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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337308&quot;&gt;Brenda&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Brenda. I hope I&#039;ll remember this the next time I have a nightmare about bleachers tipping over. ha. Bleachers can be a good thing! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337308">Brenda</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Brenda. I hope I&#8217;ll remember this the next time I have a nightmare about bleachers tipping over. ha. Bleachers can be a good thing! 🙂</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2025 16:57:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337305&quot;&gt;Mona R McGinnis&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for these insights, Mona. And this is the third mention in a week from various sources referring to Women Who Run With the Wolves - I&#039;ll take that as a sign that I really need to move that book higher on my to-read list! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337305">Mona R McGinnis</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for these insights, Mona. And this is the third mention in a week from various sources referring to Women Who Run With the Wolves &#8211; I&#8217;ll take that as a sign that I really need to move that book higher on my to-read list! 🙂</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2025 16:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337303&quot;&gt;Melissa&lt;/a&gt;.

I tend to prefer work in the shadows too, and yes, it sometimes has felt that work is invisible and unappreciated. I had to have several pep talks with myself especially when I was raising kids that even when no one saw my work, what I did still had value. Although in one volunteer job I have now delivering meals, I am the face of the work and get TOO much credit, when I know the real work was spent by someone else in their kitchen for hours planning and preparing the food. When someone thanks me too much, I have to remind them that it&#039;s not me that deserves any credit but the cooks. :) 

I love your imagery that you were a bridge for your community - I hope I&#039;ll remember that for myself too! Thanks, Melissa.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337303">Melissa</a>.</p>
<p>I tend to prefer work in the shadows too, and yes, it sometimes has felt that work is invisible and unappreciated. I had to have several pep talks with myself especially when I was raising kids that even when no one saw my work, what I did still had value. Although in one volunteer job I have now delivering meals, I am the face of the work and get TOO much credit, when I know the real work was spent by someone else in their kitchen for hours planning and preparing the food. When someone thanks me too much, I have to remind them that it&#8217;s not me that deserves any credit but the cooks. 🙂 </p>
<p>I love your imagery that you were a bridge for your community &#8211; I hope I&#8217;ll remember that for myself too! Thanks, Melissa.</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2025 13:49:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great post and visual. So true every game isn&#039;t ours to play, and that is more than okay.  Cheering others on! Yes. Resting, needed. Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post and visual. So true every game isn&#8217;t ours to play, and that is more than okay.  Cheering others on! Yes. Resting, needed. Thank you.</p>
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		By: Mona R McGinnis		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2025 13:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thoughts that came to mind: good followers make good leaders; as Clarissa Pinkola Estes said in Women Who Run With the Wolves - sometimes we need to sit back &#038; pant &#038; wait; Melissa commented on the intrinsic value of working in the background - we can be our own cheerleader.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thoughts that came to mind: good followers make good leaders; as Clarissa Pinkola Estes said in Women Who Run With the Wolves &#8211; sometimes we need to sit back &amp; pant &amp; wait; Melissa commented on the intrinsic value of working in the background &#8211; we can be our own cheerleader.</p>
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		By: Melissa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2025 15:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this. As an Introvert, I&#039;ve always worked in outward facing positions (go figure). However, most of those positions were in supportive roles of those who were doing the direct service (training and managing volunteers working with new mothers, training and managing facilitators who were facilitating hands on activities with youth, offering support and resources for agricultural producers, etc). I had a brief time when I felt &quot;less than&quot; because the work I was doing was the quiet kind. There were no accolades or awards and I&#039;d fallen into the trap that my productivity defined my worth...but if my productivity was in the background, how would anyone know? I had to come to the realization that *I* knew, and that was all that mattered. I realized that, in my work, I was acting as bridge for my community to get from where they were to where they wanted to be or setting a foundation from which they could build a better life and that quiet work was so so important. So, yes, cheering on from the bleachers is such an important role for the whole game, no matter what anyone else might tell you :-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this. As an Introvert, I&#8217;ve always worked in outward facing positions (go figure). However, most of those positions were in supportive roles of those who were doing the direct service (training and managing volunteers working with new mothers, training and managing facilitators who were facilitating hands on activities with youth, offering support and resources for agricultural producers, etc). I had a brief time when I felt &#8220;less than&#8221; because the work I was doing was the quiet kind. There were no accolades or awards and I&#8217;d fallen into the trap that my productivity defined my worth&#8230;but if my productivity was in the background, how would anyone know? I had to come to the realization that *I* knew, and that was all that mattered. I realized that, in my work, I was acting as bridge for my community to get from where they were to where they wanted to be or setting a foundation from which they could build a better life and that quiet work was so so important. So, yes, cheering on from the bleachers is such an important role for the whole game, no matter what anyone else might tell you 🙂</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 22:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337269&quot;&gt;Michele Morin&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Michele. This particular passage has been more challenging than most. The language is a bit archaic so the phrases don&#039;t roll off my tongue (or through my brain) very easily. ;)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337269">Michele Morin</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Michele. This particular passage has been more challenging than most. The language is a bit archaic so the phrases don&#8217;t roll off my tongue (or through my brain) very easily. 😉</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 22:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337268&quot;&gt;Jean Wise&lt;/a&gt;.

