen to that, my friend.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2020 15:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302658&quot;&gt;Sarah&lt;/a&gt;.

Oh my, you are definitely in a difficult situation, Sarah. I appreciate your prayer including mental health as well. We can&#039;t even imagine yet the long-term implications this will have on mental health, even as we watch what it&#039;s doing to our mental health in the short-term. I know my anxiety level has increased, and my situation is comparatively easy. Praying that you&#039;ll be able to stay content until you are able to see your families and that it won&#039;t be too much longer.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302658">Sarah</a>.</p>
<p>Oh my, you are definitely in a difficult situation, Sarah. I appreciate your prayer including mental health as well. We can&#8217;t even imagine yet the long-term implications this will have on mental health, even as we watch what it&#8217;s doing to our mental health in the short-term. I know my anxiety level has increased, and my situation is comparatively easy. Praying that you&#8217;ll be able to stay content until you are able to see your families and that it won&#8217;t be too much longer.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2020 15:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302637&quot;&gt;Kim Carberry&lt;/a&gt;.

It is frustrating. And now we wait for the number of cases to go up again over the next two weeks since our Independence Day holiday here in the states. :( Our hospitals are still able to handle the load in my area, but they are strained. I don&#039;t know how it will be a month from now though. Hopefully people are waking up more to the seriousness of it and will do better about complying with the guidelines from here on out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302637">Kim Carberry</a>.</p>
<p>It is frustrating. And now we wait for the number of cases to go up again over the next two weeks since our Independence Day holiday here in the states. 🙁 Our hospitals are still able to handle the load in my area, but they are strained. I don&#8217;t know how it will be a month from now though. Hopefully people are waking up more to the seriousness of it and will do better about complying with the guidelines from here on out.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LisaNotes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2020 15:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302627&quot;&gt;Jean Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Jean. I was preaching to myself, but glad if it helps others along the way too. Sounds like many of us have similar struggles that we are working through.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/its-not-fair-when-you-resent-those-ruining-it/#comment-302627">Jean Wise</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Jean. I was preaching to myself, but glad if it helps others along the way too. Sounds like many of us have similar struggles that we are working through.</p>
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