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	Comments on: Conflict, Estrangement, and the Choices We Make About Belonging: Three Books About Struggling to Connect	</title>
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		By: Aritha		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lisa, what a thoughtful and interesting post! ❤️ I really appreciate how you look at these three books critically, without trying to find one simple answer to such complicated questions.

I especially appreciated your thoughts on &quot;No Contact&quot;. You can have the best intentions and choose your words ever so carefully, but rebuilding a relationship takes more than one person&#039;s willingness. You cannot have a conversation on your own. Thanks fot that.

And I love the idea that disagreement doesn&#039;t necessarily have to mean disconnection. We don&#039;t have to agree on everything to love and respect each other.

But sometimes, despite our best efforts, a conversation just isn&#039;t possible. And I think that&#039;s where wisdom comes in. Knowing when to keep trying and when to let go. It&#039;s hard for me.

What struck me most is that you leave room for both. Not every relationship needs to end because things become difficult, but neither can every relationship be repaired simply because we want it to be. Thank you so much, Lisa. You&#039;ve given me a lot to think about. ❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lisa, what a thoughtful and interesting post! ❤️ I really appreciate how you look at these three books critically, without trying to find one simple answer to such complicated questions.</p>
<p>I especially appreciated your thoughts on &#8220;No Contact&#8221;. You can have the best intentions and choose your words ever so carefully, but rebuilding a relationship takes more than one person&#8217;s willingness. You cannot have a conversation on your own. Thanks fot that.</p>
<p>And I love the idea that disagreement doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to mean disconnection. We don&#8217;t have to agree on everything to love and respect each other.</p>
<p>But sometimes, despite our best efforts, a conversation just isn&#8217;t possible. And I think that&#8217;s where wisdom comes in. Knowing when to keep trying and when to let go. It&#8217;s hard for me.</p>
<p>What struck me most is that you leave room for both. Not every relationship needs to end because things become difficult, but neither can every relationship be repaired simply because we want it to be. Thank you so much, Lisa. You&#8217;ve given me a lot to think about. ❤️</p>
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