I love your series of questions, Jean! They are useful to me too. I&#039;ve been thinking about my bleacher dreams for some time and wondering what they could possibly mean. I&#039;m exploring more possibilities now. And you&#039;re right that this is such a crazy time of uncertainty as we try to decide what is ours to do and what is not ours to do in this upheaval. Sometimes I don&#039;t feel like anything I do makes a difference. But then I remember that my actions are at least making a difference in me, if nowhere else, and that counts for something.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337268">Jean Wise</a>.</p>
<p>I love your series of questions, Jean! They are useful to me too. I&#8217;ve been thinking about my bleacher dreams for some time and wondering what they could possibly mean. I&#8217;m exploring more possibilities now. And you&#8217;re right that this is such a crazy time of uncertainty as we try to decide what is ours to do and what is not ours to do in this upheaval. Sometimes I don&#8217;t feel like anything I do makes a difference. But then I remember that my actions are at least making a difference in me, if nowhere else, and that counts for something.</p>
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		By: LisaNotes		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 21:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337265&quot;&gt;Martha J Orlando&lt;/a&gt;.

The people on the sidelines can truly be a gift too, Martha! Every team appreciates having a crowd of supporters who will cheer them on. We all have different roles at different times. I love your choice to play an encouragement role for this season you&#039;re in.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337265">Martha J Orlando</a>.</p>
<p>The people on the sidelines can truly be a gift too, Martha! Every team appreciates having a crowd of supporters who will cheer them on. We all have different roles at different times. I love your choice to play an encouragement role for this season you&#8217;re in.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 21:56:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337264&quot;&gt;Barbara Harper&lt;/a&gt;.

Good points, Barbara. Our &quot;games&quot; change as we move through life, and usually leaving one behind makes room for a new one. Yes, there is always plenty to do for each of us. 

I know what you mean - sometimes the cheerleaders can be a bit bothersome when they actually prevent us from getting more involved with the game instead of engaging us more with it. ha. It&#039;s interesting how homefield advantage really is a thing though when there is a good crowd supporting their team.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://lisanotes.com/finding-purpose-from-the-bleachers/#comment-337264">Barbara Harper</a>.</p>
<p>Good points, Barbara. Our &#8220;games&#8221; change as we move through life, and usually leaving one behind makes room for a new one. Yes, there is always plenty to do for each of us. </p>
<p>I know what you mean &#8211; sometimes the cheerleaders can be a bit bothersome when they actually prevent us from getting more involved with the game instead of engaging us more with it. ha. It&#8217;s interesting how homefield advantage really is a thing though when there is a good crowd supporting their team.</p>
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