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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2016 21:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234597&quot;&gt;Lyli @3dlessons4life.com&lt;/a&gt;.

You&#039;re so right, Lyli. It does take effort on our part to get on the same page. Sometimes I want to give that effort; sometimes I get lazy. But it&#039;s always worth it!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234597">Lyli @3dlessons4life.com</a>.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re so right, Lyli. It does take effort on our part to get on the same page. Sometimes I want to give that effort; sometimes I get lazy. But it&#8217;s always worth it!</p>
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		By: Lyli @3dlessons4life.com		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2016 00:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It takes patience and wisdom and grace to get on the same page, but the rewards are so worth it.  Thanks for this reminder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It takes patience and wisdom and grace to get on the same page, but the rewards are so worth it.  Thanks for this reminder.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2016 17:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234592&quot;&gt;June&lt;/a&gt;.

I suspect your words are prophetic, June. I do believe God wants us to be much more humble than we are. It&#039;s a hard, slow lesson to learn (and oftentimes painful). But if we truly want to love each other as he loves us, we need to learn it. I know I have a long way to go in releasing my pride, but the first step is recognizing that I need to do it, right? Thinking I already know it all (including thinking I know exactly what people mean the first time they explain something to me) is definitely a sign of my pride. Have a blessed Sunday, friend!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234592">June</a>.</p>
<p>I suspect your words are prophetic, June. I do believe God wants us to be much more humble than we are. It&#8217;s a hard, slow lesson to learn (and oftentimes painful). But if we truly want to love each other as he loves us, we need to learn it. I know I have a long way to go in releasing my pride, but the first step is recognizing that I need to do it, right? Thinking I already know it all (including thinking I know exactly what people mean the first time they explain something to me) is definitely a sign of my pride. Have a blessed Sunday, friend!</p>
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		By: June		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2016 17:10:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;What we hear isn&#039;t always what was said.&quot; So true, Lisa! It&#039;s about perspective again, isn&#039;t it? Our eyes and ears, and certainly our mouths! are often conditioned by our past, our own agenda, our pride, etc. We need to strip away some preconceived notions and learned behaviors and listen and see with open hearts and minds. We {I} think we know so much! Yet in truth, we have so much to learn. God&#039;s humbling us, I think. For such a time that is coming. May we be obedient to His wisdom and His will. Thank you, friend. You are a light shining brightly.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;What we hear isn&#8217;t always what was said.&#8221; So true, Lisa! It&#8217;s about perspective again, isn&#8217;t it? Our eyes and ears, and certainly our mouths! are often conditioned by our past, our own agenda, our pride, etc. We need to strip away some preconceived notions and learned behaviors and listen and see with open hearts and minds. We {I} think we know so much! Yet in truth, we have so much to learn. God&#8217;s humbling us, I think. For such a time that is coming. May we be obedient to His wisdom and His will. Thank you, friend. You are a light shining brightly.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
		<link>https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234531</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 02:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234524&quot;&gt;Valerie Sisco&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, even our tones. It would probably serve me well to hear a recording of my tone because I&#039;m just certain I don&#039;t sound bad at times...but if I were to really hear myself, I&#039;d probably disagree. I loved your post on humility---we do have to get over ourselves, thinking we&#039;re always right, to be humble.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234524">Valerie Sisco</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, even our tones. It would probably serve me well to hear a recording of my tone because I&#8217;m just certain I don&#8217;t sound bad at times&#8230;but if I were to really hear myself, I&#8217;d probably disagree. I loved your post on humility&#8212;we do have to get over ourselves, thinking we&#8217;re always right, to be humble.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 01:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234521&quot;&gt;Sarah Donegan&lt;/a&gt;.

And isn&#039;t it so nice when we feel really heard? It truly is a gift. Have a blessed week, Sarah!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234521">Sarah Donegan</a>.</p>
<p>And isn&#8217;t it so nice when we feel really heard? It truly is a gift. Have a blessed week, Sarah!</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 01:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234518&quot;&gt;Steffanie Russ&lt;/a&gt;.

Isn&#039;t it funny how God will bring those practical examples to the forefront sometimes when we&#039;re least looking for them? Thanks for stopping by, Steffanie.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234518">Steffanie Russ</a>.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it funny how God will bring those practical examples to the forefront sometimes when we&#8217;re least looking for them? Thanks for stopping by, Steffanie.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 01:56:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234516&quot;&gt;Bill (cycleguy)&lt;/a&gt;.

If assumptions are evil, can we add that so are interruptions? :) I have to remind myself NOT to make so many assumptions about people&#039;s motives, too. Who knows a heart but the Lord? If I am going to assume, may I assume the best of people I love.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234516">Bill (cycleguy)</a>.</p>
<p>If assumptions are evil, can we add that so are interruptions? 🙂 I have to remind myself NOT to make so many assumptions about people&#8217;s motives, too. Who knows a heart but the Lord? If I am going to assume, may I assume the best of people I love.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 01:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234514&quot;&gt;floyd&lt;/a&gt;.

Well, I wasn&#039;t intentionally going there about the insurance companies, but you&#039;re free to draw your own conclusions from your own experiences. :) Yeah, listening is a skill you&#039;d think we all would have developed well by this stage in life, but there&#039;s still a lot more interest in talking than listening. Just more proof that self-centeredness runs deep.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234514">floyd</a>.</p>
<p>Well, I wasn&#8217;t intentionally going there about the insurance companies, but you&#8217;re free to draw your own conclusions from your own experiences. 🙂 Yeah, listening is a skill you&#8217;d think we all would have developed well by this stage in life, but there&#8217;s still a lot more interest in talking than listening. Just more proof that self-centeredness runs deep.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2016 01:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234513&quot;&gt;Heather&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m guilty too, Heather. I wish I had this down by now, but nope. Still learning! At least we&#039;re not alone. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/he-said-she-said/#comment-234513">Heather</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m guilty too, Heather. I wish I had this down by now, but nope. Still learning! At least we&#8217;re not alone. 🙂</p>
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